On Fatherhood, and Football
Thanks to Greg over at MVictors for hosting my sappy article about the sappiest football season of my life.
On Football, and Fatherhood:
https://mvictors.com/on-football-and-fatherhood-guest-post-by-andy-reid/
December 27th, 2023 at 5:41 PM ^
Granddad?
December 27th, 2023 at 7:07 PM ^
JOEY!
December 27th, 2023 at 5:45 PM ^
Sappy? Yes. But sweet. Best to your daughter.
I do have to say that, before reading the article, I thought it was written by coach Andy Reid. I’m not sure I would care to read his thoughts on football and fatherhood.
December 27th, 2023 at 5:51 PM ^
Explain fatherhood to me again, this time using those nuggies.
December 27th, 2023 at 5:47 PM ^
Just because we're bereaved doesn't make us saps!
But in all seriousness, I truly appreciate you taking time out of your busy NFL season, so near the playoffs in particular, to share this with the world. Go Blue!
December 27th, 2023 at 5:59 PM ^
Ahhh.... fatherhood.
December 27th, 2023 at 6:10 PM ^
Just saw a video of the Disneyland Parade, in which JH and some of the players participated. Pretty cool to be part of the magic I guess, nice to hear they had a fun day off at the park
December 27th, 2023 at 6:11 PM ^
I remember those days when I thought my marriage would last forever
Pretty amazing that this kid will link you to that woman for all eternity, isn't it?
December 27th, 2023 at 6:34 PM ^
Amen to that. Baseing our happiness on our own expectations is one of the most dangerous things you can do. It’s equivalent to carrying a loaded gun while guzzling liquor.
The 2nd part isn’t true. There are no marriages or earthly relationships past this life.
December 27th, 2023 at 6:23 PM ^
A wonderful rumination on the joys in life and children and football.
But I cannot agree with this statement:
“Even the misery is FANTASTIC.”
To me, misery is miserable.
As for where this team ranks in the history of Michigan football as played on the field, that’s yet to be determined.
If you’re evaluating how a team rises to meet unprecedented off-the-field challenges during a season, this team is unique in Michigan history.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:07 PM ^
I haven’t had the time today to read this, but I plan to after I get home tonight from the ER once we get my 90-year-old father admitted for his raging throat infection that yesterday was just a cold.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:53 PM ^
Hope it all works out for you!
December 27th, 2023 at 7:10 PM ^
Next up: a thoughtful essay by Mike Sainristil on life as Ohio's daddy.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:17 PM ^
raise them up in the way that they should go, and when they are old they will not depart from it.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:21 PM ^
Enjoy every < gerundive expletive > moment of ever < gerundive > day. And. Absorb every sight, sound, and yes, smell of your kid(s) every day and enjoy their growth as you guide them and let them learn to develop into people you can say make the world a bit brighter and better. Fatherhood is the best job in the world.
Blocking out the current tsuris on the planet, these are, indeed, (as Dickens would say) the best (and worst) of times. Threepeats, number 1 ranking. Yep. Best times indeed.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:30 PM ^
ignore my entry
December 27th, 2023 at 7:43 PM ^
I view Michigan football as "something to believe in". I like to think of the James Earl Jones soliloquy on baseball in "Field of Dreams" at the movies end about the people coming to Iowa.
I want to believe in amateur athletics done the right way and triumph within that and have nothing but derision for the Buckeye and Crimson Tide cheating ass approach to mercenary football lacking any semblance of an education on how to be successful men in life.
I know there have been human failings on this path but still value the path and cherish those whose shoulders support the way. Hutch was generational and Sainristil is that and more. Chuck Norris fears Mike's aura.
As a non-alumnus I have my Alumni relatives and have attended games since 1967. The game's majesty, the midwest fall sights , sounds and smells make my heart soar and these young mens accomplishments have too much influence on my behavior. Their downfalls are what fuels context and determination and character and shapes these students as men.
Moments sear memory. Memory fosters lore. Lore writes legends and they become history by the victors. We fan these embers hoping to spark the next moment the chessmen move.
December 27th, 2023 at 7:51 PM ^
Wonderful article. Thanks for letting us know.
December 27th, 2023 at 8:23 PM ^
Andy this is phenomenal. Thanks for sharing this. I had my first kid this year too and love the mantra of being present, both as a parent and with the team. This article is a great reminder to do that, even when it's hard!
December 27th, 2023 at 8:30 PM ^
Thanks so much! It was a joy to write. I am just bursting with love for her!
December 27th, 2023 at 9:00 PM ^
She is lucky to have you as her parent! Go Blue brother!
December 27th, 2023 at 8:25 PM ^
Found out my girlfriend was pregnant last year on the week of the Ohio State game. So far in my sons life, we are 2-0 against them! I'll never forget this season and I can't wait to explain to him that we won the National Championship 6 months after he was born
December 27th, 2023 at 8:57 PM ^
maybe time to make her "Mrs. MFan Toledo". she has certainly held up her end of the biological deal. and congrats on MFan, jr.
December 27th, 2023 at 8:53 PM ^
But, why is there a comma?
Nice article, though. Good work.
December 27th, 2023 at 11:41 PM ^
Wow. Just...wow.
This is the polar opposite of Bpone.
Best to you and your family Andy!
December 28th, 2023 at 10:11 AM ^
NTAR.....