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Brian

[Eric Upchurch]

Big mood today:

I thought Urban Meyer would skate away from the Zach Smith thing largely unscathed, and he has. But I'm still shocked this morning because OSU released a report that provides details of Smith's employment and Meyer's actions. First and foremost, Meyer's first action after the Brett McMurphy report that set this chain of events in motion was to delete all text messages older than a year off his phone. If your first reaction to a media report is to destroy evidence, that's a firing offense.

It goes on, pointlessly, detailing years of Smith's very very obvious issues and Meyer's continuing enablement of them before getting into OSU's response post-McMurphy and the lies Meyer told in an effort to make it all go away. It concludes with a burst of stunningly inane pretzel logic in the service of keeping Meyer in his job. Nicole Auberbach:

The 12-hour meeting was about inserting the pretzel logic. Meanwhile, this was the guy who Meyer kept in his program for a decade:

(b) At 7:35 p.m., Shelley Meyer conveyed, in a text to Coach Meyer, that “I am worried about Zach’s response. He drinks a lot and I am just not sure how stable he will be. Afraid he will do something dangerous. It’s obvious he has anger/rage issues already.” Meyer did not respond to the message.

In response to this, a slap on the wrist and a warning that if Meyer covers for the actions of a serial abuser for another decade there might be Serious Consequences.

And I dunno, guys. What's even the point anymore? Michigan's main rivals are both proven loathsome institutions. They beat Michigan on the football field, so no one cares. Meyer will face no real consequences for his behavior. Mark Dantonio has faced no consequences for bringing Auston Robertson to campus. Both have enabled abuse, in full view of the public, and nobody cares because they win games. Michigan State tried not to care about Larry Nassar and even when forced to by public outrage still gave Lou Anna Simon a golden parachute; they continue to lie to this day.

No real consequences for anyone for anything except losing football games. No shame. Michigan will go down to Columbus in November and very probably lose again and all will be forgiven, except all is already forgiven. Except there was never anything to forgive in the first place.

We need to stop looking at the NCAA as an organization that is supposed to check these behaviors and start looking at it as the primary cause of them. Every big time school looks at their bylaws as a joke to get around. Every major recruit is getting paid under the table. There is a giant see-no-evil culture across the sport. To some extent this is fine because the evil that people aren't seeing is people exchanging labor for money, but once you have a sport-wide code of silence it can easily be extended to wife beaters. Or rapists. Or anything, really.

And then how are you supposed to care?

Comments

MGoStrength

August 23rd, 2018 at 1:27 PM ^

Ugh, can we just beat these fools so we can stop hearing about how good these coaches are since wins and losses is all that's cared about and us beating them is the only thing that will put cracks in their facade.  

dragonchild

August 23rd, 2018 at 1:59 PM ^

We'll see.  I want to believe that honor and ethics are tied to productivity and healthy work habits at the individual level.  Greed, bigotry, and dishonesty are associated with sloth, hubris, and antisocial behavior.  Ergo, over time, trustworthy individuals will succeed by working hard, working smart, and working together, whereas the self-serving will fail.

I do have to admit, though. . . I was wrong.  I don't have a shred of evidence to back up my beliefs these days.

I'm glad I'm not a parent.  I've spared myself the choice of raising a kid to be wholesome vs. successful.

You Only Live Twice

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:31 PM ^

It's not for everyone, so kudos to you and others who are honest about being glad they are not a parent.  Personally I love being a parent and it's been the most rewarding job possible.

Urban Meyer is not the epitome of "success."  He's a rich sleaze who wins games.  More people would rather NOT be him, than be him - sometimes the best thing you can do to maintain perspective is to get to know people who are not involved with sports.  It can make you feel defensive, at times.  If you spend time talking with someone who devotes their life towards, for example, fighting childhood malnutrition in developing countries and they look at you funny and question why your sports teams are so darn important to you.  I will listen politely and consider what they have to say, and yet still enjoy watching my teams but maybe with more of a balanced perspective.  And going back to Urban, he unraveled at Florida and he is starting to unravel at OSU now.  Incidentally OSU was on notice of his character when they hired him.  

I will always, always be thrilled with a Michigan victory, and will always hope for same.  If we lose to one or more of these loathesome institutions though, it doesn't affect me the way it used to.  CFB isn't going to change until the NCAA puts some teeth into its own regs.

 

MGoStrength

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:54 PM ^

It's hard to believe that isn't it?  I still think it's true that doing the right thing will pay off in long run and doing the wrong thing will eventually catch up to you if you look at a big enough time frame.  But, I think that's more true of sleeping well at night and having the people who really know you respect you.  It may not be as obvious to the outsiders.  And, I'm not sure it correlates to how high you reach or how quickly you get there in your profession.  You may find a guy like Meyer reaches the top fast, but eventually has a fall from grace which begs the question was it worth it?  For me the answer would be no and I'd rather have less success and go about it the right way.  But, all the OSU fans still get the benefit of all his winning and us UM fans are still hoping to beat them.

Hotel Putingrad

August 23rd, 2018 at 1:48 PM ^

This is precisely why winning matters, whether on the gridiron or at the ballot box.

It's the only sword of justice remaining to counteract those who have neither scruples nor shame.

matty blue

August 23rd, 2018 at 1:58 PM ^

agree 100%.

i love football.  i love going to and watching michigan football games.  but i can count on my fingers the number of non-michigan games i've watched in the last decade, at least partially because these are young, often poor, often minority, kids that literally put their lives and future health in danger so that older, more wealthy, often white, fans can cheer and pump their chests.

it's the roman coliseum for modern times.

the other reason i'm losing interest is shit like this.  scumbags who will do anything and allow anything, as long as they keep winning, and i'm not even talking about urban meyer.  i'm talking about the scumbag administration of his university and the scumbag fans that enable him, and will continue to do so...apparently up to and including rape and murder (cf: aaron hernandez). 

if you believe that urban meyer (or joe paterno, or mark dantonio) should keep his job you have made a conscious ethical choice between winning and basic human decency.  osu has made that choice.

wear that scarlet and grey with pride, scumbags.

ANervousBird

August 23rd, 2018 at 1:59 PM ^

It’s so difficult to talk about this with anyone in Columbus.

They assume you’re a Michigan fan and immediately shift the conversation to Grant Perry.  There was one guy who was convinced that Michigan protected two players who raped a girl.  Never heard about that.

HateSparty

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:03 PM ^

I have not and will not read the comments because I am guaranteed that there will be an ignorant OSU fan in here with some immense stupidity and rationalization.  It is too bad that the Mods continue to allow it to occur.  As in this topic, it ruins the board.  Unfortunately, it's exactly as they intend to do.  Much like cowardice terrorists and their fear manufacturing.

oldhackman

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:18 PM ^

Meyer's punishment is exactly what I expected.  The only thing we can hope for is that there still is a "Michigan Way".  Problems are going to arise and scandals are bound to happen; it's how the university responds to scandals that create the culture, and it's the culture that ultimately creates the legacy.  John Belein has proven you can both win and be clean.  This just has to be the "Michigan Way".  It is only then that we can truly celebrate our successes on the field. 

Go Blue!

 

Away Goal

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:21 PM ^

OSU was given the perfect opportunity to PRETEND that they care, and they took full advantage w/out any real tangible punishment.  Guaranteed as the season goes on there will ESPN pieces about how the OSU football team is using the incident to rally around and come together...them against the world.  They will turn it into a positive.

Autostocks

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:37 PM ^

Tired of the self-righteousness and passing judgment on our competitors and their loathesomeness, if that's a word. Our University and athletic programs have made mistakes.  There's a whole rash of people who are still pissed about the Brendan Gibbons situation.  Judge not lest ye be judged.  OSU and MSU will be what they will be.  I'd rather focus internally on making sure Michigan is a Leader and Best.

jamesjosephharbaugh

August 23rd, 2018 at 9:57 PM ^

This isn’t self righteous. The very same writer has called out UM for its mistakes. See the 2014 post THIS IS NOT MICHIGAN. my all time favorite on this blog. Michigan has been called out on this site for being bad at FOIA, for hiring jay Harbaugh, for being sly about scholarships, for making non-committable offers, for who knows what else. The school may make mistakes but mgoblog doesn’t circle their wagons 

 

Saludo a los v…

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:39 PM ^

 

We need to stop looking at the NCAA as an organization that is supposed to check these behaviors and start looking at it as the primary cause of them...There is a giant see-no-evil culture across the sport.

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mulhemp

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:43 PM ^

I know this is petty, but right now I am so ashamed and angry at the Big10 it seems any little dig we can get at all of the abusers in our league the better.  From now on tOSU and MSU should be referred to a tlOSU and lOSU (lower case L) which is for, as Brian said, loathsome.  Because really what is more  loathsome than protecting serial abusers. F&%! both those schools and at least lets kick their ass on the field since we are already beating them in every category that really matters....

 

Go Blue!

Ron Utah

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:46 PM ^

How are you supposed to care?

  • Grant Newsome
  • Denard Robinson
  • Vincent Smith
  • John Beilein
  • Larry Prout Jr.
  • Jim Harbaugh
  • Jack Harbaugh
  • Karan Higdon
  • Rashan Gary
  • Jabrill Peppers
  • Jourdan Lewis

There are so many more reasons to care than reasons not to care.  All of the men listed here are contributing to bettering the world in their own way.  And college sports enabled/is enabling that.

Don't ever let the assholes ruin it for you.

barneythesailor

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:47 PM ^

Meyer "deleted" texts off of his university phone that were more than 1 year old. We all know that those texts are never really "deleted" - they are out there someplace and can be retrieved. Being an Ohio public employee, all of his communications (emails, texts, etc.) are subject to public records. I find it interesting that the investigative committee was given 14 days to do/complete their investigation. Not really enough time to do undergo requesting the deleted texts (which are public records) and then the process to actually do the technical stuff to retrieve them. 

 

Mongo

August 23rd, 2018 at 2:56 PM ^

At least this is over ... for now.

But don't you feel something coming from Courtney & McMurphy?  Like some big, "fireworks finale" of a story being penned before Urban gets re-instated to the program on Sept 2.  Is there more dirt on Meyers, like real ugly stuff she can divulge?  Maybe NCAA violations she learned from Zach or discovered from Zach's computer / phone / records, etc.  Like she has Urban Meyer texts with Zach about bagmen or something really bad like that.  This doesn't feel over to me.

Dorothy_ Mantooth

August 23rd, 2018 at 4:22 PM ^

i agree... i think this is just the spark...and a fire's coming

 

sometimes it takes a while, but every now and again liars, hypocrites and con-men run smack into a wall of accountability

SaigonBlue

August 23rd, 2018 at 3:01 PM ^

Ohio State: dead to me. Michigan State: dead to me. Penn State: dead to me. Wisconsin: dead to me.

I, a former lifelong fan of the Big 10 who believed in its balance of academics, athletics, and ethics, am fully disgusted by the conference, its "leadership", and its blatant favoritism of certain programs.

The University of Michigan can stand alone academically, and it can stand alone athletically. Therefore, I truly believe that Michigan should extricate itself from this mess (at least in football) once and for all and move to independent status.

Bill22

August 23rd, 2018 at 11:29 PM ^

Couldn’t agree more.  Been saying it since the homer refs in Columbus so obviously fucked us over.  The Big Ten, OSU and MSU need Michigan.  Not the other way around.  Jim Delaney is a piece of shit that ruined this conference, and college football as a whole.  Let’s move on and get back to some semblance of academic and moral standards as they relate to collegiate sports.  Let the Alamaba’s and Georgia’s of the world become NFL light.

Reader71

August 23rd, 2018 at 3:13 PM ^

Great stuff, Brian.

I love Michigan football more than just about anything. But only Michigan football. I couldn’t care less about the NFL, or even the rest of college football. It’s why I’ve always been a fan of the old ways - conference championships based on the season standings, not championship games. Bowl games instead of playoffs. Polls instead of BCS.

People used to tell me that I’m a romantic and all of that. Or that my mentality is why Michigan can no longer compete. But I don’t care to compete in the sport as it is currently constructed. The desire to appease the fans to such a degree that there cannot be room for an imperfect end to the season has turned it into an all-or-nothing season. But for the people in those programs, it’s not all-or-nothing.

Because in the end, if Michigan builds a program that will consistently be able to compete for those championships, it will necessarily have to sacrifice some important things. Character, propriety, dignity, and the pride that we take in our program.

I’d rather beat Ohio than be the President of the United States. But if we have to become the type of program that would employ Urban Meyer to coach our ballplayers to do so, I’d rather we just keep taking our lumps. 

I suspect a lot of you will think I’m crazy, or defeatist, or whatever. But I hold the memories of my time in the program as so much more important than the wins and losses. Although it helps that we won quite a bit.

Reader71

August 23rd, 2018 at 4:07 PM ^

The good thing is that as far as I know, Michigan has stuck to its identity. I’m not really familiar with the messages Harbaugh uses with the team, but I suspect that as a Bo guy, he beats a lot of the same drums. But he seems to also be more football-focused than I would like.

My Platonic ideal of a football coach is someone a lot like Lloyd Carr. Not that he’s perfect, but I really liked his style. I remember reading someone (Bacon?) who called him a poet-coach or coach-professor or something. We can debate how true the label was of Lloyd, but I think that’s what the ideal should be.

And all these years later, I remember all sorts of Lloyd’s sayings and quotes and speeches, and almost nothing about football or scheme. I hope that Michigan ballplayers always have that type of experience, and not just become football mercenaries in the winged helmets.

Bill22

August 23rd, 2018 at 11:37 PM ^

I think this concept is what Harbaugh is driving towards with the ‘study abroad’ trips in the Spring.  He says he wants to bring the ‘student’ back into student althete.  I personally believe him when he says that.  He of course understands the importance of winning, but I don’t think he loses site of the academic or moral aspects of leading a collegiate institution.  Maybe I just love the guy, but I don’t think he is as far off from those ideals as you think.

snarling wolverine

August 23rd, 2018 at 3:28 PM ^

My big takeaway since this scandal broke is that it's just a very bad idea to get emotionally invested in the success of a sports team.  Watch them for a bit of entertainment, sure.  But don't live and die with their performance. You can't control how they play anyway.

Now I am invested - I'm a Michigan fan, certainly - but I'm trying to dial down the intensity a bit and remind myself that it's only a game and life goes on afterwards.  If we stop putting these guys on pedestals and glorifying their every move, some sanity can return and criminal actions might not be enabled.

CompleteLunacy

August 23rd, 2018 at 3:41 PM ^

Another sad yet poignant reminder that winning isn't everything. If Harbaugh was accused of the same thing, I'd want him fired. I guarantee he would be fired. Even if he was 6-0 against MSU and OSU at this point. 

Which is precisely why I want Harbaugh around. He's still the last best shot we have as an institution to produce a program that wins games, but not at all costs. To do things the right way. If he can't do it, in my opinion, nobody can. Which means we'd have to sell our souls in order to win football games. And fuck that.

I just don't care about wins and losses. I just want this goddamn toxic culture to end. Our school is now in a division where greater than 50% of the schools have been recently involved in major scandals. And for what? A trophy? It's just not worth it.

I hope and pray that this significantly damages the OSU brand. That recruits look at it and say "WTF is wrong with this coach?" I'm doubtful obviously...but maybe, just maybe, some parents will care enough.

 

 

Mpfnfu Ford

August 23rd, 2018 at 3:44 PM ^

I think Brian hit the nail on the head here. The NCAA's rules about players' status have created an environment where every team is already breaking rules, so if you're already an outlaw, why not break more rules about far more serious conduct?

It's like alcohol prohibition. The NCAA has made something entirely reasonable a crime, and now they're shocked that the schools are all run by people with the same moral code as a mafioso. 

Dorothy_ Mantooth

August 23rd, 2018 at 4:09 PM ^

apparently we're going to have to rely on karma rather than the OSU Board to appropriately discipline Meyer ...and it'll come sports fans 

... its tough to be outraged, because its ohio - that's how they do!

HollywoodHokeHogan

August 23rd, 2018 at 4:27 PM ^

I find most of this so very depressing.  I’ll just post a few of the questions that are raised by the report:

 

1. Defries “probably” met with CS in 2009.  Why?  Why the fuck is some former CEO meeting with a battered spouse to discuss her marriage?  I can’t be the only person who doesn’t understand what the fuck an middle aged man needs a “life coach” for, or what this guy does for football players.  Is he just a fixer for Urban?  Even then, why this guy?

2.  It states that Earl Bruce did speak with CS about the assault in 2009, while mega-asshole Snook reported comments from Bruce’s family categorically denying hthat.  I’m assuming the report is more credible, so why was Bruce’s family lying about this?

3. Urban wishes he knew more, but he never talked to his wife about ZS’s alleged assault in 2015.  He never asked other employees if ZS was behaving improperly (otherwise he would’ve found out about the affair, presumably). What kind of sense does that make?

4. So, just to be clear, Shelly Meyer was worried that ZS might be violent with Urban and or others at OSU if he’s fired, but she didn’t believe ZS was violent with CS.  Soooo, when it’s your husband that could be attacked, the guy is a menace to society, but when it’s your “friend” he’s allegedly beating, that’s just he-said she-said.  She and Urban are perfect for each other.  

Glen Masons Hot Wife

August 23rd, 2018 at 5:01 PM ^

I take exception to the comment that we will "very, probably lose" at OSU.

I understand Brian is pissed, but I think we have the pieces in place this year. 

We should expect to take this one.

Dorothy_ Mantooth

August 23rd, 2018 at 5:17 PM ^

to recap: after 12 long hours and a lot of greasy pizza, to symbolize their consensus decision; the OSU Board of Trustees pulls out a dusty ol' igloo cooler with 'accountability' written (misspelled) on its side in black magic marker, and then the entire 20-person OSU Board formed a congo-line of sorts and then proceeded drop trou and defecate one-by-one into that scarlet and gray colored cooler - until it was just about full

...and for the finale, Urban Meyer got to 'top it off', as the board members bowed to their squatting 'leader' ...and Meyer was also presented with 20 buckeye helmet stickers (one from each board/bored member) to commemorate his leadership through this difficult process

SpilledMilk

August 23rd, 2018 at 6:18 PM ^

Can't say that I disagree with much here. I will say that Zach Smith, as shitty if a human being he is, was never convicted of beating a woman. There's also this - "Meyer will face no real consequences for his behavior"... His behavior isn't really in question here as by most accounts he is a well behaved person. I do agree that he should have fired smith years before now though. Also, UM covered for an actual rapist for years and even allowed a fellow teammate threaten to rape her again if she said anything! Honestly, that's probably even more disgusting than what Meyer did with Zach Smith. Spare me the outrage because a head coach isn't omnipotent and they also can make mistakes when blinded by loyalty. I would have preferred if they had just fired him but that's just because it could give other teams a better shot at recruits and wins on the field (who am I kidding, they would probably get even better without Meyer - that program seems to weather storms and come out even stronger)