First family trip to the Big House

Submitted by mistersuits on

I grew up in Michigan and attended all kind of games in the 80's and 90's, but have lived on the coast since. Now I have a wife and two daughters (6 and 4) and we'll be driving in for the Illinois game this Saturday -- it will be their first Michigan football Satuday in Ann Arbor.

Since I've never been to a game with a family experience in mind, let me ask the board what is the right (or wrong) way to go about creating a long-lasting first impression and gameday experience for my girls?

jabberwock

October 17th, 2016 at 8:25 AM ^

If you don't have a specific tailgate to attend:

Wander the golf course a bit.

Buy them a bunch of food from various vendors.

Be at the Drum line show in front of Revelli hall 1 hr before the game (then make sure you hurry to the stadium to watch the band enter)

But them a souveneir something from the M-den.

Profit (as world's best Dad)

sheepman

October 17th, 2016 at 9:20 AM ^

I agree with everything he said here. But as posted get there at least 90 minutes before. The crowd is full 90 minutes before, and that's when they start. Also rather than hurrying to the stadium if you wait outside after the drum Corps, the whole band comes out in March is to the stadium together and everyone follows them in. It is amazing. My kids loved it. We did it the first time this year. There's about a 20 minute lag time between when the drum stop in the whole band comes out and marches to the stadium,that's a little rough if you have little kids. But well worth it



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An Angelo's Addict

October 17th, 2016 at 8:27 AM ^

Agree with everything jabberwock said. The best memories I have from my first experiences was watching the band enter the stadium through the parking lot and on the field. Make sure you buy your girls some little maize and blue Pom poms to cheer with too!

Yo_Blue

October 17th, 2016 at 9:07 AM ^

Make it into the stadium in time for the pregame show though.  Homecoming brings a lot of fans unfamiliar with the timing of things and the lines can get long making it possible to miss pregame.

Also remind the wife and kids that no purses, backpacks or containers are allowed into the stadium.

GVSUGoBlue

October 17th, 2016 at 8:39 AM ^

You can't really go wrong. It's hard for a kid not to love their first game day experience unless the weather is bad. Buy them a souvenir and get them some good food. Kids get excited about whatever their parents are excited about. So when you're in a great mood in AA, your kids are bound to have a great time too.



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Ihatebux

October 17th, 2016 at 9:14 AM ^

From the title of this thread, I thought you were going to say THE First Family was visiting the Big House.   I couldn't understand why Obama would come to UM.

atticusb

October 17th, 2016 at 9:25 AM ^

Just to check, the girls are 6-yrs-old and 4-yrs-old, is that correct?  If so, I can make some comments re: small children at games...  The tl;dr version: definitely can be a great experience, but be proactive, and don't sweat it too much if you miss a bit of the action in order to ensure, e.g., that bathroom access isn't an issue.

M-Dog

October 17th, 2016 at 10:40 AM ^

I am in your exact same position.  I have been going to Michigan games since 1982, but the first time I ever went with the whole family was 3 weeks ago for the Wisconsin game (wife, son 14, daughter 10).

They loved it.

It was a 3:30 game which helped a ton.  You can do so much more.  

We did the following:

Left for Ann Arbor so that we got there by 11:00.  There was no traffic.  We drove in from 14 to 23, down Washtenaw, and left on Hill street.  This took us past the painted rock and the scenic leafy Frat houses on Hill St.  The women folk were inpressed with that.  Even at 11:00 there was a buzz on campus as we were driving in.

We walked around campus - the "Hogwarts" Law Quad (you have to do this, it's impressive), the sleek new B-School for contrast, the Union for campus buzz and to spin the cube (kids loved this, but be careful they don't get hit in the head when they are not looking.  It almost happened to my daughter . . . )

We then walked around the Diag and the town, up State towards the theatre and down Liberty.  We had lunch at Knights.  Nice non-chain restaurant that had good food and we could get in without fuss.

Then we walked down State to Hoover past all the crazy parties and the street scene.  You have to do this.  It's a show.

We watched the Drum Line show on the steps in front of Revelli Hall on Hoover St..  It starts 90 minutes before game time (not 60 minutes) , i.e.  2:00 for a 3:30 game.  

Then after the Drum Line show, the dance team (what most people think are the "cheerleaders") put on a little show at Revelli.  My daughter loved this since she does cheer/dance/gymnastics.  She got her picture taken with the dance team, holding Michigan pom-poms.  They are very accomodating to kids.

Then the part they liked the best . . . we marched with the band, I mean directly behind the band, up to the stadium.  The band makes a show out of the march.  They play the drums and call out cadence the whole way up to the stadium.  

HINT: when you have a little girl(s), you can get away with anything.  There is an assistant that stays behind the band on the march and keeps people away.  But he let me and my daughter march right behind the band/dance team all the way up.  We were talking with him the whole way.  My daughter loved it.  Don't be shy . . . having 2 little girls will let you get access to stuff that they would not let an adult get.

Once we got to the stadium - which looks like a castle on a hill when you come from that direction - we walked through all the fancy tailgates near the Crisler Center and up to the corner of Stadium and Main.  The golf course was not open for tailgating, but if it was, there would have been enough time to check out that scene for a little bit.

Aftrer all of that, I was still able to get into the stadium before kick off.

My family loved the whole college-y scene, especially my daughter and son. 

 

My daughter with the dance team:

Get this picture for your daughters.  You will be a hero.  When the Drum Line show is over, the dance team comes out and does their own show. When they are assembling for their show is a good time to get pics.  They will be very friendly to your girls.

 

 

 

rob f

October 17th, 2016 at 11:26 AM ^

as I have similar stories about my daughters and son when they were young. My ex made Michigan Cheerleader outfits for both of our daughters when I think they were about 7 and 5 years old and over a couple seasons we got pictures of them with the Michigan Cheerleaders, the band, several football players (at one of the spring games), and with the pep band as they played in our section in The Big House. Then a few years later, at another spring game, got a few pictures of my then 4-year old son wearing the helmet of James Hall. He had wandered behind Hall while Hall signed autographs and put the helmet on. Once my son was noticed by Hall, Hall put him up on his shoulders and posed for a few more pictures. A couple seasons later, my son also challenged David Baas to a race up the steps outside Crisler to The Big House. Baas obliged, of course, but instructed him to go to the first landing about a third of the way up to make the race "more fair", then counted out "on your mark... get set...GO!", at which point my son raced on up while Baas and several players watched and enjoyed immensely. Baas, of course stayed at the bottom, having set it up perfectly, then congratulated my son when all was said and done. Everyone left smiling, even my son after an initial bit of embarrassment. Like M-Dog said, moments and memories like these don't happen without the extra leeway when youngsters are involved.

MadMonkey

October 17th, 2016 at 9:28 AM ^

North Quad.   Walk through campus:  Diag, in front of Angell, Art Musuem, and  through the Law Quad to the library reading room.   Make your way down State Street and over to the stadium and tailgates.    They will fall in love with the school and not just the stadium/tailgates.

chad

October 17th, 2016 at 9:48 AM ^

The corner at Pioneer High School nearest to the Stadium also has bounce houses and quite a few free things our kids love to do.

chad

October 17th, 2016 at 9:52 AM ^

Our 2 girls love to dress up as cheerleaders (as well as boys in fball uniforms). The cheerleaders and band really seem to go out of their way with the kids especially if they're dressed up. They really get noticed and our kids talk it about it for a few days after. Just helps make even more memories. I have an 11 and 6 year old girl as well as 10&7 year boy who I try take down as often as possible.

MGoBlueMyself

October 17th, 2016 at 10:24 AM ^

This is a great post. I also have plans to take my 5 year old son to the Maryland game. Is it possible to see the band at Revelli Hall, march for a bit, AND make it into the stadium in time to see the band take the field?

You Only Live Twice

October 17th, 2016 at 10:27 AM ^

Not all concessions are wired for plastic acceptance.  My daughter likes to investigate all the various concessions with an enthusiasm unknown to mankind.

MtP Michigan Man

October 17th, 2016 at 11:47 AM ^

Get them a burger at Frasiers Pub for lunch at 11:30.  And Dad should have a couple of beers there after being in a car with a 6 and 4 year old all morning, handing over driving duties to Mom for the remainder of the day.

Then you can do the Hogwarts Quad, Drumline, blah, blah, blah. 

stephenrjking

October 17th, 2016 at 12:28 PM ^

Something to remember:

Your kids are pretty young. Limit your expectations of how much they will enjoy the actual football. They might watch a play or two and then look around, goof off, etc.

Accept that. The fun for them is in the event, and in spending time with the parents. Indulge in things to occupy their senses like the souvenirs mentioned elsewhere, a bag of popcorn to eat during the game, and other stuff like that.

And dress them warmer than you think you need to. If they are too cold everyone will be miserable.



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M-Dog

October 17th, 2016 at 3:00 PM ^

My wife and daughter went shopping on main street during the actual game.  We didn't even try to take on having them sit through a three and a half hour football game with lots of dead time for TV time outs.  

Everyone was better off.

Plus it's expensive as hell to get 4 seats together.  Not worth it for people that will get bored after three plays.  And really, there's nothing wrong with that.  Don't force it until they are ready.

Hab

October 17th, 2016 at 12:59 PM ^

Central campus is fun to explore.  My daughter actually loved the libraries more than anything else when we did the same thing during the Wisconsin game.

I would note a word of caution about the gameday M-Den recommendation.  I would suggest that if you plan on getting M swag, to do it before going and just make it special game day attire.  Otherwise, you may find yourself grinding your teeth as you wait 1 hour+ to check out.  But if you're just going to browse, that could be fun if you don't mind all the people.

Time goes fast.  Wiscy was a 3:30 start and we had to let plans go just because time got away from us. 

Chaco

October 17th, 2016 at 2:00 PM ^

When I've taken younger children to a game in Ann Arbor I've always tried to position myself with them at the corner of Green/Kipke/Keech Avenue.  The band steps off from Hoover (they usually publish a time during game week) and then marches down Hoover and turns left (south) on to Green St.  You can hear them, then you see them, and if you're positioned right they go march by you.  Depends on the child but they've all tended to like that.  Also, the children's museum in Ann Arbor is really good.  Hope that helps

CJRockford

October 17th, 2016 at 2:40 PM ^

Learn where the family restrooms are. There will be a bunch of grown men waiting in line by themselves to use them. Find an usher and they will let you take the kids in before anyone without kids.



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Michifornia

October 17th, 2016 at 3:31 PM ^

Your kids may be a little young to appreciate the "football" aspect of the trip so my advice is to focus on things that they'll remember so they can begin to associate Michigan football with the best place on earth.  I took my two 12 year old daughters last year for the first time.  They loved the pre-game shopping spree at M Den!  They also enjoyed a walk around central campus and Stucci's of course.  I grew up in A2 and went to school from K through college but my kids have grown up in Cali.  But they have seen their crazy dad watching everything Michigan for years so they already think it's the best school.

We are heading back for the Illinois game and bonus, my girls play volleyball and we will be going to the match against Penn St. right after the football game.

Introduce your kiddos to a variety of things but try to find stuff you know they'll really love.  Hopefully, this will be the beginning of an annual trip for you too!

Enjoy!

GO BLUE!!

bokee88

October 18th, 2016 at 7:27 AM ^

We sit in sec 39 and my boys like to play on the hill outside section 37. When they get bored during the game (which happens less now that they are older) they like to roll around or wrestle on the hill. Or play catch out there. During halftime it is too crowded to do that but during the 2nd or 3rd quarter it's empty.

Also, for kids that small, don't stay the whole game. Or at least, don't force it. Otherwise they will dread the time you made them sit in a stadium the whole game. Small kids might get bored half way through.



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