Perkis-Size Me

January 5th, 2022 at 4:46 PM ^

The day we are able to cure Alzheimers will be one of the landmark achievements of modern human history. Its such a terrible disease that robs the afflicted and their loved ones of so much, physically, mentally and emotionally, and there's nothing anyone can currently do about it but watch it happen. 

But a cure is coming. When? I have no clue, but it is coming, and when it does, the world will finally be rid of one of its truly worst, most debilitating and defeating diseases. 

dragonchild

January 5th, 2022 at 4:55 PM ^

Mother has Alzheimer’s. There absolutely are things people can do to help. They just don’t, and use helplessness as an excuse.

I’m fucking exhausted and it feels like no one gives a flying fuck. If you know someone who was forced into the circumstance of caregiving for an Alzheimer’s victim, if you care at all, for the love of Blue, HELP THEM. Offer to pick up groceries, bring over a hot meal, or maybe drop by and vacuum, so they can take a walk or treat themselves to a coffee. Any time you can buy them to help them care for themselves instead of being a slave to circumstance will literally extend their life and even lower their own risk of dementia.

michengin87

January 5th, 2022 at 5:33 PM ^

Agreed.  My father has Alzheimer's. At my wife's urging, I was fortunate to be able to make a job change and spend more time with mom and dad.  I was amazed at how much of an impact spending a few hours every couple of days with them.  It gives my mom a big break (physically and emotionally) and was able to noticeably slow the progression just by keeping him more active.

oriental andrew

January 5th, 2022 at 5:46 PM ^

So sorry to hear about your mother. 

I can relate to being a caregiver to an ailing parent. My mother had ALS for several years before passing and I, along with my father (who was battling depression since he is a physician who could do nothing to cure his wife), was the primary caregiver to her. It was absolutely the most exhausting and physically/emotionally/mentally draining thing I've ever been through. There were times I literally fell asleep at the office in the middle of typing emails or working on reports. Way more exhausting than dealing with a colicky newborn. 

Anything you can do to relieve a caregiver - even the smallest of gestures - means more than you can imagine. 

Wendyk5

January 5th, 2022 at 6:21 PM ^

My father had dementia and probably Alzheimer's in his later years and lived in another part of the country. He had the most fantastic caregiver - she was a saint. I count myself as unbelievably lucky to have found her. Caregivers are some of the best people in the world. 

BuddhaBlue

January 5th, 2022 at 8:40 PM ^

There's also usually county-level resources. Check out r/agingparents on reddit (if only for the commiseration)

My aunt is going through all this now, it really is unimaginable the position she's in, the work, exasperation, constant vigilance, fear, uncertainty, financial desperation. It's breaking her

Perkis-Size Me

January 6th, 2022 at 10:14 AM ^

All great points, and I hope you know I meant no disrespect. There are absolutely things you can do to help. I think I was just coming at it from the medical/medicinal side of things, which to my understanding there isn't much we can do to stop or significantly slow the effects of the disease right now. I watched my grandfather succumb to Alzheimers ten years ago and it was an awful experience. 

rob f

January 5th, 2022 at 6:36 PM ^

Sparky set the bar for white hair while Greg set the gold standard for grey hair.

Greg Robinson was a good coach who earned a better reputation elsewhere than the one he had in two seasons at Michigan. He took over the DCoordinator position from Scott Shafer during the no-defense regime of RichRod and tried unsuccessfully to patch together something out of nothing.

Rest in Peace, Coach Robinson. 

GoBlue96

January 5th, 2022 at 5:31 PM ^

Way too young.  RIP.  My resolution this year was to get to the doctor and start screening for everything.  Already have 4 appointments this month.

HighBeta

January 5th, 2022 at 7:15 PM ^

This might seem like I am hyping a service, I am not.

Consider DNA/genetic testing from a reputable lab (like 23andme) for inherited tendencies and know your biological family history. Knowing what's probably coming allows you to "take evasive actions" and treat things e-a-r-l-y, which beats late, always.

Just do it ...

lmgoblue1

January 5th, 2022 at 9:25 PM ^

Before you do that (genetic testing) get life insurance if you don't already have it. You don't want to pay more than you should be paying or be penalized for a chance at having a higher genetic risk. Insurance companies use data mining and find out a lot about you, more than you imagine. And yes, I am an expert in life insurance. The sooner, the better.

 

RIP GERG. I always liked the man.

Don

January 5th, 2022 at 5:39 PM ^

I'm a month short of 69, so hearing of somebody passing at 70 from any affliction is sobering.

Dementia is the only disease that truly terrifies me—I observed it firsthand in my late father, and I'd rather go early from a heart attack next week than go through what he did in his 80s.

k.o.k.Law

January 5th, 2022 at 6:16 PM ^

Being a coach can be brutal.

He told the story of picking up the newspaper off his front porch Christmas Day, the day before a Bronco playoff game, with the headline above the fold: "Is This Robinson's Last Game as A Bronco Coach?"

Heard him tell one of the funniest stories I ever heard.

His area for recruiting was the East Coast when he was at UCLA.

Last trip of the recruiting season,

4 kids, aged like 3 to 10.

His wife was noticeably distraught.

What is the problem? he asks

EVERY TIME YOU ARE GONE, they all come in to sleep with me,

and one at a time, so whenever I get back to sleep, another one appears.

I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT!

So GERG calls the family together.

Very important, each of you has to guarantee you will leave Mom alone at night, and stay in your own bed.

Every kid buys in.

Pre 9-11 days, family all there to greet him at LAX, he gets off the fully loaded plane.

500 people, he says, crowded around upstairs to meet those disembarking.

The oldest runs to the front, shouting and waving:  "Dad, Dad, Dad!!!"

Yes son?

In a voice everyone can hear:

"Guess what!  For the first time when you were gone, nobody slept with Mom!!!"

 

R.I.P.

 

 

XM - Mt 1822

January 5th, 2022 at 9:02 PM ^

one of his brothers is a close and long-time friend of mine from when i lived out west.  that brother texted me today.   i know or have met i think all 8 of his siblings at one time or another.  when greg became DC at michigan it was a big thrill.  right up until he found out he had 28 scholarship players on D, the rest were on rich rod's offense.   greg had the definition of an empty cupboard when he got tapped to be DC. for us and did the best he could with what he had.  oh, rich rod also mandated that stupid 3-3-5 defense which greg had never run before.  that didn't help, either.  

formalinvite

January 5th, 2022 at 7:19 PM ^

I had the chance to play 18 holes of golf with Greg Robinson, Frank Beckman, and a UM staffer, Ted Spencer at Jackson CC when Greg was DC at UM. He was very pleasant to be around for 4 hours and willing to answer any questions that I posed. Of course, I was respectful and mainly threw softball questions his way. May he RIP !!!

The Deer Hunter

January 5th, 2022 at 7:40 PM ^

Too soon Gerg. RIP.

Some historically bad defensive rankings, but not many defenses could hold up in the Rich Rod era when required to be on the field for 40 minutes a game. 

LSAClassOf2000

January 5th, 2022 at 8:06 PM ^

Alzheimer's is an awful, awful disease. I have watched two people in my extended family sadly suffer and eventually pass from it. Whatever we may think of his tenure here, Robinson did have a rather productive career on the whole at both the professional and college levels, I would think. 

Grampy

January 5th, 2022 at 10:11 PM ^

He was a better coach than he got to show at Michigan. RIP, Coach Robinson.  He arrived on the scene just as MgoBlog exploded and Brian was fill of piss and vinegar. We were pretty hard on him, but I never heard an unkind word from him about his time here.