MGoBeards: Who has a beard or is growing one this month?
November is a traditional month for growing a beard due to hunting season. Also, in recent years movements like Movember & No Shave November have arisen to use this for cancer awareness.
I've been clean shaven my entire life but am letting a beard grow for the novelty & to see how I like it. Anyone else growing a beard this month?
Would be interested in hearing about beard shaping / styling ideas, tips and tools that people use or anything else relevant.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:28 AM ^
I started growing a beard in 2013. By 2014, it was down to my chest. That same year I started nursing school and had to trim it way back because the school wanted me to "look professional". Clearly, they have no appreciation for the amount of time and care invested in growing a nice, long beard.
November 9th, 2019 at 11:51 AM ^
This may be mildly sarcastic, but I agree with it. Cut my hair and my beard for grad school. Haven’t had either grown back since (2+ years). Told my fiancé I’m growing my hair back out post wedding (2/1/20). The beard, unfortunately, is not much of an option being that I work in surgery.
November 9th, 2019 at 12:54 PM ^
I agree. My beard will never be long again....too many disgusting things that can collect in it while working at a hospital.
November 11th, 2019 at 6:06 AM ^
November 8th, 2019 at 9:34 AM ^
I haven't shaved for a couple days, but when I go home for the weekend the better half insists I shave.... some nonsense about chaffing her..............nevermind.
I'll not shave for the 10 days I'm at deer camp.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:39 AM ^
My wife is actually encouraging me to my surprise
November 8th, 2019 at 9:51 AM ^
My wife says she's fine with a beard as long as it's actually a beard. It was only in that stubbly period when I first started growing it that she complained.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:36 AM ^
I have never been able to grow a beard; and on the few occasions I tried I just couldn't make it past day 4 or 5. Yeah, and I have all of 17 chest hairs...
November 8th, 2019 at 9:38 AM ^
Me either but this time around the old man hair thing is working for me...shocked at the gray though
November 9th, 2019 at 9:46 AM ^
Have you given all 17 a name???
November 9th, 2019 at 11:02 AM ^
Honestly, no. Between presbyopia and the fact that they are turning white, I can't see them anyway...
November 8th, 2019 at 9:39 AM ^
My buddies grew beards right after college and 25 years later are men who have had beards for 25 years. I always wanted to look more professional, but I grew one in 2012 and it is pretty great not shaving. It takes a bit to figure out the right grooming regimen but is much easier after you figure it out.
For newbies, beards can get dry and itchy when your first start growing them. Argon oil helps tremendously with this. Though, after the first year I never needed it.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:43 AM ^
Will the Argon oil clog pores?
November 11th, 2019 at 11:41 AM ^
I've found that incorporating a beard wash (you can find plenty online) into my daily shower routine keeps any of the itch/dandruff at bay.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:39 AM ^
I used to have a long beard but have since found that a full, yet short enough to only be just off the face, beard (like #2 in the picture above) is best. Be sure you are still shaving the upper cheeks / neck regularly with a razor and get a nice trimmer with a guard for adjusting length. Let it grow a bit and then start fading / tapering. Also, once the moustache gets some length, be sure to trim regularly so it maintains its lines above your lips.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:40 AM ^
Trim your mustache so you can eat normally without biting your mustache. Otherwise, if you are a married adult who is not pathetic, your beard requires no care other than soap or shampoo when you shower. If you are single or otherwise interested in new people being attracted to you, you might have to shape your beard, but that's very dependent on what kind of person you are trying to attract. (If you are trying to attract people who are attracted to men who are not pathetic, your beard requires no care other than soap or shampoo when you shower.)
November 8th, 2019 at 9:51 AM ^
Ah yes!....I remember getting a mouth full of mustache while eating no matter how hard I tried not to. It's impossible.
November 8th, 2019 at 11:16 AM ^
I worked with this guy at a customer site who had a full beard and whose nose hairs had merged into his moustache.
I bought a pair of nose clippers when I was done with that project.
(Extremely pleasant guy to work with otherwise, though.)
November 9th, 2019 at 9:46 AM ^
Should have bought him a mirror.
November 8th, 2019 at 5:35 PM ^
Classic. +1
November 8th, 2019 at 9:47 AM ^
Have beard. More like second guy picture on the first row than Lovies.
Biggest thing is be patient - there's phases with beard growth for many people where you'll want to give up and shave it because it doesnt look like what you want or it's itchy or whatever. your beard will grow at different rates on different parts of your face. Best to just throw out your razors/clippers and just pretend you can't do anything for the first couple weeks/months. let it grow.
Once you've grown it out, you can decide if you want to trim/maintain/shape it - there's tons of tools and devices for that stuff but a beard trimmer and pair of scissors is probably all you need.
There's a ton of youtube sources for all of this if you want to learn about people's techniques and experiences with beards in more detail than you'll get here.
November 8th, 2019 at 9:48 AM ^
I've had a beard for a few years now to the point that I'm afraid what I'll look like without one. Mine doesn't grow long like in the bottom row of pictures in your post.
It instead grows out, so I usually just have to trim it every couple weeks once it starts getting noticeably disheveled. As far as cleaning, you could use just normal shampoo, but there are also some great beard washes you can use just like a normal shampoo.
Overall the maintenance for a beard is minimal and once you get used to it, you won't want to lose it. Especially when you have a baby face without one like me.
November 8th, 2019 at 10:03 AM ^
I shave exactly one time a year.
I always have a big beard
Don't trim or style your beard, that shit should look gnarly as fuck.
November 10th, 2019 at 1:13 AM ^
I agree, I'd would never trim a beard and would just let it to grow wild and long. I would have one like Gibbons and Hill of ZZ top or Harden of the Rockets.
November 8th, 2019 at 10:06 AM ^
Don't just do it for the novelty. Do it for a cause. This has basically become "guy cancer awareness month" so something to do with that. Do some sort of fundraiser thing. Maybe have a vote for what kind of beard you should grow and track your progress on your favorite social media outlet(s).
I tried it once, but I'm a slightly-hairier-than-typical Asian guy and can't really grow a beard or a decent mustache. It was kinda sad-looking :( although the comic relief did get more people to donate :)
November 8th, 2019 at 10:12 AM ^
I grew a mountain man beard last year and loved it, but my could not have hated it any more.
The compromise was to keep it trimmed down to a reasonable length(about a half inch) and I've been happy with that. I tried a goatee after a shaving accident and hated it, glad to have the full beard back.
Mustache's without the beard are awful on me, never again.
November 8th, 2019 at 3:50 PM ^
For the reverse, Abe Lincoln was the only person in history who could pull off wearing a beard without a mustache...'cuz he was Abe Lincoln.
November 11th, 2019 at 1:24 AM ^
Prof. Thomas Steitz, Nobel laureate in Chemistry 2009, had a pretty good Lincoln beard.
November 8th, 2019 at 10:27 AM ^
Harry's razors ad is showing up for the first time on this blog as I read through this post.
Stop telling me my search history is dictating the ads on this site.
November 8th, 2019 at 10:41 AM ^
only because you mentioned it, harry's is great and much better than dollar shave club (in my opinion). Plus, you can just grab them at meijer and not have to order online if that isn't your thing.
November 11th, 2019 at 10:34 PM ^
I tried a Harry's razor and did not like it. Felt rusty.
November 8th, 2019 at 11:18 AM ^
Targeted advertising, baby! Get used to it.
Although the long term effect is probably going to be driving more people to use ad blockers.
November 8th, 2019 at 3:51 PM ^
Dollar Shave Club is showing up here.
November 8th, 2019 at 1:22 PM ^
20 years in the Marine Corps I was not allowed to have a beard. After retiring from the Corps if started with a goatee, then shaved that into a fu man chu (which my wife hated), had that for a couple years and then went full beard. I have sense stuck with the full beard. At one point I was able to braid the front (which my wife hated), but now I keep it neat. She likes that.
Also for care, I just shampoo it every day in the shower. Occasionally use some conditioner, whatever conditioner my wife has in the tub.
November 8th, 2019 at 3:33 PM ^
Had a beard for most of the year, shaved it off November 1 and only touching up the edges until December 1.
November 8th, 2019 at 4:27 PM ^
Been growing my beard for almost a year now. The first month or so required some oil to keep it from itching too bad. Mustache wax is a life saver! Got tired of getting hair in my mouth when I ate...
November 9th, 2019 at 12:02 PM ^
Yeah it’s bizarre how much a little dab of that stuff can change your whole day
November 8th, 2019 at 5:24 PM ^
November 10th, 2019 at 1:14 AM ^
I loved the show Family Affair when I was a little kid. Mr. French was a favorite.
November 8th, 2019 at 6:09 PM ^
i never had a goatee or beard, but after 37 radiation treatments and serious chemo treatments to fight cancer i ended up bald and not a hair on my body! long story short, i beat it and hair grew back like a werewolf. except on the side of my face where they zapped me with the radiation. so i modeled a killer beard after robert the bruce from the movie braveheart. i get alot of compliments on it.
November 9th, 2019 at 6:33 AM ^
Awesome story!
November 9th, 2019 at 9:49 AM ^
Awesome story, glad you won!!! Fuck cancer!!!
November 9th, 2019 at 12:00 PM ^
Sweet! Pics!! Congrats on shitting on cancer! GO BLUE, FUCK OSU/CANCER/SPARTY
November 8th, 2019 at 10:24 PM ^
I moved in August and since my wife has so much shit in boxes/storage bins, I needed motivation to get the house move done. I did a “moving” beard. It was so much work and the house being a fixer-upper caused me to be so busy I just let the thing grow.
I hate the itchiness, though, after it gets to a certain length, so I trim it down with a guard clipper and shave my neck every day. Also, like others have said, the old lady hates the moustache part near upper lip so I trim that shit too. Too lazy to shave the whole fucker off as yet.
November 11th, 2019 at 5:19 AM ^
The itchiness comes from dryness and using hair shampoo on your beard. Get some beard conditioner, applying some every day. Use a separate beard shampoo, and wash your beard only every 2-3 days. Brushing your beard with a boar bristle brush helps too.
November 11th, 2019 at 5:46 AM ^
I started growing my beard over a year ago, the itchiness will go away after a few weeks with good care. There is some genetic variation as with male pattern baldness. Some people have thin sideburns and can’t rock the full face beard evenly. Your mileage can vary. When starting out, I found a lot of different beard starter kits out there. I started with a kit I bought at Ulta, the Billy Jealousy Beard Kit, which includes beard wash, beard conditioner and a good boar bristle brush for $25.
I found a good wooden comb at Striking Viking:
You may like some some beard oil or beard balm, too. Try to find a barber, who does automatically want to give the marine induction shave and haircut. One clue can be whether they have beards (Sorry, gals, but experience counts, although don’t ignore an honest woman’s opinion.)
There are several good beard/long hair barbers around A2 and Detroit.
November 9th, 2019 at 8:44 AM ^
Been growing my beard out again for about a month now. Usually mine starts out of laziness, but the wife likes it once it starts getting thicker.
November 9th, 2019 at 9:07 AM ^
I’ve had a beard for over 20 years. For the first few years I would shave it off for a couple of months now & again, but it’s been 15 years or so since the last time I shaved it.
I keep mine pretty tight, which usually means trimming it a few times per week. I have sensitive skin; growing a beard helped with that quite a bit. I’m also a low maintenance guy and don’t spend much time looking in the mirror, so I’m not interested in anything (long beard or long hair) that requires a lot of grooming, shaping &/or products. Dry skin/hair has never been a problem for me, I just wash my beard with a tiny dab of the same shampoo I use in my hair.
November 9th, 2019 at 11:57 AM ^
Have a beard pretty much year round for the last decade or so. Have always enjoyed facial hair, but also have some dermatology issues so I am not supposed to use razors or get a close shave. So I just use clippers to clean as close as I can and try to keep my lines straight with that.
Fiancé loves the facial hair, thinks I look like a child rapist without. She’s probably not wrong. Can’t grow much length due to work restrictions, but the intent is a nice full beard that stays close to the face or maybe comes off the face just a bit (not supposed to have facial hair coming off the face in the OR, can do it if you wear a beard net...they are infinitely worse than hair nets)
Preference would be more of a box cut style; something thick and hearty that accentuates the jaw line. Much like Gerard Butler had in 300.
I should note that I’m a super hairy guy of middle eastern descent, so facial hair is almost a necessity.
November 10th, 2019 at 12:54 AM ^
When my office did a Movember several years ago for charity, we could not shave any part of our face. I had a damn beard that went from my eye sockets down across my neck. By the end of November I had the most hair everywhere but some of the other guys had thicker beards. The wife did not like it, so I had to shave it all off on Decmember 1st. If I remember not to shave next November, I may try it again.
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