WTF?!? - Dan Dakich

Submitted by 1989 UM GRAD on February 28th, 2021 at 5:30 PM

Anyone else see what's going on with Dan Dakich?

In conjunction with some Twitter discussions regarding Jalen Johnson's decision to leave Duke, Dan went off on two people who mentioned him on Twitter.

He called a Duke athletic scholar named Nathan Kalman-Lamb a "d-bag" and made some very sexist comments to Dr. Johanna Mellis, a university professor.  He referred to her as "some lady" and discussed "going at it" in a pol with Dr. Mellis.  

Not a great look for Dan....who has of course now deleted his Twitter account.  I'm an old guy so my apologies if the link below doesn't work.

https://www.thebiglead.com/posts/dan-dakich-deleted-twitter-college-basketball-espn-01ezn5ajnhtp 

 

crg

February 28th, 2021 at 5:38 PM ^

I'm sure the other side of that conversation was completely level-headed and respectful... especially considering the issues being discussed.

Gulogulo37

February 28th, 2021 at 9:19 PM ^

Dakich is a self-righteous d-bag, but accusing him of profiting off of the system? Because he calls games? That's a reeeeal reach for moral outrage. Surely any fan is also perpetuating things as well. Also, a guy with his name spelled out in his Twitter handle saying Dakich doxxed him for spelling his name is pretty hilarious. I'm not saying Dakich isn't a total moron or that he was being reasonable. And I'm all for paying players. Just seems really stupid all around though.

theytookourjobs

February 28th, 2021 at 5:39 PM ^

Not much of a Dakich fan, but are you saying that referring to a woman as "some lady" is a sexist comment?  I hope there's more to it than that, or that is the reach of a lifetime

0rons

February 28th, 2021 at 5:46 PM ^

Not necessarily, but if you read the rest of it, he mentioned that if they were in a pool together, they would "go at it" with her and mentions he'd have to divorce his wife.  That's the sexist comment.  

 

Also the fact that he's downplaying an accredited professor as "some lady" is pretty damn sexist.  

zapata

February 28th, 2021 at 7:29 PM ^

I'll back up Oron on this one: I have heard numerous female colleagues at my university complain that students (and others) regularly refer to male professors as Dr. so-and-so, but they get Prof. so-and-so (which isn't horrible except in comparison to the males whose doctorates are recognized). The really sexist stuff is that they also often get Mrs. or Miss So-and-so. So, yeah, it still happens. A lot.

San Diego Mick

February 28th, 2021 at 8:26 PM ^

What's wrong with Mrs. or Miss?

All that does is differentiate marital status, if these female professors don't like what they're being referred to as then they should speak up and let people know how they want to be referred to as.

I always want to respect people and call them by their preference., all you gotta do is let me know.

mgoblue0970

February 28th, 2021 at 10:37 PM ^

One can be a professor without a doctorate sometimes - often with a masters or even just a bachelors.

Genuinely curious about this (not the professionally outraged pissing contest stuff), but would you know of an example of someone at a top 150 ranked school where someone without a Ph.D. is more than adjunct faculty?

crg

March 1st, 2021 at 9:41 AM ^

As someone else already mentioned, it depends heavily on department.  It also depends on school quality.  It also depends on the level of experience/age of the professor.  It also depends on the requirements/expectations of that position (are they expected to do research and apply for grants, or mostly teach and maybe do something else such as fieldwork or work part time in industry).

There are so many other details and 1) the proliferation of PhDs in the past several decades and 2) the creation of various other positions within universities to distribute teaching duties has made it much more *uncommon*, yet it has happened and can still happen.

taut

February 28th, 2021 at 11:19 PM ^

If you bother to complain that you're not getting called Dr., and you don't have a stethoscope around your neck, I really don't want to hear it.

The most pompous assholes I've encountered are relatively unaccomplished people with PhD's from third-rate colleges in the fluffier fields of study.

My UM/MIT engineering PhD friend with over 200 patents to his name asks to be called by his first name. Insisting on "Dr. Blah-blah" is for the insecure.

mgoblue0970

March 1st, 2021 at 12:04 AM ^

If you bother to complain that you're not getting called Dr., and you don't have a stethoscope around your neck, I really don't want to hear it.

So glad you wrote that.

At a previous company there was a guy who insisted on being called "doctor".  I told him this EXACT same thing -- "I'll call you a doctor when I see a stethoscope around your neck".

What's even funnier is he wasn't even a Ph.D.  He had an applied doctorate -- so just three more years of grad school; didn't even have to defend a dissertation.

zapata

March 1st, 2021 at 8:56 AM ^

I totally understand that and have felt exactly the same way. I tell my students they can call me Dr., Prof. or by my first name, I don't care. The issue here, though, is that we're talking about female professors who, while in a group of colleagues, see their male professors standing right next to them introduced as Dr., while they get Mrs. or Prof. Honestly, when I first heard them complaining about it, I had the same reaction as you, but there were so many of them who said this had happened to them that I stopped to think about it. And yeah, it's not the "I insist on being called Dr.", it's the fact that titles are not being used equally, and they feel it's just because of their gender. If that happened to me on a regular basis, I'd probably be a bit salty, too.

MgoHillbilly

February 28th, 2021 at 6:09 PM ^

I'm only playing devil's advocate, but there are plenty of men and women with doctorates that act like insufferable know-it-all's. Calling them out as being common folk is the best way to ruffle their feathers because of how important they think they are. It's a good troll job and not overtly sexist imho

0rons

February 28th, 2021 at 6:25 PM ^

Hey I’m there with you about those types of professors. I think there’s a very fine line here. I’m on the fence about the “some woman” comment leaning towards not sexist at all. But the context of the conversation includes him saying he’d “go at it” in a pool with her and that she was “bitching” at him. Those 2 items lead me to believe his “that woman” comment was sexist. 

IDKaGoodName

February 28th, 2021 at 7:59 PM ^

I get the point, but I feel like this is a prime example of the corner our culture has painted itself into. I don’t really see any blatant sexism, but others may. However, when sexism is blatant, I think most of us have no issue pointing it out. It seems like, in this case specifically, there is a detailed explanation that must accompany the story in order to get even some people to recognize it as sexism. I don’t think using loosely slang vernacular such as “some lady” and “bitching” even hints at sexism, personally. I am very liable to say both of those terms in the same sentence myself, and may very well be speaking about a guy (probably “some dude” or “some bro” or something of the like)

 

That said, I take no issue with making the personal assumption that Dakich is sexist, whether evidence is available or not. Seems perfectly fitting to me

Mgoscottie

February 28th, 2021 at 7:30 PM ^

It's not just about intent though. If you tried to be racist/bigoted towards me as a white male, there isn't much you can really do to be offensive because there isn't a history that's led to structural differences. So the same thing applied towards men or women isn't going to land in the same way. 

bronxblue

February 28th, 2021 at 6:51 PM ^

I mean, he did absolutely did talk about those latter things as well.  He also apparently gave out the office hours of one of the professor's he was arguing with on his radio show and called him a douchebag and various other comments.  Like, it's a couple of people arguing with you on twitter and you decide to drag them onto your ESPN-sponsored radio show to call them out is pretty unnecessary.

Dakich has been punished before for this type of behavior, including one time when he called a HS player a meth head and threatened to beat up the administrators of a HS because they fired their head coach.  At some point you have to recognize he's got a pattern of being aggressive toward others and punish him accordingly.

bronxblue

February 28th, 2021 at 7:51 PM ^

I mean, everyone's entitled to be an asshole in private, but if you are doing it on company time that's a different story.  Nobody is paying Dan Dakich to call professors he argues with on Twitter douchebags and make weirdly sexual comments toward women he disagrees with.  Also, they don't pay him to call HS kids meth heads.  He's not a shock jock, or if that's his MO he's not particularly good at it.