OT: Victim of Larry Nassar writes open letters to two MSU administrators

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Incredibly powerful stuff here. The courage this woman has is truly impressive. I normally wouldn't be one to post about this whole ordeal, but this woman and all the other victims deserve to have their say, IMO. This whole thing is Penn St. level, yet there isn't nearly the media coverage. They need to clean house in East Lansing ASAP. http://deadspin.com/gymnast-writes-open-letters-to-michigan-state-leade…

Everyone Murders

May 3rd, 2017 at 11:35 AM ^

Worthy of its own post, by my lights.  These letters are clear-eyed, measured, and brutal indictments of an administration that decided to defend its fort rather than address repeated evidence of sexually assaulting children.  Resulting in dozens and dozens of additional victims over the years (with Kathy Klages complicit in the cover-up).  Sound familiar?

William Strampel (the Dean in charge of Nassar), Kathy Klages and Lou Anna Simon are names that we should remember as this all unfolds.  The deserve as much opprobrium as we can muster.

mGrowOld

May 3rd, 2017 at 11:38 AM ^

My partner has four daughters and one is a highly accomplished ballerina who is in one of the nations largest ballet companies.   When she was growing up he would sometimes take her to see Nassar from Cleveland when she suffered any sort of injury or needed treatment because he was fantastic at helping her fully recover.  I asked him recently if he had any reason to believe that anything ever happened to his daughter and he said "no" but they did ask her (she's now 30) and they pray she told them the truth.

But he also said it sometimes keeps him up at night wondering what if she isn't telling them the truth.   He'll never know.

Gucci Mane

May 3rd, 2017 at 3:48 PM ^

These type of situations are hard. I know someone who spent time around a sexual predator when she was 8-10. People asked her if anything happened, and she does not even know. And now she has memories of things happening that she can't tell if they are real, or fabricated out of fear and people asking her about it. 

IMO, if a victim of sexual assualt is able to move on, then allow them to. If a victim is able to live life unbothered by past events, more power to them. 

I myself was taken advantage of by a girl when I was in my teens. After I got checked for STDs I literally didn't care at all. Of course it is diffrent for a guy mnay times. I was able to shove the girl on the ground and leave. That is not an option for many females. 

My main poin is people react to things differently. Don't make a big deal about something that the victim has moved on from. 

 

Chalky White

May 14th, 2017 at 4:57 PM ^

My daughter is now 11 yrs old. Her pediatrician was in that IHA practice that Howard Weinblatt was in back in 2012. He wasn't her doctor, but I remember he treated her one of the times she had a bladder infection. I was sitting right there when he examined her. I don't remember anything inappropriate. I do remember when the examination was obviously over, I was the person who told her to pull up her underwear when that should have come from him. I didn't know it was the same guy until I saw his picture in an article months after he was indicted. I'm sure there are lots of these people out there but it still pisses me off that my child was in the presence of a pedophile.

Ty Butterfield

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:11 PM ^

Detroit media has covered for Staee for years. Agree with other comments that Staee just doesn't move the needle nationally. Harbaugh and Michigan get clicks, so yeah all sorts of media would be camped out in Ann Arbor if this was happening at Michigan. Same thing with the suspended football players and staff member at Staee. If it was at Michigan the national media would be camped out and tweeting every hour on the hour until the names were released. Nothing would make me happier than to see Staee finish 4-8, or worse, and miss a bowl game again this season.

B1G_Fan

May 3rd, 2017 at 11:54 AM ^

in a lot of ways, this seems actually worse than the Sandusky incidents at penn state. The one thing I can't understand is, if my daughter came to me and said Daddy this guy raped me or this guy sexually assaulted me.... How are these Dad's not in prison?

Hard-Baughlls

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:28 PM ^

But again, media has only recently been covering it.

This is Sandusky level shit.  Not sure the current MSU football sexual assualt scandals fall under the same umbrella / administrators? - But if so, pretty obvious how it went off the rails there.  Culture lacking accountability, having zero integrity, and looking the other way ala Joe Pa.

I hope all victims get the help they need to heal as best as possible from a clearly fucked up reality perpetuated by some absurdly incompetent / corrupt people at the top.

B1G_Fan

May 3rd, 2017 at 10:56 PM ^

I see it as kids were molested, admin had a good idea of what was going and continued to employ said molester. At the very least MSU should have distanced themselves from Nassar after the first few allegations. The only difference I see is Sandusky preyed on young boys and Nassar went after young girls. We'll just agree that both situations should not be allowed to happen gain and all parties responsible for allowing it to continue need to be punished.

Alumnus93

May 3rd, 2017 at 1:21 PM ^

This is bad, yes, but let's not get irrational here. This in no way is worse than Sandusky. Sodomizing boys who had no elders or parents to at least go to, and whose complaints fell on deaf ears. Apparently Nassar did things in such a way that the girls didnt complain to their protectors (parents) for the longest time. MSU didn't have a local deity sheilding things like Paterno.

Ezeh-E

May 3rd, 2017 at 2:14 PM ^

I'd say they really are the same level. I agree with your point that most of these girls had parents they could go to whereas the boys didn't, but I'm not sure that in and of itself really separates the two situations much given the gravity of the acts.

I don't think your point about Paterno holds much water. Whether he's helping to cover up or whether it is the MSU university administration, it's still people in authority keeping a lid on it.

DowntownLJB

May 3rd, 2017 at 2:51 PM ^

I think you're a little too quick to dismiss how awful this experience was for these girls and young women.  Being abused in the "safety" of a medical office by a trusted "medical professional" who "knows more than you" about your body, and being patted on the head by officials/coaches/mentors who say "don't worry" you just "misunderstood" your "medical treatment"...   I hope all these women are getting the help they need to come to terms with what happened to them.

I mean in no way to diminish or discount how awful Sandusky was/is or what those boys went through and what they are struggling to come to terms with as men (and I also hope they are all getting the help they need).  

But I take issue with somehow lightening the offense because Nasser was crafty and these girls/women need to process what they'd been through before they "knew to complain".  And frankly, the girls who complained where turned away and dismissed - it doesn't have to be someone at "diety" status to sheild a predator, it's equally reprehensible.

Sac Fly

May 3rd, 2017 at 3:08 PM ^

Sandusky was a rapist. He used power over his victims. They knew what was happening to them and couldn't do anything about it. Nassar is a predator. He carefully selected his victims and groomed many of them. Victims of this kind of crime don't come forward because the aggressor has convinced them it's not sexual abuse. He spends an incredible amount of time earning the victims trust. It's calculated and meticulous.

steve sharik

May 3rd, 2017 at 8:06 PM ^

  • Sandusky used Penn State football as his candy to lure victims. Nassar didn't use MSU Athletics in this way.
  • The people at Penn State knew about Sandusky for decades and--with that knowledge--decided that it was better to let boys continue to be raped than to lose football games. There's no way that MSU folks were like, "If Nassar leaves, we'll never win championships anymore."

bluebyyou

May 3rd, 2017 at 11:59 AM ^

I hope MSU pays a heavy financial price for what has transpired, not because it is MSU but because of the abject stupidity and disregard for the well being of students that was displayed.

Large awards of money are the only thing that makes institutional leadership sit up and notice that their conduct was grossly inappropriate, although I wonder if some criminal prosecutions might be available against people other than Larry Nassar.

PopeLando

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:04 PM ^

These were incredibly well written letters. Well thought out, well referenced, and amazingly calm for the rage she must be feeling. MSU's leadership not only failed to stop a predator, they basically said that there's no point in trying. What the actual fuck, MSU. It's impossible to make this situation right for the many many victims here, but I hope they all get paid punitive damages.

Year of Revenge II

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:05 PM ^

This probably won't be a popular comment, but it will be a true one.

The reality our of legal system is that until there is a conviction, there are only "alleged victims".  It sure smells bad for Nassar and related and unrelated MSU cases in this realm. The MSU administrators seemed to have enabled the atmosphere if not the acts themselves.

However, so you and I can have due process for us and ours, let's make sure Nassar gets his.  The will be plenty of time to talk about the victims, punishment, etc. if and when there are convictions.

Just sayin.

 

BiSB

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:08 PM ^

You don't have to have a conviction to have actual (not just alleged) victims. And the presumption of innocence is a protection from state action, not a requirement that we all assume everyone is innocent (no matter the amount of evidence) until a court declares otherwise.

Year of Revenge II

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:15 PM ^

Absolutely dead wrong.  

But, like most Americans who take some of our freedoms for granted, I don't expect you to support such a concept until you or one of your own family is unjustifiably charged.

Can't say any more, becuase it will devolve I am sure into politics.

You have my respect as a blogger, but you are dreadfully deficient in this discussion in my humble opinion.

Nobody is preventing you from having an opinion on guilt or innocence, just politely requesting some acknowledgement and respect for the presumption of innocence that operates in our system when discussing such matters.

BiSB

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:27 PM ^

is that Nassar isn't the only one with something on the line here. In a court of law, he's the one on trial. In the court of public opinion, everyone (accuser, accused, and bystanders) is being evaluated. Larry Nassar deserves the courtesy of a thoughtful evaluation of the facts. But so does Rachel Denhollander.

crg

May 3rd, 2017 at 8:19 PM ^

General comment, not directed at any specific issue: The "court of public opinion" is probably the least informed, most irrational, least qualified, and most inaccurate jurisdiction there is. I always cringe when people cite it as a means of justice.

Billy Ray Valentine

May 3rd, 2017 at 1:55 PM ^

You write "[t]he reality our of legal system is that until there is a conviction, there are only "alleged victims"."  Let's talk reality.  This is a sports blog, not a court of law.  An Mgoblog opinion is not held to any standard of proof.  If you don't like the term "alleged victim" unless there is a criminal conviction, good for you.  If we were in court, especially in front of a jury, I would agree with you.  We're on a blog, though, Francis, so lighten up!

 

You write,  "[h]owever, so you and I can have due process for us and ours, let's make sure Nassar gets his. The will be plenty of time to talk about the victims, punishment, etc. if and when there are convictions."  My response is STFU!  You are honestly conflating an Mgoblog MgoBoard discussion with some sort of real threat that Larry Nassar is being denied due process.  This thought should be nominated for the award of greatest leap of logic in this Board's history.  Michigan fans electing not to use your courtroom-sanitized term of "alleged" will have 0% impact on Nassar's due process rights so long as the presiding judge and prosecutor adhere to long-settled principles of law.

 

You write, "[b]ut, like most Americans who take some of our freedoms for granted, I don't expect you to support such a concept until you or one of your own family is unjustifiably charged."  If anyone is wondering what a straw man argument looks like ... here it is.  Exactly nobody is trying to advance the argument -- that Nassar shouldn't get criminal due process --  that you are arguing against. 

 

You write, "[n]obody is preventing you from having an opinion on guilt or innocence, just politely requesting some acknowledgement and respect for the presumption of innocence that operates in our system when discussing such matters."  Another logic gap and straw man cheap shot.   No one is disrespecting the presumption of innocence in this thread.  Get off your high horse!  What gives you the right to speak down to the posters on this Board as if they are simpletons who don't, or won't, understand fundamental constitutional rights.  You are out of line.  You are so desperate to appear smarter than everyone else that you are blind to the fact that you are accomplishing the opposite of what you seek.

 

Here's a little personal tidbit, something I have avoided for years when posting.  These days, I fight for the criminally-accused every day of my professional life.  Posts like yours do nothing to protect the accused.  They usually do the opposite.  Posts like yours cause eye-rolls and metaphorical middle fingers.  The jurors I have appeared in front of for decades know when people are speaking down to them, or insulting their intelligence, or making straw man arguements.  

 

Rant over. 

 

 

 

 

Year of Revenge II

May 5th, 2017 at 10:41 AM ^

And if you really want to be a prosecutor that bad, go apply for a job as one, and give all the poor people you represent courtesy of the State a break.

BTW internet tough guy---I suspect you would not be so disrespective of my 1st Amendment rights (STFU!) if you were standing next to me in person.  Lawyers like you are not part of the solution; you're part of the problem.  

Year of Revenge II

May 5th, 2017 at 10:49 AM ^

One more thing, my post and your services evidently have something in common---they do nothing to protect the accused.

The jurors you have appeared in front of for decades know when people are speaking down to them, or insulting their intelligence, or making straw man arguements (sic), because YOU are doing the speaking. My guess that is that it has been so long since you have either tried a case before a jury AND actually won one, that you have forgotten what your job actually is---to give your client the best defense. Thirty years of the government paying your paltry fees will do that to a guy.  I do not blame you, more like the p word.

You could not try your way out of a wet paper bag is my guess.  You package all the plea deals together you can, regardless of whether your client has a valid defense, and you go from sentencing hearing to sentencing hearing trying to mitigate sentences in a punitive society. Well done, public defender.  Were I you, I could not sleep at night.  But I have a feeling you do just fine Billy Ray (I suspect that is your real name).

Year of Revenge II

May 11th, 2017 at 4:23 PM ^

Unlike you, I cannot spend on my waking moments monitoring M go blog in order to properly reply to mental midgets such as yourself. Were I you, I would take my Caribbean law degree and try to do something honest, but it's not likely you have any alternative options or talent.

ijohnb

May 3rd, 2017 at 1:14 PM ^

issue boils down to the difficulty of balancing fundamental notions of due process against the need to support the victims of sexual abuse to report the abuse.  The two really can co-exist but it requires message discipline and avoidance of hyperbole on all sides of the discussion.  It turns out that this blog is not really the best place to get to the bottom of the issue.

UMfan21

May 3rd, 2017 at 12:11 PM ^

My cousin works with abuse victims and she correctly pointed out to me the words "alledged victim" undercut their credibility and is extremely harmful/hurtful to victims that are scared to come forward.

I understand from a legal perspective Nassar has not been convicted of anything yet, but let's try to be more sensative about the victims and not undercut them.  We don't refer to people as "alledged car jacking victim" or "alledged robbery victim".  If you want to call Nassar an "alledged sexual assault suspect", that's fine but the victims should get the benefit of the doubt, especially with 80 of them.

/off my soapbox this story is just close to my family and I'm sensative to it.