Wendyk5

February 4th, 2014 at 7:12 PM ^

My parents said nothing to me about my college decision (which was not Michigan initially) and "let" me follow my boyfriend to college. I wish they had tried to talk some sense into me. Also, try being a mother for a day. On occasions like this, when you think your kid is making a bad decision for himself, it really sucks. You want them to be independent and learn from their decisions, but you have the benefit/curse of hindsight. It's hard to let go and just say, "Go for it," if your gut is telling you it will be a bad decision. 

Wendyk5

February 4th, 2014 at 8:10 PM ^

I know you won't believe this but the song, "This is someone that I used to know" pretty much captures what happened. He used those exact words at a freshman mixer two days into freshman year when introducing me to his roommate. I stayed for one miserable year, then transferred to Michigan sophomore year and loved every second of it. He has since lost his hair. 

MGoBrewMom

February 4th, 2014 at 9:51 PM ^

You had the freedom to make your choice.  You chose, changed your mind and did well in the end.  I have a feeling that either way you would have been fine.  That comes from the foundation you had by the time you were going to college.

And, in the end, he's getting his, and we have you as a valuable M Alum!  We won!

ProcheGoBlue

February 4th, 2014 at 6:44 PM ^

Is there such a thing as being too involved? It is that young man's decision where to go. Not hers nor the father. Let the young man choose so he enjoys his college experience.

MetricSU

February 4th, 2014 at 10:56 PM ^

The woman is being totally self-centered. She doesn't want to have to cheer for MSU, period. She's not looking out for Malik's best interests. Malik wants to attend MSU.

The academic stuff is total nonsense. Malik can get a great education at MSU. For the typical student the signal of a U-M degree is worth something, although it mainly signals that, on average, the U-M student was smarter going in. That U-M graduates on average make higher salaries need have nothing to do with the education at U-M. Almost all of the difference can be explained by SAT scores and high school GPAs.

If she were acting this way and publicly denigrating U-M you'd be all over her. She is an ignorant buffoon. And a pathological liar. She actually said that when Joe Rexrode of the Freep called her for an interview that she didn't know the story would be published in the paper. That's just a lie.

Nothing she has said can be trusted. She's thrown Malik under the bus in public, saying he's not mature enough to make this decision himself. Some mom. If I were Malik, I'd be looking to get far away.

MetricSU

February 4th, 2014 at 10:59 PM ^

The woman has already proven to be a brazen liar. Funny that she's the only one who overheard the conversation. Take off the blue goggles. If it makes you feel better to think that this story is remotely true then that says a lot about you -- and nothing good.

U-M is a great school. MSU is plenty good. The signal of an U-M degree means almost nothing to a football player on scholarship, since most would never be at U-M without the scholarship.

Dizzo

February 4th, 2014 at 6:47 PM ^

I thought she said she'd have to "kiss" his ass if Malik signed there, not "kick."  Meaning because of all the trouble/grief the parents have caused MSU they'd need to beg for forgiveness if that's who Malik picked.  

MetricSU

February 4th, 2014 at 11:02 PM ^

She can't stand the thought of rooting for MSU. Such lazy thinking on this board. She's an obvious liar -- "I didn't know Joe Rexrode was going to write a story when he asked to interview me." And it's only her word that some "bad" thing happened at MSU.

It's simple to see. It's about her. She's worried Malik will have too good an experience at MSU and she personally can't handle it. Ultimate Walmart Wolverine who is ignorant about almost everything when it comes to U-M and MSU.

Mike Sadler is enrolled in the MSU Ph.D. program at MSU. Mark Scarpinato is "retiring" after three years to pursue medical school. Let's hear about something comparable among U-M's players.

Wolverine In Exile

February 4th, 2014 at 7:32 PM ^

Is that supposedly malik got either drunk or laid while on his official and mom & dad were not happy with that when he came back to them / didn't get in touch with them. It was in this state of inebriation/euphoria he said that msu players told him he didn't have to go to class. Then to top it off when the parents brought it up with the MSU staff they basically brushed it off. Allegedly malik also stayed out way too late at Ohio st but when his parents confronted urbz aboutvit he apologized and made the hosts apologize to malik's parents. I've heard the Michigan home visit was basically "he will get an education, and our d line coaches put guys in the nfl, but you have to work for it". Mom and dad loved the pitch but malik wasn't sold.

ClearEyesFullHart

February 4th, 2014 at 7:57 PM ^

It would have gone better if she'd just come out and said what happened rather than hinting. She almost has to give full disclosure now just to show that her comments were justified. Then she'd have 3 million fans and one million haters. Right now she has a million haters and a pretty unsympathetic media.

not TOM BRADY

February 4th, 2014 at 7:06 PM ^

I think people are overreacting to this. But the family should not have gone as public with this. And it's weird because everything was so quiet from there side for so long.

Slim_Hype

February 4th, 2014 at 7:08 PM ^

This whole Malik McDowell saga reminds me so much of when my big brother was being recruited by Virginia Tech.. he loved it up there. Mom and dad really really liked Coach Beamer but there were some guys on the team who my parents really disliked and seen as bad influences. Marcus Vick was apart of the same class and obviously we all know how he turned out.. at the end of the day big bro ended up signing with Georgia over Clemson and Virginia Tech. Parents wanted him at UCLA so bad. He lasted for the summer then left and went to school at Columbia.

rainingmaize

February 4th, 2014 at 7:16 PM ^

Here are my main impressions if you didn't want to listen to the whole thing. 1) mom has an issue with the coaching staff that wasn't resolved 2) she has an issue with msu d line coach saying he hasn't produced any top notch NFL talent 3) malik said that his goal is to be a first round pick 4) it sounds like malik couldn't care one bit about the academic side of school 5) mmalik favorite thing about Msu is comfort

M-Dog

February 4th, 2014 at 7:12 PM ^

I am now officially fascinated by this saga.  I don't even care if it involves Michigan or not, I want to see how this plays out.  This is reality-TV kind of stuff.  I can't get enough.