Aubrey Solomon Apologizes

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— Aubrey Solomon (@AubreySolomon91) January 5, 2017

 

Edit: For those who are having trouble accessing the previous thread, Aubrey was caught on another recruit's periscope saying "F*** Michigan" and expressing bitterness about the staff getting his name wrong (among other less than flattering comments).

Everyone Murders

January 5th, 2017 at 9:45 AM ^

I said a lot of stupid things when I was his age out of bravado or whatever.  Glad there weren't mobile phones around to record the stupidity.

Much credit to him for cowboying up and apologizing. 

sum1valiant

January 5th, 2017 at 10:15 AM ^

If it were his mom, so be it, the message doesn't change. In that case, she's doing exactly what more parents need to do by making the kid own up to his actions despite the embarrassment that may come along with it. Kudos to him for publicly apologizing, and kudos to mom for raising a kid willing to take his lumps.

mjv

January 5th, 2017 at 10:05 AM ^

Ideally it was his idea, but if it wasn't someone took the time to teach him the right way to handle himself in the situation.  I would hope that none of my sons would do such a thing, but if they did, I'd instruct them to apologize the way that Aubrey did.

smm1198

January 5th, 2017 at 9:52 AM ^

I don't have a lot of good feelings about how he handled this or the rest of the process, but at least he apologized after the fact, that isn't easy. 

I understand that these are young kids, but you don't hear about most of our other commits or major targets talking/acting like this. I don't get the feeling he is going to be a great locker room guy wherever he end up, but some guys make a career of that (TO for one). 

michiganprof

January 5th, 2017 at 9:45 AM ^

18 year olds trying to impress other 18 year olds will say stupid things. Most of us were lucky enough not to have them posted on the internet. 

Let's wish him well and move on.

KAYSHIN15

January 5th, 2017 at 9:46 AM ^

No need for us to be bitter about what a kid thinks of our beloved University. I imagine this will be the last time we mention his name on our board and this confirms he was never coming.

Maynard

January 5th, 2017 at 10:15 AM ^

Then what is the difference between this 18 year old and an 18 year old fan of another university, say maybe one of our rivals? My point is, if it was some other kid, one that wasn't a 5 star recruit, I think the reaction may be a little different. 

DrMantisToboggan

January 5th, 2017 at 9:46 AM ^

This feels a lot like he's sorry cuz he got caught not sorry that he did it. Yeah he's a kid and kids mess up and this is really nothing compared to how other recruits mess up sometimes, but I feel like this is an apology to maintain a perception of mystery and intrigue about his recruitment. He's not coming here. Thanks for the apology, AS. Good luck down south.



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Lampuki22

January 5th, 2017 at 9:47 AM ^

someone ask this kid and his "handlers" whether they realized how powerful the Harbaugh family is in the NFL?

Richard Sherman still has a grudge against Jim because he wasn't effusive in his praise of him coming out of Stanford and it affected his draft stock. 

Michigan should yank his offer publicly.  This apology is lame and he isn't coming anyway.  

Brent Musberger-  (everyone deserves a second chance) aside. 

NRK

January 5th, 2017 at 9:52 AM ^

I like to follow recruiting - but if I got worked up over every up and down I think I'd have a heart attack within the next few years.

 

Good for the kid for apologizing, but I don't think he's coming here based on that and a number of other comments he's made. Would have been nice if the comments he's made about UM in the past and his (brief) commitment here stuck, but tough to pull kids from the South especially when their family isn't on a visit. We're going to be fighting an uphill battle on that for the next few years until we're perennially viewed as "back" from a national perspective.

 

Personally, I don't get the Georgia thing, but it's not my decision soooo yeah. Good luck to the kid wherever he goes except when they play UM, regardless of whatever he said.

Zarniwoop

January 5th, 2017 at 9:51 AM ^

Lol, it absolutely does reflect who he is as a person.

I love that phrase,  "my actions do not reflect who I am as a person".

Your actions define who you are as a person. It means, "this action doesn't define who I want to be, but unfortunately, this is who I am at this time."

griff32

January 5th, 2017 at 9:53 AM ^

Kid accepted responsibility for his actions and corrected them. Learning the lesson of being an adult. Most kids his age don't recognise that they did something wrong, much less apologize.

 

Good for him.

UM Fan from Sydney

January 5th, 2017 at 9:54 AM ^

I've never heard of someone being so angry about others' getting his name wrong. Coaches deal with hundreds of recruits. I cannot blame them if they forget one kid's name. Good lord.

Rabbit21

January 5th, 2017 at 9:58 AM ^

He was searching for a reason to decommit that would play well and the invite gave him one.  This is something that would have happened anyway.  It's still a fuck-up by the recruiting staff, but not one that was determinative in this case.

michgoblue

January 5th, 2017 at 9:54 AM ^

One the one hand, I think that him issuing the statement shows some maturity:  He screwed up publicly, acknowledged it and apologized.  Many kids his age would not have the maturity and humility to do so. 

On the other hand, the kid received an offer to attend the University of Michigan on full scholarship, with a spot on our football team and an opportunity to be coached by Don Brown (his coordinator), GMAT (his direct position coach), oh, and Jim Freeking Harbaugh.  If he doesn't want to accept that offer, and wants to go to another school, that's fine - there are a ton of great schools and programs out there.  But, for him to be trashing us to others and to go so far as to say "F*ck Michigan" because some graduate assistant misspelled his name (by the way, Solomon of often spelled Soloman, so while not excusing the mistake - attention to detail and all - it is not quite the heinous act that he has made it into), seems immature.

At this point, it is irrelevant - I think that we can collectively remove this kid from our recruiting board.  He is Georgia (or some other SEC school) bound.  Move on to other prospects. 

uncle leo

January 5th, 2017 at 9:56 AM ^

I completely understand EVERYONE makes mistakes. We all do, no matter if we are 10 or 90. 

But we have to stop calling college athletes "kids." Once you have reached the age of 17, 18, you know what proper conduct/function is. You know how to address adults, how to speak the language properly, and you know what's right and wrong.

He made a mistake as a human being, getting caught up in the moment. He didn't make the mistake because he was a "kid who doesn't know any better."

Once you reach the end of your high schooling life, that whole "kids do dumb stuff" goes out the window, in my humble opinion. You know what you are doing and how you are communicating. You aren't going to suddenly become a bastion of proper function from a few more years of college. I work in education, all grades. I've seen high school seniors who are more adult than some of my 30 year old friends.

This was a person, making a mistake. He'll move on. 

cletus318

January 5th, 2017 at 10:02 AM ^

Well it's generally accepted that the human brain, especially the parts critical to rationality and decision-making, isn't fully developed until 25. So yeah, it's not at all unreasonable to consider 18-year-old kids despite the fact we've sort of arbitrarily as a society made it the baseline age for adulthood.

sum1valiant

January 5th, 2017 at 10:24 AM ^

This. 17 and 18 year old kids are nowhere near fully developed. Hence the amount of stupid things that come out of their mouths. The fact that he was willing to publicly apologize indicates that he's probably ahead in his development, as he was at least capable of realizing that he did something wrong.

BoCanHam15

January 5th, 2017 at 9:58 AM ^

God bless that intelligent, self inflecting, young man. He realized at such an early age what words can do. Hopefully, some of us will be able to do the same, soon!
GO BLUE, and come back Aubrey or Abbrey, or Abbott and Costello, or whatever your name was at the picnic that you didn't attend!/s



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