Tragic family news from Dylan Larkin and his wife

Submitted by St Joe Blues on December 1st, 2023 at 12:34 PM

Dylan Larkin was placed on the non-roster list by the Red Wings Wednesday and today revealed why. He and his wife just lost their unborn baby, who was due in April. My prayers go out to them.

https://www.hockeyfeed.com/nhl-news/tragedy-strikes-red-wings-dylan-larkin

My nephew and his wife went through this a few months. It just guts you.

rob f

December 1st, 2023 at 12:56 PM ^

My niece went through that a year ago, she and her husband were devastated.  Fortunately, though, they recently welcomed a healthy baby girl into their family.

south875

December 1st, 2023 at 1:16 PM ^

My wife and I lost twins last summer.  I'd like to tell him it gets easier, but it just never does.  Every time you think you've turned the corner it hits you again.  Prayers for him and his family. That is something that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

Speed_in_Space

December 1st, 2023 at 1:23 PM ^

No words can express the sorrow one would feel and no words are sufficient to console in something like this. Prayers to Dylan and his family that they rebound from this heartbreak.

Goggles Paisano

December 1st, 2023 at 1:24 PM ^

Been there.  The percentage for this is higher than one would think.  My wife still struggles with it 14 years later.  As a positive that came from it, we got pregnant again a few months after the miscarriage, and 13 years later, our youngest son (whose middle name is Blue) is an absolutely amazing kid.  

ShadowStorm33

December 1st, 2023 at 1:25 PM ^

Your heart goes out to them. My wife and I talk all the time about how many people we know that can't get, or stay, pregnant. I couldn't even imagine losing a child.

And then at the other end of the spectrum, I've personally known two women that didn't even know they were pregnant until 8+ months in. Which absolutely blows my mind.

bsand2053

December 1st, 2023 at 1:42 PM ^

As soon as I saw “Larkin and his wife” I knew what it was but it was still heartbreaking to read it in black and white 

Somewhwre on the internet there’s a piece Sam Webb wrote after his wife miscarried.  One of the most difficult things I’ve read.  

Sending love and prayers to the Larkins and everyone who goes through this 

Njia

December 1st, 2023 at 1:52 PM ^

My wife and I went through that with her first pregnancy. Although we've had two healthy children born since and both have reached adulthood, there are many days when my wife and I think about what might have been. 

My prayers are with them.

NightTrain5

December 1st, 2023 at 1:57 PM ^

Awful to hear. My wife and I experienced this twice, although not quite as far along. You doubt everything you’ve done when looking for answers, but the reality is that miscarriages are more common than most realize. Sharing these stories helps people know that they’re not alone.

My advice to anyone experiencing a similar situation is that as brutal as this news is, keep hope. We had two successful pregnancies (totaling four wonderful boys) after our losses. When I hear a story like Dylan’s, I go right back to hearing that awful news in that medical office many years ago, but I quickly shift back to realize how fortunate we are with our boys now. I wish that for everyone who has traveled or is traveling the same path. 

Blue Middle

December 1st, 2023 at 2:15 PM ^

May the comfort of divine Love bless Dylan and his family.

Unfortunately, we've been through this a couple of times.  It is awful, and, sadly, extremely common.  I hope anyone who needs help reaches out.

Newton Gimmick

December 1st, 2023 at 2:17 PM ^

Wife and I just had an ultrasound appointment this morning, all good so far -- she's only at 12 weeks and I already can't imagine how devastating it would be if we received this kind of news.

McSomething

December 1st, 2023 at 3:41 PM ^

My duaghter is a rainbow baby*. I was a nervous wreck about that pregnancy the entire time. At one point my wife asked what it would take for me to not worry about her/the baby. My answer: when she gets here I'll stop worrying about her getting here.

*a healthy baby born after losing a baby due to miscarriage, infant loss, stillbirth, or neonatal death

CarrIsMyHomeboy

December 1st, 2023 at 2:23 PM ^

I’ve been through this too many times. Hard on so many levels. Tends to be a private suffering; so, the couple’s support network is often just them. And even as a soft-hearted man, I’m still not sure I’ve had a chance to heal a single time because I’m too worried about my wife so my process just goes in the side compartment. And, so far, that’s meant forever.

Whether it’s prayers, strength, love, time, or new hope, I hope Dylan and his wife can find it all.

drjaws

December 1st, 2023 at 2:26 PM ^

that’s just fucking terrible. i feel awful for him.

i have been blessed with two children. blessed is the key word. children are a blessing and our legacy to future generations. my heart sank reading this today 

turfguy38

December 1st, 2023 at 2:35 PM ^

I went through the same thing a few months ago. It was tough on me for a bit, but it was and continues to be very hard on my wife. 

 

My thoughts and prayers go out to them. 

CTSgoblue

December 1st, 2023 at 3:21 PM ^

Prayers to the Larkin family.  We went through this 8+ years ago and still think of what our little one would have turned out to be like.  The emotional toll eventually lightens but never goes away in full.  May they be blessed with a healthy pregnancy on their next one.