Ray

November 17th, 2022 at 9:39 PM ^

My mother died in 1992 and until about 1999 or so she spoke to me in my dreams. Directly. To me.
 

Around 1999 she sat on the edge of my bed (as these dreams often featured her) and said “I have to go.  I won’t be here any more.”  
 

I’ve had dreams about her since then but I’ve never had that kind of 1:1 experience.  

MGlobules

November 17th, 2022 at 2:01 PM ^

I guess in these situations you can kind of stand on ceremony or wisecrack--those would be the basic choices. So I just want to say that of course I feel bad for Coach Bert. I wonder if his mom would have wanted him to stay the course and go to Ann Arbor and try to kick Michigan's behind--was she passionate or a Michigan hater--or would she really have preferred that Bret get home and be with everybody during this trying time. 

SalvatoreQuattro

November 17th, 2022 at 2:17 PM ^

When my mother died in May of ‘99 I felt nothing because she gave me nothing most other humans receive from their mothers.

It’s with this experience that I tell people that the sorrow you feel and the tears you shed are the greatest testament to your mother’s life. Not  words or gestures, but raw grief. 
 

Grieve with a deep sense of gratitude for the mother you had. You are so, so fortunate.

True Blue Grit

November 17th, 2022 at 3:58 PM ^

My wife and I have lost 3 of our 4 parents, and it's always very difficult.  My dad passed on my birthday in 1995, and despite getting on the next plane to TX, missed him by an hour or so.  But my father in law is still going strong and we are trying to spend whatever time we can with him.  Just enjoy every minute with your parents while you can.  Time escapes all of us way too fast. 

RIP Bret's mom.  

Mr. Elbel

November 17th, 2022 at 4:12 PM ^

sheesh, what an awful time to lose a parent, right before the holidays. not that there is ever a good time, but that has to be rough on the family. prayers up for the Bielema family.