Victim's Dad lunges at Nassar in Court

Submitted by MGoBrewMom on
I'm surprised it didn't happen sooner. Father of 3 daughters assaulted by Nassar asks for 3 minutes alone with Nassar. When judge says "you know I can't do that" father lunges and has to be restrained and handcuffed out of court. At end says to officers restraining him "what if this happened to you guys?" http://www.cnn.com/2018/02/02/us/larry-nassar-attack-court/index.html?a…

UMfan21

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:19 AM ^

I may be wrong, but I thought even in protective custody there are times when prisoners sometimes mix.  I dont remember if it's at meal time or in the yard.  I don't think he will be completely isolated 24x7 but I may be wrong.

There have also been cases where people are supposed to be isolated and guards "accidentally" let another inmate past.

bsand2053

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:40 AM ^

It's hard to take in cognitive dissoance required to say "Sexual assualt is bad" and "I hope that someone gets sexually assualted".  

I'm not saying that's what you are saying but its a common attittude.  Having never been the victim of a violent crime I could never tell a survivor what they should feel.  Hell I would never tell anyone that they shouldn't feel rage or a desire for reciprocal justice when confronted with evil like this.  But I think it speaks poorly of our society that the reaction to crimes like these is often barely disguised vigilantism.

what would Bo do

February 2nd, 2018 at 12:22 PM ^

I understand what you're saying and assure you the irony isn't lost on me.  I intentionally avoided any reference to Nassar potentially getting sexually assaulted in his upcoming prison sentence for this exact reason.  Looking at it from the perspective of the prison guard (as I mentioned previously, I know one personally), if you know that a group of inmates are going to gang up on another inmate, how much risk are you willing to take on to protect that other inmate when you know the incomprehensibly bad things that inmate has done?  Would you risk your physical well being to prevent a known child molestor from suffering an assault from his fellow inmates, even if you disagreed with their vigilante justice?  These questions are rhetorical, but I don't think anything I mentioned speaks poorly of our society, but I'll acknowledge that that's just like, my opinion, man.

bsand2053

February 2nd, 2018 at 1:53 PM ^

I understand what you are saying.  I was trying to speak generally because I didn't want to put words in your mouth.

Regarding your question of whether or not I would risk my safety or my life to protect Nassar or someone simliar the answer is almost certainly not. But that's one of the many reasons I would never be a CO.  

 

I guess my overall point is that I can't judge the desire to see justice meted out but I think a civilized society of laws ought to recognize those baser instincts and move on from them.

Jonesy

February 2nd, 2018 at 2:38 PM ^

That's a pretty simplistic view. Shooting a random person is bad, shooting someone trying to murder a baby is good. Most importantly Nassar needs to be prevented from every doing this again, after that I personally don't see anything wrong with making this monster suffer as much as possible before he dies, I find it preferable.

B1G_Fan

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:42 AM ^

 Even in a solitary confinement situation, prisoners still have access to each other here and there. People like Nasser are usually in protective custody which is just a unit with other folks scared for their safety. Solitary is usually a punishment.

SoDak Blues

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:53 AM ^

No shit man. I have a five year old daughter and absolutely cannot comprehend the guilt, anger/rage, and desire for "justice" (whatever that may be) these parents are experiencing. Not to be cynical, but I don't want my daughter alone with any male other than myself and her grandpas. 

FauxMo

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:55 AM ^

How sad is this...? I have a 14 year old daughter and actually thought to myself the other day, "well, I am glad she made it past the age where she is likely to be molested by some monster. Now we just need to worry about violent sexual assault the next, oh, 50-60 years or so..." 

SoDak Blues

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:00 AM ^

Extraordinarily sad! My daughter recently started taking French lessons from a fantastic instructor who is a friend of a friend and is wonderful with her. But there is no damn way that I am not essentially standing outside the door listening to the lessons. And it isn't going to get easier as she gets older. I try to make sure she has a strong, caring male influence, but that isn't going to stop perverted/deranged fuckers. 

UMfan21

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:15 AM ^

Mine is 10.  She was talking with my wife and I last night about how she knows it's not ok to talk to strangers, etc and we ended up having a talk about how even the people you know who are "good people" may sometimes be bad (wife and I had Nassar in mind).  We had a serious talk about how NOBODY has the right to touch your body, no matter if you know them or not, or how "good" you think they are.

 

bronxblue

February 2nd, 2018 at 11:27 AM ^

They did their job. They have no idea what this parent is trying to do. Imagine if he killed Nassar even with one punch and then has to go to jail for it? I think Nassar should be put to death, but following specific protocols. I know it would feel cathartic for a moment to beat the shit out of this guy, but he has hurt people for the rest of their lives and they need each other to heal, and we can't lose sight of that.

You Only Live Thrice

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:51 AM ^

This guy deserves the worst treatment imaginable.  What scum.  There is no messing around here.  For some reason seeing this just drove it home even more for me.  This has made me pause many times throughout these court proceedings to reexamine my role as a company leader and how this can never occur in any organization that I belong to

s1105615

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:51 AM ^

1. He was completely justified in this reaction
2. I have to wonder how much of this was motivated by the idea of becoming a talk show sensation. He had to know that the judge would never grant him his request and that he wouldn’t get close enough to touch Nassar there. So why go through with the attempt anyway?

evenyoubrutus

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:57 AM ^

I really don't think justified is the right word. Maybe understandable? But this is a lack of self control and he put his children through the trauma of watching him be arrested in a court room. Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging because I have no idea (and hopefully never will) of what it feels like to have this happen to your child, but at the same time I don't know that applauding him is the appropriate response either.

evenyoubrutus

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:34 AM ^

Maybe my values are different than others, but I wouldn't want to teach my kids that it's okay to attack someone in court. Or really, in any situation, unless it is a matter of self defense. We have a justice system here. If everyone followed their urges like this man did then we would have a complete breakdown of society Come on, are you serious?

evenyoubrutus

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:45 AM ^

I know, but that's what I'm saying. Everyone wants to congratulate this guy like he's some sort of hero for doing this. I think he's suffered something that most of us could never even imagine and he's (understandably) messed up because of it. All in really getting at is that we, as a society, should not be romanticizing this kind of behavior.

LSAClassOf2000

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:20 AM ^

Your first point touches on something I think everyone here who is a parent understands - the rage and guilt this man feels has to be incredible, and although the rational us knows you can't do it, the part of you that is a father totally gets it (or at least gets thinking about it). 

Your second point is a really warped interpretation of this man's motivations, IMHO.

Perkis-Size Me

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:37 AM ^

A fathers rage, man. 

It's your job to protect your children at all costs. And when you see a man standing in front of you who has abused and sexually violated your own daughter, I know I'd want to beat him to death too. I doubt it was a publicity stunt. I think it was just a man who loved his daughter, lost control of reason (who could blame him?) and wanted Nassar to get what he deserved. 

The cops were in the right to take him out of there in handcuffs. Law and order is in place for a reason, and while I'm sure there was a sliver of thought in those cop's minds where they wanted to just let him go, they've got a job to do. No matter how hard it may be. 

bronxblue

February 2nd, 2018 at 11:28 AM ^

Ah yes, because being a talking head for a segment on CNN was the driving force behind a guy wanting to murder the man who sexually assaulted all three of his children. Good lord is this whole situation making people grasp at the worst of straws.

WindyCityBlue

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:57 AM ^

No one I know has been impacted by this scumbag's actions, yet I feel a sense of rage towards Nassar.  I can only imagine what parents and relatives of those impacted feel.

jbrandimore

February 2nd, 2018 at 9:58 AM ^

Obviously, they won't let him get to Nassar, but he should have done this at a MSU Board meeting, where he might have gotten a couple licks in before the cops showed up.

GoBLUE_SemperFi

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:00 AM ^

...has a full grasp of what her client has done and the impact that he has had on his victims and their families.  Not after reading her comments yesterday:

--- "There were girls who had perfectly normal lives that never questioned the medical treatment done by Larry Nassar — and there is a legitimate medical treatment that involves touching sensitive areas and even penetrations," she said.

"Some of those girls, to be quite frank, they didn’t even know what to think because they never felt victimized. He was never inappropriate to them. And because of everything they’ve seen, they just feel like they must have been victimized. And I think that’s really unfortunate."

"I have a very hard time believing that my client could have even possibly assaulted that many people day in and day out in front of their parents, and that every single one of those things was a crime, but he was such a manipulator he got away with it," she added. "I just can’t imagine that’s true." --- 

GoBLUE_SemperFi

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:06 AM ^

Weren't given in a sentencing hearing, it was an interview outside of any court proceedings.  I don't think that victim shaming is part of the job description.  If it is, let's hope that this father is that understanding.

UMfan21

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:08 AM ^

Exactly.  And the interview was given well after he's been sentenced to die in prison, so it's not like her statement is going to sway any judge or jury to spare him anything of substance.  It was a repulsive, ignorant statement.

bronxblue

February 2nd, 2018 at 11:34 AM ^

But of Nassar wants to push for a mistrial due to ineffective counsel, evidence that his own attorney shortly after the proceedings didn't believe his defense would be damning. She may very well believe that he is innocent or some of these girls are misremembering; there is some evidence that when a large number of related people believe something happened to them all, they'll remember things differently to fit that narrative. That doesn't mean he didn't sexually assault all of the women who spoke out, but that's the seed of doubt she has to maintain. I don't blame an attorney in this case for advocating for her client, even though she clearly could have taken a better approach.

GoBLUE_SemperFi

February 2nd, 2018 at 10:33 AM ^

these comments were made in an interview on a radio show, sentencing is done.  There is no gain in blaming these victims and these comments certainly won't be entered as part of any defense to mitigate further punishment.  

Maybe she wants to believe these comments, because it makes her feel better personally, seeing Nassar as only having sexually abused 30-40 young girls, instead of 150-200.

Having said that...if that truly is her motivation, defending her client...she might want to consider another approach, a more tactful approach, because I don't think this argument would have been anymore effective in the court room, than it was on this radio show.