OT: What do you want to be when you grow up?

Submitted by The Mad Hatter on

Or, where do you see yourself in 10 years?

I've spent my entire career in banking at the same company, having my soul slowly whittled away into a tiny little nub.  I didn't even want this job, I just sort of fell into it.

So this year my wife and I are starting a small business.  We've done it twice before (one did very well, the other, not so much) and I think this one is a winner.

What about you?  Are you already in your dream job saving the world and making tons of money doing it?  Retired?  Slowly going insane in your cubicle?  Any escape plan?

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TheRonimal

May 25th, 2016 at 1:04 PM ^

I'm in school still for Hospitality and Tourism Management. Ultimate goal is to be involved with running a golf course/resort in some way. Doing something with music festivals or something like that would be pretty cool, too. I guess it all depends on what places I can get connected with. 

hazardc

May 25th, 2016 at 1:40 PM ^

 I'm already connected with that whole festival scene.... There actually is a niche where "high end" catering/hospitality could work.  I've seen it for years, it's been talked about amongst a lot of vendors. Real high-end dining.  People see a Music festival and they see a bunch of sweaty, drugged up kids eating grilled cheese -- and there's nothing wrong with that. However, those people do not realize how many people they don't see that are also at these events who are able and willing to spend whatever the price is for a better experience.... There are a lot of "foodies" at these places and they're willing to open up the wallet for it.. They are teh ones who fly back to Colorado/California to their mansions on the sides of mountains.  Your idea is one that in my eyes should work if executed properly and at the right events, it's just that nobody has had the balls to put up the operating capital. Most of the people I know are just happy to make a few thousand bucks for selling tshirts all weekend while drinking beer in a 10x10 tent.. They don't see the benefit in taking the risk when they make 100k in a year by just going to music festivals and selling merch for a few months out of the year. 

LSA Aught One

May 25th, 2016 at 1:58 PM ^

My wife and I were tempted to get the VIP tickets for the upcoming Desert Trip festival.  $1,500 each isn't a big deal when you see the acts that are playing.  The show boasts world class chefs and dining experiences, but we've been burned too many times to really buy in to this fully.  I guess you could say, we won't be fooled again.

That said, if I could be 100% sure that the experience would be more country club and less Lollapalooza, I'd gladly pay the $1,500 per person.

Wendyk5

May 25th, 2016 at 1:05 PM ^

In ten years, my youngest will be 23 and I'll be living on the west coast after selling all my earthly possessions. I've already had two fairly successful careers, so I don't think I want to invest that much energy in work. I'm a creative person and a maker of things, so if I could find something to keep me engaged into my old age, that would be great. 

xtramelanin

May 26th, 2016 at 6:04 AM ^

households should be parent-directed, not kid lead.  sounds like you have ceded power and it's time to take it back.  this is not to say you don't ever listen to your kids or invite their input (as they get older and earn it) for certain decisions, but on the big stuff like this you are the one who has the wisdom to make the decision, not them. 

Drbogue

May 25th, 2016 at 1:09 PM ^

I'm guessing your first business was selling pot, the second business was a Vape store, and your new one is a medicinal marijuana store?

teldar

May 25th, 2016 at 1:09 PM ^

Started off slow, theoretically I'm at the peak of nursing now. I'm a nurse anesthetist. Work in a big hospital, small hospital, multiple outpatient areas. It's ok. I get paid decently. I want to farm bison. My wife doesn't. I want land and animals. She wants an apartment.

DetroitBlue

May 25th, 2016 at 1:14 PM ^

I was a practicing lawyer for 5 years or so and just decided I couldn't take it anymore. I quit with no prospects at the time; but within a year I found my current job which pays better, doesn't require a suit and tie, has a better boss/coworkers, and actually makes me feel like my work makes a difference. Couldn't be happier that I took the plunge, and would highly recommend a similar move for anyone in a similar situation (provided you can afford to be unemployed for an undetermined length of time)



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DonAZ

May 25th, 2016 at 1:19 PM ^

my current job which pays better, doesn't require a suit and tie, has a better boss/coworkers, and actually makes me feel like my work makes a difference

Would you share what that new role is?  Serious question.

I'm facing end-of-career and am exploring alternative occupations.  The money is less an issue than the "my work makes a difference."

StephenRKass

May 25th, 2016 at 2:43 PM ^

I think that's great. I hope that you find your niche, and can indeed make a difference. Life is too short to be miserable in a job/position/career you hate, but do just for a paycheck.

I know you didn't ask, but if I were you, I'd try to find something that uses the skills and talents and abilities you've used and gained over your lifetime. I mean, you can do something completely unrelated, but often enough, we have skills that we can apply in a more productive place, skills that would make a huge difference somewhere. Good luck in moving forward.

DetroitBlue

May 25th, 2016 at 3:06 PM ^

I work with a company that does mortgage sales/securitizations on behalf of habitat for humanity affiliates throughout the country. I primarily focus on due diligence and remediation of problematic loans. It's perfect for me because my legal education is useful in the due diligence side of the job (so I don't feel like I completely wasted 3 years of my life), but I don't have to worry about billable hours or schmoozing potential clients, both of which I absolutely fucking hated. I know when my dad retired, he started volunteering for the local habitat for humanity affiliate where he lives, and absolutely loved it. You can volunteer whether or not you have previous construction experience, and as far as making a difference in someone's life, it's pretty hard to beat providing a safe, affordable home to families in need. good luck to you whatever you choose to do with your post retirement years!



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ericcarbs

May 25th, 2016 at 1:16 PM ^

currently working in a boring cubicle job (Financial analyst/accountant) but luckily getting my MBA at a top 5 school at the same time. Hoping to leverage that into working at Disney in marketing and/or strategy.

Maizenblueball

May 25th, 2016 at 10:36 PM ^

I'm a door-to-door typewriter salesman. Business has been a little slow for the last couple decades, but I expect business to pick up once this whole computer/internet fad is over. I've got barrels of white-out stored in my garage that are going to be selling like hotcakes. Liquid gold, I say.

SagNasty

May 25th, 2016 at 1:21 PM ^

I hate my job. I only stay because I have been there 11 years and I haven't found anything better that pays the same or more. In 10 years I hope to have a much better job.



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Rick Grimes

May 25th, 2016 at 1:24 PM ^

I'm 25 and still trying to figure my life out. I graduated from MSU with a Bachelor's degree in History, but I think I chose the wrong major. What I'd really like to do is work with animals as a zoologist or wildlife biologist. Something like that.

Wolverine4545

May 25th, 2016 at 1:25 PM ^

In 10 years, i hope to be done with residency and fellowship. My wife will be done with dental school. So I guess I would like to hit the lottery to pay off our loans, that would be grrrreeeeeaaaaat.



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Wolverine fan …

May 25th, 2016 at 1:31 PM ^

I played in a few original bands throughout high school and college and 1 semi-serious band in my 20s. Spent most of those years working in the restaurant industry and am a good cook. Went to school for marketing/graphic design, so I could market the crap out of a place and know enough about the food/costs/management to keep it running smoothly... I think. Now I just need a couple hundred thousand bucks and at least 1 partner. Any takers?

Reality: I see myself going back into banking, as BSA/AML/OFAC laws continue to attempt to weed out the criminals from the banking networks/systems. (I worked for a large bank for 6 years and am now in enterprise compliance at an insurance company) The laws aren't very effective, really, but they do help to catch some money launderers and tax cheats. Hopefully the gov. shuts down bitcoin and other virtual currency to give me additional job security...

Engin77

May 25th, 2016 at 1:35 PM ^

Ten years ago, we had someone come out to sweep our chimney from "The Mad Hatter Chimney Sweeping."   When I looked them up five years ago, they had changed the name to "The Happy Hatter Chimney Sweeping", with the tagline "We're not mad anymore."  When I asked the reason for the change, I was told that:

a) many prospective customers were not familiar with Alice in Wonderland

b) some prospective customers were put off by the reference to mental illness

 

hazardc

May 25th, 2016 at 1:36 PM ^

 

As someone who was a returning student at 30 (now 34)... I've had to make sacrifices. I own a home in Toledo (ugh.. but low cost of living makes this whole thing way easier). 

 

I've already done small businesses, mostly where someone else had the operating capital and just used me to make their ideas work, then toss me to the curb once they go from broke to millionaire. This scenario is not made up. I have also been treated decently by others, but I never finished a degree because I was so caught up in a lot of different small businesses and technical jobs.   I did custom automotive work out of my garage @ 50/hr flat rate for years.  I hate being greasy every day. I can handle dirty. My last job was 7 years a paralegal. 

 

 

It was hard to get out of the myopic mindset of "I'm making enough money" to "I need to not care about money for a while and finish this before it's too late."  

 

I wish Michigan had won the war of Toledo, so I could get in state tuition.  :D 

 

However, I am doing well, doing directed research as an undergrad. (I am involved mostly in environmental sciences, geographic planning, law, and have a history minor tagged on for fun. I intern on a project for Goddard (NASA) and am working on a huge project for a grant proposal.  

 

It sucks, and I have had to learn to be quite a bit more frugal. Luckily I saved enough cash to get me through this shit for ~8 years without having to work -- mostly because everything I have is paid off.   I don't know where it's going to lead, but I promised myself a long time ago that I would go back by 30 and would not stop aiming for higher degrees until nobody would accept me at a higher level... so PhD or bust?  I'm thinking about a JD, but still want a scientific background. 

 

I just want to be a consultant, you know, one of the "Bobs" from Office space. I come tell you how to do shit, you pay me a bunch of money for being right. 

 

I want to teach a class as a grad student to see if it's something I could fall into. It's been a hell of a ride. My only regret is not having hte resources to make it happen somewhere else at the time.... but I think this will work out. Never thought I'd have a 4.0 semester with 18 credit hours and every class being senior level. (while having everything else piled on top).  I can't wait to not still be a fucking undergraduate. 

tl;dr I'm fucked. I was in IT out of high school (ccna/mcse/etc)... didn't like it... got into the car stuff... got tired of it... did my tour of the country via music festivals and made it profitable... got tired of people spreading "knowledge" about the "environment and science"  so I went back to school to become the scientist I wanted to be when I was a kid and I'm having fun but feeling the clock. 

 

 

 

MGoBrewMom

May 25th, 2016 at 1:38 PM ^

Retired. In Santa Barbara, Sanra Cruz, Marin County or Pacific NW... Haven't picked a location...but those are the places recruiting me the hardest right now.

Engin77

May 25th, 2016 at 4:22 PM ^

Oregon has no sales tax, so it depends more heavily on its income and property taxes.  Makes it tough on retirees, many of whom limit purchases but can't avoid the two primary forms of taxation.  Washington state has sales tax and lower income and property taxes.

On the other hand, having lived in Oregon since 1980, I must say the quality of life is fantastic.

Mabel Pines

May 25th, 2016 at 1:41 PM ^

Halfway to 90!!  So I'm not thinking about 10 years.   I'm more of a day to day person- I don't want to set any high, unrealistic expectations, so who knows where I will be.  Probably on this blog.  For sure that.