Meta: more questions on off-season-off-topic subjects

Submitted by StephenRKass on

So, it seems fairly well established that during the off season, when Michigan related sports content is lacking, posts on different topics (cars, pet peeves, favorite meals, worst meals, etc., etc., etc.) are tolerated and even appropriate sometimes.

The list of banned topics is fairly short:  stay away from politics, religion, bewbs, and anything personal about Michigan athletes.

I'm curious about whether or not it is appropriate to talk about race issues. This morning, I saw a link from a college student who attends my church. The link was to a viral post by Colgate student Jenny Lundt, who was commenting on white privilege. (you can easily find this if you wish by googling "jenny lundt." Her initial comments went up about a week ago.)

The topic of race, and white privilege, is important. I think there is a subtext on race and white privilege that is very much part of the world inhabited by athletes. It is a topic that is rarely talked about, although I'm sure it is something every athlete is aware of. I do remember seeing something about race and building bridges in Michigan's locker room several years ago, when Hoke was still coach.

My question is whether or not a topic like this works at mgoblog. It is relevant. It isn't politics or bewbs or religion. We're in the middle of the off season. And yet . . . I wonder if we can have a civilized discussion on this. Or whether it is too fraught with danger. I can see arguments going both for and against this kind of topic.

EDIT:  Well, the board has spoken, and common sense prevails. While not technically spelled out as off limits, the board isn't the place to discuss hot button issues that are important societally. Which includes race issues. I can accept that. After all, I come here to read about Michigan sports.

Having said that, I will have to seek out better places for dialogue and discussion. I miss the late night discussions in the dorms. Maybe that doesn't happen any more. But I loved that you could have debate with guys on your floor who felt very passionately, take different positions, and still relate as friends the next day. The problem with some forums is that they are either echo chambers with people who have the same take you do, or echo chambers with trolls seeking to provoke. Honestly, I'm not looking for either of those kind of discussions.

Bando Calrissian

May 20th, 2017 at 11:02 AM ^

Ignorance is bliss.

http://historynewsnetwork.org/article/1547

"In the Spring of 1960 as a result of a court case, the realtors association of very affluent suburban Grosse Pointe (the association brought together realtors from all the Grosse Pointes--Farms, Woods, etc.), just to the northeast of the city of Detroit, was "exposed." They were shown to have been using some rather "questionable" techniques when determining if a particular homebuyer would qualify to purchase a home in one of the Grosse Pointes. They had a rather "normal" goal of wishing to "preserve property values," by having only people with certain qualifications buy homes. They came up with an "ingenious" system for determining an individual's qualification as a buyer."

"Under the system a realtor would find a potential purchaser for a home. Then a private investigator would be hired to make a report on the person. The report would be given to a committee of three brokers and they would take information from the report and use it to assign points to the buyer. Points would be given for matters such as the "extent to which" the buyer was "Americanized," along with his "general standing." This included references to the "swarthiness of appearance," "friends," "dress," "religion," "education," "use of grammar," and "accent."

Norman C. Thomas writes: "The screening process was not required for persons of Northern European ancestry, e.g., Anglo-Saxons, Germans, French, Scandinavians, etc. Out of a maximum 100 points, Poles had to score 55 to pass, Southern Europeans 65, and Jews 85. Negroes and Orientals were not eligible for consideration, their disqualification being automatic." If a house was sold to a buyer who did not survive with a favorable point total, the realtor would forfeit all sales commissions to the association--that is if they wished to continue to do business as part of the GPBA.

Housing covenants were a thing in Grosse Pointe, taken on in court and well documented for decades, no matter the "all manners of girls" you can anecdotally point to. 

xtramelanin

May 20th, 2017 at 11:28 AM ^

i'm telling you the article is largely non-sense and so are others (googles paisan for instance) who actually have first hand knowledge and pre-date your existence on the planet.  my own example encompasses dozens of people and families, not just some girls. yet, you are believing an article written by somebody you don't know, written 40+ years after the fact.  it fits your emotional narrative which props up your self-image.  the challenge to you is to be able to consider alternative, direct evidence that contradicts the anonymous article which casts a wide net with many holes.    

was there racism in that city?  of course.  just like there is in your city today, and in plymouth, and in GR, and everywhere else.   could you possibly find some racially restrictive covenant in a deed in that city?  i bet you can, as i have read them in property cases concerning other cities and states - they were not unique to your city, or GP, or southfield or detroit, etc.  

you like to portray your intellect to others.  again i challenge you:  have the intellect and the initiative to find out.   if you google 'racially restrictive covenants'  you will find boatloads of literature and it will come from all over this great country of ours.  

billybrown

May 21st, 2017 at 3:11 AM ^

Come on man you serious with this?? Essentially your argument here boils down to ignore this throughly researched article and accept my anecdotal evidence because you weren't alive. That's just nonsense man. You're usually a good poster but you know this isn't correct. Your personal experiences no matter how frequent don't invalidate history. Don't let animosity towards bando allow you to post nonsense.

crg

May 19th, 2017 at 5:03 PM ^

SPECIES PRIVILEGE! Your dog can't even be allowed to convey his/her opinion on the matter because your human-centric keyboard is not accommodating to the canine community. WE MUST HAVE A THREAD TO DISCUSS THIS TO nTH DEGREE (with token reference to UM sports)!

mGrowOld

May 19th, 2017 at 4:05 PM ^

That the topic could stay civil any longer than a topic on politics would.  Both bring out the absolute WORST in people.  In my opinion anyways.

Cali's Goin' Blue

May 19th, 2017 at 4:41 PM ^

Is not only to satisfy all of my Michigan fandom needs and cravings, but also because the commenters and board-posters have great insight on things, brought things to light I hadn't thought of or been aware of, and ligitimately make me laugh out loud sometimes. A few examples of these: the threads about monumental Negbangs are hilarious, the comment thread on the Jourdan Lewis DV charge opened my eyes about the struggles that come with DV/ rape cases from the perspective of all those involved. These are just two of the more recent ones, where I came to this blog for Michigan FB/BB info, and ended up spending over an hour reading and thinking about issues that were brought up on this blog. 

I'm not just trolling you. I understand if you come to this blog to avoid that stuff, because it can be a bit much in today's internet age. But other people such as myself do come here for more than just the UM sports stuff. I feel like I know at least a semblance of the type of person many of the commenters on here are as I've been reading their comments for years now. It is a community I consider to myself to be a part of and as a 22 year old, I enjoy the ability to get more than just sports news from the more intelligent and deliberative people here on my favorite blog. 

Finally, I don't think this is an OK conversation to have on Mgoblog, as much as I would love to see what many of the readers think. We've seen how aggressive even talks about Belein's recruiting can get on this blog(Where is Maizen? I kinda miss him) and this conversation does inevitably end up separating people along party lines. 

ijohnb

May 19th, 2017 at 4:59 PM ^

sub-issue is that the "kiddie gloves" with which everybody handles political topics only feeds into the taboo nature of the topics which results in a collective lack of insight regarding the topics which only increases the divide and lack of understanding between people. It is a death spiral. We live in a supposed pluralist democracy that encourages free expression and was built on the idea of self governance, but "discussing politics" is off-limits, and this seems correct to people? We continue to dig our own grave in this regard by treating thoughts and opinions about our culture and society as "inappropriate" and "out of bounds." It makes no sense.

Blue in Paradise

May 19th, 2017 at 5:12 PM ^

media platforms out there where you can debate this stuff to your heart's content.  But there are only a handful that we can come to for Michigan sports.

Go there if you want to discuss these issues.  I am a few and get into it with people sometimes (then I feel dirty for debating some anonymous asshole on the internet - but that is a different topic).

Why does every fucking site on the internet have to include political debates?

ijohnb

May 19th, 2017 at 5:19 PM ^

of the people on here are not "anonymous assholes" to each other, and don't feel like "talking about issues" = "getting into it." That is the very problem with that train of thought. I don't want to share thoughts in important topics with anonymous assholes, I would like to be able to do it with many of the smart/insightful people on this blog. I am not really advocating for a change of policy, I know it won't happen, it just sucks to live in a world where actually talking about the state of it it is off-limits in a lot of places.

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Blue in Paradise

May 19th, 2017 at 5:45 PM ^

What makes people want to talk about "serious" issues on MGoBlog?  This site is intended for Michigan sports and the folks running it do everything possible to avoid these topics (bad for business as Brian says).

As stated earlier, there are so many places on the internet where you can do this.  Huffington, Zero Hedge, Politico, Britbart, Drudge, Slate, the Hill, etc... are out there spanning the various topics along the left-right spectrum.  I will admit that some are pretty low-brow but others are mostly pretty thoughtful and intelligent with a few trolls mixed in.

You could spend 24 /7 debating all of the hot and cold topics of the day on those sites.  However, something is making certain folks want to debate these topics on MGoBlog and not on those sites.  There must be a reason for that - too bad I am not in contact with my old Social Psych professor :)

My best guess is that the political websites are so saturated and the folks on there are pretty hardened in terms of their view.  I guess people figure that posters non-political sites are "fresh meat" who are more apt to take in the posters' views.  If that is not the case, then I have no clue.

 

StephenRKass

May 19th, 2017 at 5:46 PM ^

Here's my honest answer.

  1. I think you are right about the political websites (saturated with true believers.) I think we all have read about how in the current political climate, people often refuse to have discussion with those they already disagree with. FTR, I have never frequented a political website.
  2. The perspective is that there are many bright people here.
  3. For me, being gone a long time, I miss days of debate at UofM with roommates. One is now a Columbia professor, far more liberal than I am. Another is in the middle of the spectrum, and in the Detroit metro area. I miss those kinds of discussions.
  4. I really can't easily have these discussions at my workplace. It is possible, but difficult.
  5. I love the diversity of this site.
  6. Maybe I am a loser, but this is the major online community where I go. I really don't have the time or energy or desire to become part of a political online community. I am on FB, but I avoid commenting or bringing comments on these kinds of issues. I have almost never seen it go well there.

Blue in Paradise

May 19th, 2017 at 5:50 PM ^

My old buddies from UM and I are thinking about doing a podcast which woudl basically involve intellegent (to the best of our abilities) discussion and straight talk from the center.

We will include other topics like UM football, Detroit sports, travel, etc...  Not trying to make any money off it, just something we feel like doing.

MaizeMN

May 20th, 2017 at 9:29 AM ^

Not sure that means what you might think it means. The idiom is actually "kid gloves" They are not gloves worn by or made for kiddies. They are white gloves designed to handle delicate objects, without leaving smudges or fingerprints. The keeper of the Stanley Cup can usually be seen sporting a pair when handling that hardware, for example.

StephenRKass

May 19th, 2017 at 4:11 PM ^

You're probably right. I'll just say, I am a poster child for white privilege. Went to UofM, white anglo saxon male, in my 50's, married with 3 kids, living in the suburbs, own a house, 3 cars, and a cottage.

But I think about these issues, and I really would love to see the topic addressed. Maybe it can't happen here, but I'd love it if the 2018 HTTV had an anonymous article written by a current athlete who is black, sharing their perspective. Or if there was some other forum where we could hear from athletes who are black, who feel used for the entertainment value of the white privileged class who largely make up the student body. I realize, thinking of what Jenny Lundt wrote, that it is a sign of my privilege that I can even put up a question like this. This kind of topic can be put up by the kind of folks typecast in the movie "Get Out."

Rabbit21

May 19th, 2017 at 4:17 PM ^

See the issue is that you're talking from a perspective in which you are automatically assuming ground has been ceded that other people are not particularly interested in ceding. 

The way you're framing the issue is in terms of people getting educated to a particular point of view, which is very different than an actual conversation.  So if the point you're trying to make is that you want to beat people over the head with your persepctive then this is definitely a non starter.  

StephenRKass

May 19th, 2017 at 4:25 PM ^

Nope, actually, I wasn't thinking about the issue until I read the link to the perspective shared by Jenny Lundt. So my interest was at least initially in what the board thought about what she said on the topic. For me, at least, her words were literally thought provoking. However, I would much rather have that discussion either with friends, or with mgoblog, than in a number of other forums. 

EDIT:  FTR, I am sure I have my own perspective and set of presuppositions. All I'll say is that I think it is important to be open, and I want to be willing to consider what others have to say, and I want to take the time to think and to ponder, and to let that help shape my own personal position.

Rabbit21

May 19th, 2017 at 4:32 PM ^

I don't know about that,  I read it and thought it was a lot of ado about nothing.  A nerdy looking girl carrying around the nerd calling card of a samuria sword is going to scare absolutely no-one.  Whereas someone on a college campus with little to no exposure to firearms beyond seeing scary things on TV and being taught that they are bad, seeing something that looks like a gun is pre-disposed to lose their minds because OMIGOD A DEATH MACHINE!  Her experience could be easily explained away by those fairly simple facts but she decided to go on social media and write something she knew would be loved and uncritically accepted because it meets a narrative when, in reality, I think race had less than zero to do with it.

The conversation you point to is probably a useful one, if only because both sides could stand to calm down a bit and be much less defensive about what the other side is saying and that only comes when one listens and talks with goodwill, but if we're going to start the conversation I would prefer the impetus not be such an awful one.  

Blueblood2991

May 19th, 2017 at 4:38 PM ^

Thank you. This was about someone at a liberal arts college mistaking the end of a hot glue gun for an actual firearm because they had no exposure as you stated.

The school locked down according to protocol and determined there was no threat. What were they supposed to do, ignore the call? No, there's a reason colleges have drills in place. Could you imagine the outcry if it was an actual gun and someone got killed because they didn't take it seriously.

StephenRKass

May 19th, 2017 at 4:49 PM ^

I don't disagree with anything you said . . . having graduated more than 30 years ago, however, I really know very little about the current racial climate at UofM, and also know nothing about the perspective of UofM athletes. The only thing I've read on the topic said that colleges in Michigan in general were still struggling greatly in trying to work towards diversity in the student body.

Kevin13

May 19th, 2017 at 4:50 PM ^

when I read the article. Here is some little nerdy white girl running around campus with a sword, that she probably couldn't hurt someone with it if she tried. Also how many times in our history has a nerdy white girl run around with a sword killing people?  I didn't find her story thought provoking at all.

Next time have her run around waving a hand gun and see if she gets the same response.  I'm not saying there aren't stereo types out there, but this is not one of them.  I think everyone has an opinion on this and it's probably most are kept to themselves to avoid any unnecessary arguments on the subject. I will say being best friends with a DA in a very large city and hearing about what happens on a daily basis and getting an in depth education on crime my eyes are really open and sometimes I am glad I live in my little bubble.

RFM

May 19th, 2017 at 7:09 PM ^

But pretty sure white privilege doesn't mean being white, having kids, and owning stuff (cars and houses). Probably not what you literally meant but if so I think it shows a lack of understanding.

Btw, not that you care about my opinion but I find some of your posts, like this one and the mod sticky thread from yesterday to be insufferable because you seem to want some sort of weird attention. With that said I'm not sure I'd have it any other way because I think you add a lot to the unique Mgocommunity. Cheers.

Cali's Goin' Blue

May 20th, 2017 at 10:34 AM ^

You posted from the very start that this may be an off-limit topic and that you are interested in information and perspective, not ideological beliefs. I wouldn't ever post something like this on Mgoblog because I've seen how the comment threads can get, but it seems like this one has gone pretty well and I would say that is at least in part due to the sensibility the OP put into writing the post. It's not an easy discussion to have, but just because it can't be had here does not mean that it should not be had. Stephen R Kass, I would love to talk to you about this subject as I have a lot of information on it and personal experiences you and others on the board may want to hear about on this subject. Email me at [email protected] if you would like to have a serious conversation about this outside of Mgoblog. 

Rabbit21

May 19th, 2017 at 4:18 PM ^

No possible way that ends well.  Especially trying to talk about a subject that will result in bombs being tossed due to mutual frustration over the topic.  Even trying to have a nuanced position would get one bombed to oblivion.

Finally, I LIKE the no politics rule here, even with the clumsy enforcement, as it keeps things civil and allows everyone to play in the sandbox, why change that and have this turn into yet another forum in which only people from one half of the political aisle talk to themselves?

LSAClassOf2000

May 19th, 2017 at 4:24 PM ^

From a mod standpoint: 

It's definitely an interesting topic and one that would be a really interesting chat....but not here. The topic itself is not innately political, IMHO, but it definitely would incite those sorts of views in some people. Unfortunately, one of the things we seem to have ceded to the information age is nuanced discussion in the virtual space (and sadly, sometimes in the interpersonal space). 

Everyone Murders

May 19th, 2017 at 4:53 PM ^

I'd say that is about as political as you can get (or would quickly get so).  A great thing to have an honest discussion about, but almost certainly would become a shriek-fest on this board.

FOR ALL OF THAT, I urge people to have these discussions as often as possible.  It's important to the health and fabric of our country.  I talk about these issues with friends and family frequently, including friends who are at odds with my view of the world. 

I just think this is the wrong forum for that discussion.  People are here for sports insights, college sports news, news about UofM, and to be involved in a pretty great (net-net, or as Hotel Putingrad might say, nyet-nyet) e-community.

StephenRKass

May 19th, 2017 at 5:06 PM ^

Some people can choose to make this political. But I think it is much bigger than politics. I think this is an issue that transcends "Democrat" and "Republican."

I agree totally that it is worth while having these discussions as often as possible. But, because I agree that this is a pretty cool e-community, I would have loved to see this be a forum that could handle this kind of discussion. Particularly the intersection of race and athletics at UofM.

stephenrjking

May 19th, 2017 at 5:11 PM ^

Just because something "should" transcend Democrat and Republican (though it practice it doesn't) doesn't mean it's not political. C'mon. You're a smart and generally sensitive person, you know that this is a hot-button issue. 

This is like bringing the teachings of, say, Willow Creek church and claiming that it's not religious since Willow Creek is non-denominational. You know better than that.