Tom, on McGuffie (a clarification, and I'm not being mean)

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I'm posting this here, to insure you read it, so you didn't think I was trying to bash: I wasn't trying to bash you - I tried to word what I wrote as diplomatically as possible. I DO appreciate the work you do - I don't want to give you the perception I don't. I guess I just feel bad that McGuffie was dealing with: a) being injured b) being homesick c) having a death in the family d) (possibly) being depressed as a result of a, b, and c. THEN had people close to him, in essence, dime him out to the media so all us chuckleheads on the intrawebs can speculate on his mental health, and the more vindictive of us can start saying shitty things like "good riddance" or "he's a quitter". I hope you see where I'm coming from?

KRK

November 21st, 2008 at 3:39 PM ^

I said this over at RBUAS when the reconciliation attempt happened. I think we all need a big, ass-out, group hug. Who wouldn't feel better after that. Remember, it's only gay if there's eye contact.

TomVH

November 21st, 2008 at 3:40 PM ^

No need to apologize, I don't get mad very easily, and don't hold grudges. I completely understand what you're saying about the issues he had to deal with. As an 18 year old I would've collapsed. If anything it says something about his mental health in a good way. The kid is on a losing team, had a death in the family, he's a freshman, has had to deal with criticism, all while trying to get an education. I think we should all look at what anyone has said about him in a bad way, and think twice. I just hope you, and everyone, realizes that Brian nor I are here to enhance rumors for people to speculate and create conversation. Don't forget that we too are fans, people hoping for Michigan's success. Brian and I talked on many occasions about whether or not it was appropriate to post this, for this exact reason. I have to say, I was pushing harder to post the news, because I thought people would take it as it was. This was a post saying, with all the rumors out there, Sam McGuffie did tell Fred Jackson he wanted to leave. I even know what Fred said back to him, but it's not important. Instead, and maybe the title was misleading, people took this as either a definite transfer, or a bash on a kid that was dealing with a lot. I was merely doing my job of reporting what I heard. I have an obligation to you all to make sure that what I report is true and is not rumor based. I did that here, with this information. In no way was this information relayed quickly. I knew about this well before it was posted. We did our due diligence, and confirmed what had happened. We then posted it, and one thing lead to another. How people responded to this is their own prerogative, and unfortunately people don't always read everything and react in different ways. However, it is our responsibility to display the information that rumors can't come of it. So for that I apologize. I am sorry if anyone took this the wrong way, or if anyone thinks that this information shouldn't have been talked about. I thought that as fans, we would all like to know the truth, rather than sit in wonder if he indeed planned on transferring. Now, fortunately for Michigan, but maybe unfortunately for your feelings towards myself, Sam has decided to stay. His decision to stay has now fueled further rumors, that the other rumors weren't true, the facts were rumors, and the he said she said. (if that makes sense) Sam, for now, has decided to stay. As I posted on every spot that I could, originally, I stated that he very well could change his mind, and now he has. I promise you that I am not the type of person that would fuel rumors, or try to better myself through inside information that has a chance to be false. I know you all don't know me very well, but had I known then what I know now, I would still have told you all the same information. I will defend the fact that I know the conversation took place. If I could change anything, I would have made myself more clear in the details. So for that I apologize.

Jay

November 21st, 2008 at 3:44 PM ^

Tom, You're contributions are very much appreciated, especially to those of us who don't really have the disposable income right now to pay for premium access to Scout or Rivals. Keep up the great work!

gsimmons85

November 21st, 2008 at 3:58 PM ^

but ill pass on the group hug... and if the WR6 comment on the blog is meant as a joke, then its funny, otherwise ill have to beat someones ass for calling my WS6 by anyother name...

KRK

November 21st, 2008 at 11:13 PM ^

If you don't like the ass-out group hug, there's always the pelvis-touching group hug. That's a little gay for me, but I'll try anything once and twice if it doesn't kill me.

Blue Balls

November 22nd, 2008 at 12:01 AM ^

Mgoblog is the place that best follows Michigan Football in my opinion. While certain issues with players can be uncomfortable, they are still issues concerning Michigan Football. I would rather hear the words out of Tom's mouth vs some reporter for ESPN or the papers. Your concern's for Sam is shared by many Michigan Fans. Your willingness to express yourself and clarify your views is what sets mgoblog apart from other sites.

Don

November 22nd, 2008 at 8:01 AM ^

it's a family member. Otherwise a hearty handshake is all that's necessary or desirable. And it has to be a hearty handshake, not the limp, clammy codfish some guys offer. Some years after he left the Presidency, it was revealed that Harry Truman had accumulated a large stack of letters he'd written to critics but had never mailed. While he was pretty mild-mannered in public, in private he was a foul-mouthed, raging prick when he was angry, and he would write letters while in this state of mind to those who'd angered him. However, he had the good sense to not mail many of them, figuring that it was better to let the emotions subside first to make sure he wouldn't regret it later. I know it's hard because the internet makes it so easy, but it would be a good idea if some people commenting on blogs followed the same practice.

Don

November 22nd, 2008 at 8:08 AM ^

is short-term depression, and having to deal with that along with the other negative things in McGuffie's life right now would be a tall order for any adult to deal with in a completely positive, upbeat way. I really hope he stays, but if not, good luck to him wherever he goes.