What are you doing to stay sane (and healthy)

Submitted by Darker Blue on March 24th, 2020 at 7:01 PM

Hello Friends,

 

Just wondering what everyone is doing to keep themselves sane during these trying times.

I'm not a huge drinker but I have indulged quite a bit over the last few days. Irish coffees have become my go to.

Also been playing a lot of video games, playing board games with the kids, and thinking about maybe writing something for the first time in 10 years.

What are you cats doing?

4godkingandwol…

March 24th, 2020 at 7:07 PM ^

For my health, going with the wife to get tested for covid tomorrow. Price you pay for having a wife working in critical care. Shits getting real. Maybe this will convince her that we should retire, buy some land in Wyoming, and ski or fly fish every day (season and social isolation regulations depending). 
 

 

4godkingandwol…

March 24th, 2020 at 7:54 PM ^

Thanks. Her symptoms are mild but an MA in her unit tested positive 5 days ago and they are testing care providers pretty aggressively. We are in Seattle and she recently got pulled from her infant/neonatal unit (RN) to help with covid patients. It’s pretty bad from what she tells me, but she doesn’t tell me much. Two tidbits I found share worthy. 1) the virus itself is brutal on patients. The coughing, gasping for air, pain, etc... is a lot worse than she expected. 2) this one sounded gossipy so take it for what it’s worth, but the drs, administrators, and ethicists have been meeting to finalize their triage plan, because it’s going to be needed. 
 

She just seems genuinely scared and gets angry when she sees people in groups not following social distancing guidelines. 

Double-D

March 24th, 2020 at 7:35 PM ^

My daughter works in rehab and is potentially if needed getting reassigned to assist in Covid traffic. It’s not needed now.  I have a buddy who is an ER Doc and he says the ER is empty.  Nobody is out doing shit and getting hurt.  Good luck to your daughter. 

Brian Griese

March 24th, 2020 at 7:32 PM ^

I wish you well man. My wife is a pharmacist at a chain store I won’t mention. On Friday, some asshat proudly strutted into the pharmacy and declared to my wife (from probably 18 inches away) he had just come from the hospital where he had been administered a Covid test. Not knowing the results but seeing the symptoms, he told my wife the hospital ordered him to self-quarantine. My wife blew up and point blank asked him why he didn’t call ahead and ask them if he could accommodate his situation (or better yet, using the f’ing drive-thru). He, of course, had no answer. 
Stay safe out there. 

bluebloggin

March 24th, 2020 at 7:12 PM ^

Working from the kitchen table

Lego with the kids (not really the kids, just me)

reading - gonna read through and old series with some of my brothers 

running outside when weather and work permits

boozing post kids bedtime cuz ya gotta decompress

Double-D

March 24th, 2020 at 7:13 PM ^

Eating and drinking.   I have been going on walks with my kids and my dog.  I miss playing basketball so I’m going to have to start an occasional run, which I hate, and a bike ride as the weather breaks. 
 

Would you share what you like to write about DB?

MGoShorts

March 24th, 2020 at 7:14 PM ^

Video games.

Oh, and I ordered a stowable bench and two of those adjustable Bowflex dumbbells.

Durham Blue

March 24th, 2020 at 9:59 PM ^

Yeah, I've been throwing a tennis ball against the wall playing catch with myself.  And typing up pages and pages of a pretty boring book.  Wife came in the other day, disrupted my work and I got really pissed at her.  The bartender in my house had the nerve to tell me that my money was no good here, then gave me a bunch of free whiskey shots.  He just set em up and I knocked em down...one by one.

GoBlueGoWings

March 24th, 2020 at 7:25 PM ^

The only time I would go out, would really be for concerts, comedy clubs or sports. Me staying at home and watching TV is nothing new. I have be doing this for 25+ years. 

I really hope that people are laughing and don't have COVID on the mind all the time.

Midukman

March 24th, 2020 at 7:29 PM ^

At first I had the same attitude but the longer this goes the harder it’s become. We didn’t do a whole hell of a lot before but the wife and I would hit the gym 4-5 times a week and had a couple of beers and some wings maybe once a week. I have a 13 yr old who’s going nuts and a frat boy 20 yr old who’s gonna drive me nuts.

rob f

March 24th, 2020 at 9:46 PM ^

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As I'm an empty-nester and 65, doing a self-imposed isolation thing as of today thru the end of next week before I (hopefully) will be able to have some direct contact with my kids, granddaughter, and other close family members.  In the meantime, I'm keeping in touch by phone with especially older relatives who can't get out, had a wonderful conversation earlier today with an aunt to celebrate her 87th birthday, also called my mother-in-law this evening to chat with her. Squeezed in a 2-mile walk mid afternoon, too.

There are ways to retain your sanity through all this, everyone, if you all open your eyes to them.  Yes, for some it will be more difficult to do so than for others as we all try to stay safe and well.  Being supportive of AND relying on loved ones to emotionally support you will help each and every one of us to get through this. 

DetroitBlue

March 24th, 2020 at 10:02 PM ^

Well said, XM - I’ve enjoyed the extra time I’ve gotten to spend with my boys lately - hikes, legos, cooking together. Don’t get me wrong, they can be frustrating little monsters from time to time, but in general it’s been great to be with them more