Ot: Help me with my dinner party

Submitted by Toby Flenderson on February 21st, 2023 at 5:06 PM

My fellow Mgobloggers, hope everyone is doing well! Super bowl was a ton of fun, and basketball team looks to be on the up. 

I am planning on hosting a dinner party for my friends a week from Friday, and I know Mgoblog is filled with some incredible Mgocooks. Because I will be serving roughly 9 people, I was hoping to be able to feed them al delicious food, but with a reasonable. I am doing BYOB because the bar cart is mine.

I really doubt that my leftover BBQ chips and Queso will be enough to feed people. In addition, I only have about three packs of maruchan left (although family style could be neat).

Any ideas to spice this up?

KRK

February 21st, 2023 at 5:18 PM ^

What's your budget? What the age range of the group? Is it couples, or all single friends, or a mix?  What the male/female split? Are there dietary restrictions?

WindyCityBlue

February 21st, 2023 at 5:19 PM ^

Food is expensive these days. But when I have a big group and am responsible for food, I love to do a shrimp and/or crab and/or crawfish boil.  Compared to prices of beef and pork these days, it’s very affordable. It’s also very easy in that you really only need (in addition to the seafood) some kielbasas, small potatoes and old bay seasoning.  Takes about 30 mins in total to prep and cook (and a lot less if you use just shrimp). 
 

Seafood boils are also fun since you don’t really need plates, you just dump the seafood on the table in front of everyone and people take what they want. 
 

The one major hurdle is people do have shellfish allergies, and some deeply religious people won’t eat it. 

superstringer

February 21st, 2023 at 5:44 PM ^

I second this.  I learned it on vaca in Charleston, where it's called a "Low Country Boil." Besides a lot of Old Bay, get those crab boil seasoning packets at the grocery store and throw them in too.  They come in those mesh bags so you just remove the bags when done cooking.

Start by boiling potatoes for 10 minutes (recommended: mix of white, gold and purple potatoes, get the smaller ones).  Then add any combination of veggies that hold up while boiling:  corn on the cob; mushrooms; carrots; shallots; cauliflower.  (Peppers tend not to be so good for this meal.)  Also add the sausage (diced ahead of time, ends up making little mushy balls) at the same time as these veggies.  (Recommended: both one hot/spicy type of sausage, e.g. hot Italian, and also one mild/sweet type, e.g. summer sausage.)  Boil until all cooked, probably another 10 minutes.  Throw in shrimp or scallops for the last 90 seconds.

Serve with both a cocktail sauce AND some other favorite sauce (kids will like ranch dressing, you could go with a remoulade, or BBQ, etc. etc.) on the side as dips.

The dude who taught us this did tours in the low country.  He said, midwestern kids invariably start with the sausages, and southern kids start tend to go first for the corn.  But by the end, everyone eats everything, it's so good.

You will need a huge pot for this, btw.

TrueBlue2003

February 21st, 2023 at 6:39 PM ^

Interesting, crab affordable?  I did surf and turf for Valentines Day and paid $39 / lb of king crab.  Only $13/lb for high quality NY strip steak.

And pork tends to be far more affordable than beef.

Yes, king crab is an expensive crab but I wouldn't put any crab in the affordable category.

I'd put the cost tiers of those items like so:

1st Tier: Crab

2nd Tier: Shrimp and Beef

3rd Tier: Pork and Crawfish 

WindyCityBlue

February 21st, 2023 at 6:54 PM ^

Yea, I wouldn't buy kind crab for a boil, but rather snow crab.  Its a very affordable these days. 

https://www.seafoodsource.com/news/premium/supply-trade/snow-crab-prices-plummet-back-to-earth-but-buyers-still-aren-t-biting

Also, if I'm doing steaks (and I make a fantastic steak) and trying to entertain friends, I would never use anything under the prime rating category.  NY strip prime is still quite expensive these days.  Additionally, making a good steak requires some attention and care especially if you have folks who prefer different temperatures.  If you assume one steak per person, that is a lot to manage on the grill if you ask me.

S.G. Rice

February 21st, 2023 at 5:38 PM ^

In deference to the board rules about no political talk I will avoid posting the photo of Trump feeding a huge fast food spread to some team visiting the White House and instead will say:

Big ass pile of $2 Taco Bell burritos.

LBSS

February 21st, 2023 at 5:53 PM ^

Mussels. Very easy to cook a large amount, pretty inexpensive but seem fancy, and most people don't eat them regularly, which makes it feel more like a party and not just dinner at someone else's house. Pair with some really good fresh bread - sourdough or something similarly robust, it's for mopping up the broth - or french fries if you've got a fryer. That and a salad and you've got a delicious meal.

If you have two big pots, you can do them two different ways. Do one pot in white wine and pesto, for example, and the other in spicy tomato sauce. Figure 1-1.5 pounds per person. 

mi93

February 21st, 2023 at 5:59 PM ^

How high brow you want to go? Or how simple?

Ina Garten coq au vin is easier than it looks/sounds, but still will challenge your culinary skills just enough.  Serve with good bread and it's great because it's a one-bowl meal.  And have people bring red wine and cognac.  Tres bon.

A vat of chili is great for the same reason, and a little easier to pull off.  Serve with chips, or hot dogs.  Extras make a great morning omelet.  Everyone bring a different 6er.

Let us know what you decide to serve!

Grampy

February 21st, 2023 at 8:59 PM ^

That's a fantastic looking lasagna.  I would skip making the noodles from scratch, though.  Lotta work and if your inexperienced at it, it can go sideways.  I like the semi-precooked lasagna sheets, soak them in a little water then layer away.  You can also buy the boil-em-up noodles, but they are a little more difficult to handle.