OT: a brief piece of writing for your non-sports fan spouse or pal?
Here's a short comic piece from the New Yorker, about non-fans' discomfort as they pretend to be interested.
That doesn't apply to anyone here. But if you spend lots of time with someone not interested in sports, they might appreciate your gesture of showing them this piece.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:00 PM ^
Trimmed link, just because:
https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/fight-or-flight-responses-to-talking-about-sports
December 13th, 2021 at 9:51 PM ^
Thanks.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:09 PM ^
My lovely fiancé does not care about football at all. But I took her to the Washington game and she has been hooked on Michigan since. It’s made this season that much sweeter
December 13th, 2021 at 7:15 PM ^
My wife couldn’t give a crap about college football. I in turn don’t give a crap about instagram food porn. It is a mutually beneficial stasis.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:55 PM ^
My wife doesn't give me any grief about my college football saturdays but makes it up for it with chick movies on sundays.
December 13th, 2021 at 8:10 PM ^
Instagram porn? You should encourage your wife.
December 13th, 2021 at 8:59 PM ^
My wife is looking at Instagram food porn as I type this. Just before arriving at my keyboard she was saying something about pound cake. :-)
December 13th, 2021 at 10:29 PM ^
Tell her to follow Zoebakes.
Signed, someone who likes college football and Instagram food porn.
December 14th, 2021 at 1:35 AM ^
I fall into only one such category, but can confirm. Wife loves Zoebakes.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:27 PM ^
I ignore my wife she ignores me. We'll both die miserable. It's the circle of life
December 13th, 2021 at 8:04 PM ^
Assume you are joking but for anybody who is in this situation, this is one way (far from the only, certainly not the “right” way, just a way) to shift that. https://youtu.be/M-129JLTjkQ feel free to ignore me if uninterested - NVC is helping me and thought may be a useful tool for others
December 13th, 2021 at 9:02 PM ^
he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and finds favor with the Lord.
love the wife of your youth, cleave to her. husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies; he who loves his wife, loves himself.
December 13th, 2021 at 9:51 PM ^
I’m don’t think I’d make a lot of progress loving my wife as I love my own body. We just have different….parts…
December 13th, 2021 at 10:29 PM ^
I love my body twice a day because my wife is not always in the mood.
December 13th, 2021 at 10:46 PM ^
Edited: Too sappy. Just try and find someone that you think has the potential to be your best friend. And do your best to make it work.
But I can't lie, having God in the mix helps.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:51 AM ^
My wife and I became Catholic a few years ago and not only did our spiritual lives benefit but so did our marriage. Being older and more aware of mortality helps I think...when I was younger I thought I knew everything and only cared about my hobbies, career and ?
December 14th, 2021 at 8:43 AM ^
December 14th, 2021 at 7:25 AM ^
While I agree with the sentiment, quoting scripture may not be the most effective means of getting the point across these days. More people are waking up and rejecting organized religion, and that will continue I think.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:53 AM ^
so if it was from msnbc saying the exact same words, you'd be okay with it, right? wisdom is wisdom regardless of the source. even someone who is so averse, as you are, recognizes the value.
December 14th, 2021 at 10:13 AM ^
Solomon is regarded as the wisest man that ever lived. One can follow is advice, improve their lot in life, and not be "religious".
December 14th, 2021 at 11:27 AM ^
I think he was talking about the research, which is saying that more people, especially young people, are walking away from organized religion. He didn't make it political.
December 14th, 2021 at 8:29 AM ^
I'll say that organized religion is a great, big pot of mythical stew upon which most of humanities greatest tragedies are based. I'll also say that a very large part of what religion teaches us would be a significant boost to humanities efforts to get along - if we could separate the whole 'almighty God' thing from it all...
I grew up in a Lutheran household, went to Lutheran grade school, graduated from a Lutheran high school. It wasn't until my parents were buried that I was finally able to see it for what it is - a myth to believe in, for hope in something 'beyond'. If you can separate from a life-long belief structure and accept evidence based science for what it is, then you'll find you don't need the almighty one to guide you. All of the important words about morality, kindness, hope, et all that religion teaches are still true, still viable, and still relevant.
You can believe the God part if you like, or not - I don't care. But either way what XM said is very true - love those around you and be kind/helpful to everyone else. You'll find yourself much more relaxed...
December 14th, 2021 at 12:24 AM ^
Life's a bitch. Then you marry one.
Quoting MrsDT76 years ago. With a twinkle in her eye at least.
December 14th, 2021 at 10:15 AM ^
My sweet, sweet wife can be a bitch from time to time. It adds flavor to life, especially when I'm egging her on.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:35 PM ^
I can't share a link from the new yorker. My friends would never let me live it down.
December 13th, 2021 at 7:58 PM ^
User name checks out.
December 13th, 2021 at 9:53 PM ^
Ya don't think I'm letting my friends know about this, do ya?
December 13th, 2021 at 10:34 PM ^
How about just passing along the very funny cartoons? A former work colleague of mine is a cartoon contributor to the New Yorker. He also used to be a rocket scientist and an advertising copywriter.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:04 AM ^
Me too! Sorta. My former neighbor—she moved out of the city a couple years ago—contributes cartoons to the New Yorker.
December 13th, 2021 at 8:32 PM ^
Four small comments - New Yorker maybe worth your time if like longer form non-fiction.
1. While the New Yorker today is often misconstrued as a defender of the status quo and of the Montgomery Burns view of life, it started out in 1925 very much as way of poking fun at the old money rich of New York and their offspring.
2. In recent years when their focus shifted more to solid non-fiction reporting they have produced some great articles including this one that sadly hits very close to home in Ann Arbor. It concerns one of the biggest hedge fund scandals, UM medical research prof and a future owner of the Mets, and a story worthy of a Grisham or Turow novel. The Empire of Edge from 2014.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2014/10/13/empire-edge
3. One of the mainstays of the New Yorker was EB White who wrote the children's classic Charlotte's Web as wells Stuart Little, both still in print to this day. He was also the step father to Roger Angell who wrote about the New York city baseball teams
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2007/08/20/deathly-numbers
4. Finally, they had pieces that are known and quoted but never with full attestation. The quote about Ted Williams last game at Fenway was by John Updike. Williams hit a homer at his last at bat before the hometown fans:
"He ran as he always ran out home runs—hurriedly, unsmiling, head down, as if our praise were a storm of rain to get out of. He didn’t tip his cap. Though we thumped, wept, and chanted “We want Ted” for minutes after he hid in the dugout, he did not come back. Our noise for some seconds passed beyond excitement into a kind of immense open anguish, a wailing, a cry to be saved. But immortality is nontransferable. The papers said that the other players, and even the umpires on the field, begged him to come out and acknowledge us in some way, but he never had and did not now. Gods do not answer letters."
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1960/10/22/hub-fans-bid-kid-adieu
December 13th, 2021 at 8:41 PM ^
It depends on what you mean by "recent," I guess. I'm in my mid-50s, and the New Yorker has been consistently excellent throughout my lifetime in non-fiction reporting. Famously, John Hersey's Hiroshima was published in 1946 as an entire issue of the magazine. And Wes Anderson's 2021 homage to the New Yorker, The French Dispatch, is entirely about its history and tradition of non-fiction reporting.
So I think their focus on non-fiction reporting can only be described as "recent" if that word is expanded to include ... almost all of the magazine's history. :-)
(But I'm just nit-picking. Another fine New Yorker tradition).
December 13th, 2021 at 8:43 PM ^
True, but I supposed I think of the recent Tina Brown and David Remnick period where the fiction (prose and poetry) really were downplayed so much so that now there is a specific issue to highlight them.
December 13th, 2021 at 9:08 PM ^
You beat me to The French Dispatch. And super coincidentally I am sitting here at DCA with Hiroshima in my pocket. I read most of it on my first flight and I plan to finish it on my next one. Funny to take a little break for MGoBlog and see this thread!
December 14th, 2021 at 7:09 AM ^
Didn't know that Hiroshima appeared in The New Yorker, but good for them. I remember reading that in high school, and the 16-year-old me was riveted by it. Read it again 30 years later and had the same reaction.
December 13th, 2021 at 10:02 PM ^
A multi-comment thread on the country’s pre-eminent college sports blog about The New Yorker with knowledgeable and informed observations: the MGBlog/Michigan difference.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:10 AM ^
Usually when I add something to the Message Board, it gets down-votes. I guess it's some combination of our cantankerous blogosphere and my not reading the room right, so to speak.
So posting a piece from the New Yorker, I expected more of the same. But—at the risk of attracting down-votes—this may be the first time I've posted something that has not gotten any.
As you astutely observe: it's the Michigan difference.
December 14th, 2021 at 8:36 AM ^
"...at the risk of attracting down-votes—this may be the first time I've posted something that has not gotten any."
Says a guy with ~28,000 MGoPoints...
December 14th, 2021 at 9:19 AM ^
When I first joined MGoBlog and was up to 100+ points, I posted something that got me downvoted—blasted—below zero.
I forget what I wrote—nothing terrible, maybe a pun—but I'll never forget the torches and pitchforks.
December 13th, 2021 at 11:25 PM ^
Magically, my Buckeye wife no longer cares about football. Stopped caring a couple weeks ago. I can't put my finger on why.
December 13th, 2021 at 11:44 PM ^
I can think of 27 - 42 reasons why that might be...
December 14th, 2021 at 12:28 AM ^
She got the flu.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:11 AM ^
I laughed out loud.
December 14th, 2021 at 10:16 AM ^
Same... that's gold!
December 14th, 2021 at 1:39 AM ^
You married a buckeye? Sounds like a dicey proposition. I don't think I could handle that much friction in daily life.
December 14th, 2021 at 4:34 AM ^
Alternatively she probably more than makes up for it in every other aspect. She is probably an amazing wife to convince a good Michigan boy to consider her marriage material.
December 14th, 2021 at 7:12 AM ^
Mixed marriage ain't easy but your observation might explain how it works.
December 14th, 2021 at 8:45 AM ^
John Wangler - the guy who threw most of the passes to Anthony Carter, married an OSU cheerleader back in the day. So, it happens...