OT- Do something every Michigan Man would: become a registered bone marrow donor, potentially save a life

Submitted by DrewGOBLUE on

Never made an actual blog entry before, so please don't go too hard on me here and sorry if there's any messed up formatting.

 

 

First of all, I encourage everybody to read the article that crazy eyes MGoUser ಠ_ಠ referred to in his recent blog post about future Michigan softball player, Aidan Falk. It is a great story and even better testament to the high level of character possessed by athletes recruited to play at Michigan.

HOWEVA, what resonated the most with me while reading this article was when it mentioned finding compatible bone marrow donors for those in need can be a challenge. I mean, imagine if you had someone you love die despite their illness being completely curable. Personally, I'd probably be upset the rest of my life based on the assumption such a tragedy only occurred just because some person out there that would have been a proper match simply wasn't in the registry.

With that said, if anyone hasn't realized that with virtually no time or effort, they can enter themselves into the bone marrow donor registry, please do so.

This was actually mentioned on the board a couple years ago, but just go to the website www.dkmsamericas.org to do a good deed.

[MOD EDIT - last paragraph removed for the benefit of the OP....yeah, don't shoot a good deed in the foot, especially with machine gun. - LSA]

Again: www.dkmsamericas.org

TruBluMich

June 10th, 2014 at 3:34 AM ^

Why do people feel the need to try and guilt people into doing nice things?

People should take the time to research, sign up and do it only because they want to.

BRBLUE

June 10th, 2014 at 7:05 AM ^

Everything was good until you said I should "disassociate" myself with University of Michigan if I didn't want to put my name on the list. My first thought was "Who the F**k are you?" So yeah, take out that last paragraph. 

falco_alba15

June 10th, 2014 at 7:49 AM ^

Since my father-in-law got sick and passed away in 2010 from leukemia. I've asked people to get on the donor list many times. To me, it's not much different than registering as an organ donor at the DMV.

I'm not sure if the last paragraph is meant to be snarky but there goes the feel-good moment of this topic.

goblueva

June 10th, 2014 at 7:57 AM ^

I too encourage people to register. I did so early last year when a friend's teenage daughter was diagnosed with a very aggressive leukemia. A selfless person became a match for her and she underwent a bone marrow transplant early last summer. At one point, she was hooked up to a device (ECMO) to keep her alive and given a less then 10% chance to survive. This past weekend, her family celebrated her high school graduation and she will on her way to college in the fall. Without the bone marrow transplant, it would have been a sadly different story.

Its very easy to do. Just a cheek swab and mail it back in. Another website is bethematch.org. 

LSAClassOf2000

June 10th, 2014 at 8:08 AM ^

As a note to the OP, I did remove that last paragraph for you because trying to shame or guilt people into doing this is probably not the best motivational tool. It is a wonderful cause, and I actually am among the many that are registered, but in the end it is something people do because they wish to do it. Not sure if you meant it as a joke, but it didn't come across as one. 

That being said, the more people that are in the registry, the better. I would recommend it definitely. I've watched two relatives pass from lukemia and if I can help prevent someone's loss through this, it is the least I can do for my fellow man, I believe. 

mGrowOld

June 10th, 2014 at 9:15 AM ^

I'm on the list.  My wife and I went through and got registered about a year ago and while the odds are long we'll ever get called I do have the information on my key chain and in my wallet should there ever be a match.

Hypothetical question for the board related to the topic.  Should people who've elected NOT to donate organs be allowed to recieve a transplant if one is needed?  It's always bothered me to some degree that some people make a conscience decision to NOT allow their organs to be harvested are allowed to recieve others.  Seems to me that if you dont want to give then you dont get.  Make that that change and I think you'd immediately see the active donor list skyrocket overnight.

MGoDC

June 10th, 2014 at 4:01 PM ^

The problem with this is how you know someone's intentions when they sign up:

Scenario A: Someone get diagnosed with a disease that may require bone marrow, signs up before needing a transplant, then says they are registered and deserves the transplant. This person only registered to get the service.

Scenario B: Someone signs up and coincidentally gets diagnosed with a disease shortly thereafter. They need a bone marrow transplant now too, and had good intentions, so making you be active on the list for donators for X amount of time before you are allowed to receive seems like it would screw these people.

Seems just about any law would allow people to circumvent the rules, and for something as serious are requiring bone marrow people will put a lot of time and effort into circumventing the rules.

samdrussBLUE

June 10th, 2014 at 9:16 AM ^

I cannot be the only one who is upset they got here after the last parapraph was deleted.

Jamied

June 10th, 2014 at 10:02 AM ^

I was a match a couple years ago. It was through the D.O.D so they flew me and my wife out to Washington DC for 5 days to perform the procedure. It was awesome to help out plus the added benefit of a all expense paid vacation. They did not share the personal information of the person who was receiving my stem cells so I have no idea if it worked. Hopefully it all worked out.

azul in NC

June 10th, 2014 at 11:22 AM ^

I was diagnosed with lymphoma in October and have been battling since. I went through chemo and 30 rounds of radiation trying to kill this tumor. I have a biopsy tomorrow to see if any cells are active. I said to my wife last night " I'm screwed if I have to undergo a bone marrow transplant as my next step." I was adopted as an infant. Please go get registered. As a side note: I have lurked on this blog for the past 9 months and I would like to thank you for providing some humor amid some pretty dark days.

gord

June 10th, 2014 at 11:50 AM ^

Just went to the website and you have to be willing to donate to any patient in need.  I would not be willing to donate to anyone.  I would kind of like to know who it is.  If it's a kid in elementary school then yeah, I'll do it for free.  If it's a rich guy in his 50's I want some money.  If it's a 45 year old dead beat dad whos family won't even see if they are a match because the guy is such a prick then no, I won't donate.

MGoBrewMom

June 10th, 2014 at 3:46 PM ^

no.. not the first honest post in this thread. that's that person's honest answer that apparently is in sync with your own feelings. If you think that those are everyone else's feelings because their yours, then you need to get over yourself.

gord

June 10th, 2014 at 5:17 PM ^

Do you think that if you could talk to the potential recipient and possibly work out a payment more or less people would die?  Only 2% of people are on the list so I don't feel bad about not potentially donating my time and going through pain for some anonymous person who might be a dick with $10 million in the bank.  Obviously the system is not working so I don't think it's a bad idea to explore these policies that are used in other countries.

ShadowStorm33

June 10th, 2014 at 1:27 PM ^

I've been registered for awhile now, and I few years back said it looked like I had a match. They overnighted me a styrofoam cooler with empty vials and a huge dry ice pack, I got blood drawn at the hospital and sent it back. And then I got a message saying something about the donee wasn't ready or something like that. Can't explain how depressing that was, after being so stoked to donate and help someone. Obviously I hope that meant things were going well, but part of me still hopes that I'll be called upon (if not for that person, than someone else)...

MAgoBLUE

June 10th, 2014 at 4:55 PM ^

Very important cause.  My dad passed away of leukemia in 2011.  He had a bone marrow transplant from a donor in Germany that they thought was successful at first but his cancer returned.  I'll never forget the kindness of that stranger to give my dad a chance at life so it was an easy choice for me to join Be The Match.  It's also a great thing to donate blood and platelets.

wolverinebutt

June 10th, 2014 at 5:50 PM ^

This Walmart Wolverine is to old.  I went to the website and its ages 18 - 55 so I just missed.

Its up to you young guys!!!!  Go Blue!!!!