OT: What is the Best Advice You've Ever Received?

Submitted by Steve Breaston… on

I was thinking about this today, as it's an amazingly profound question, and wanted to poll the collective sage wisdom of this community. What is the greatest piece of advice you have been given? Is it personal or professional? How has it improved your state of being?

Are you able to narrow it down to one? If not, what are some things that you've been told that have stuck with you or made an impact?

For me, I have two that I think about often:

1) "Every man will lose a battle in his life, but what's important is that he doesn't lose himself during it

2) "Be so good they can't ignore you"

ChiBlueBoy

April 30th, 2015 at 6:13 PM ^

You don't pay a hooker to sleep with you. You pay her to leave afterwards.

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Wendyk5

April 30th, 2015 at 5:39 PM ^

After embarking on a life-altering decision, like a job change or a move, don't evaluate it every day. There are too many ups and downs on a daily basis. Experience it fully and completely without judgment for at least six months, then take a step back and have a look. 

CaptChuck

April 30th, 2015 at 5:45 PM ^

"Don't cross the streams" Dr. Egon Spengler

 

"If the only positive quality is that she has a pool, then you should probably dump her" - My future wife in college telling my to dump my girlfriend (at the time).

MGoStretch

April 30th, 2015 at 5:57 PM ^

Someone once told me, "if the game is on the line and time has expired, pitch it to Breaston".  I shoulda listened, it really was great advice.

MileHighWolverine

April 30th, 2015 at 6:00 PM ^

A lot of great ones have already been covered so I'll go with the two my friend's grandpa told me in college:

1. Whatever you make, save/invest 50% of it and spend the rest. 

2. If you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life.

EDIT: 3. If you're the smartest of all your friends...find new friends.

mgokev

April 30th, 2015 at 5:59 PM ^

"You should probably focus on other schools because you won't get in to Michigan" - my high school guidance counselor being a dick for no reason during my sophomore year while I asked him which schools I should pick for a mock college application project. It changed my focus and set me down a different path that resulted in a Michigan degree, great career path, life experiences, etc.

But one I should abide by more is smart leaders keep their mouth shut and listen to a variety of inputs, perspectives, and people and then make a decision that isn't blinded by self arrogance and your own inherent stupidity.



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oriental andrew

April 30th, 2015 at 6:21 PM ^

My counselor told me to apply to the likes of NC State, Florida, and Clemson, and tried to steer me away from any upper tier schools.

I ignored him and applied to MIT, Cornell, Columbia, Michigan, and GT instead. Got into all but MIT (deferred and ultimately rejected). Chose Michigan and the rest is history.

SWPro

April 30th, 2015 at 6:10 PM ^

"When you go to college, spend half your time having a great time and half you time studying something that pays well"

 

I may have ended up at like 75/25 but you know whatever.

 

My mom never gave the old "do what you love" or "go find yourself". Working class hero who got the last of her 4 to be the first one in the family in college.

cp4three2

April 30th, 2015 at 6:10 PM ^

Because the first sentence is always the hardest. I got that advice from Charles Baxter (former UM professor). "Quid pro quo" and "scratch your itch" are also two great pieces of advice I received from John Rubadeau at Michigan.  

Don

April 30th, 2015 at 6:16 PM ^

I worked in a shoe store during senior year of HS in 1970-71, and one of the long-time employees was a kindly older gentlemen named Art. My last day of work there was in the spring of '71, and Art took me down to the local Sander's to buy me a sundae and give me some advice. I figured that he was gonna poke me in the ribs and tell me to always wear a rubber and never let the hooker pour your drink, but instead he starts telling me about how the price of gold was soon going to be allowed to float from the $35/oz it had been for years, and that he would advise any young man in my situation to buy as much gold as I possibly could while it was still $35 because before long it was going to go all the way to $200/oz.

I listened to his spiel and nodded politely at all the right moments, and shook his hand as he wished me good luck at U-M. I didn't have any extra money lying around to buy gold, and even if I did that sort of financial speculation was just something alien to my family.

Art was right; a decade later it was $590/oz, and today it's over $1000. That would have been a nice little investment.

oriental andrew

April 30th, 2015 at 6:17 PM ^

One of the worst things you can do is set your goals too low and achieve them.

John Beilein to Austin Hatch

https://twitter.com/austinhatch30/status/375788419873374209

 

Be joyful always. Pray continually. Give thanks in all circumstances for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.

I Thess 5:16-18

 

You can't do everything on your own. 

My wife

 

Calm down. It's just a game. (on my rage fits after Michigan lost at anything)

My wife