New Day. Same Pain. But You're My Family

Submitted by buddhafrog on

I might get negged to hell for this post. But I woke up early with the same pain in my chest from that loss. I feel lost. My first instinct was to come to this site to help settle my nerves. This is my Michigan family. I appreciate this blog, and I appreciate (at least a majority of) you. This loss would be even harder to stomach if I didn't have this site to run to and hide.

Good Morning.

Go Blue.

MGoMediocrity

November 27th, 2016 at 10:08 AM ^

I like this quote from Fever Pitch that explains sports fandom pretty well: Fever Pitch (2005) Lindsey Meeks: It is just a game. Ben: Clearly it's not just a game! If it was, then obviously I wouldn't care about it this much! Twenty-three years. Do you still care about anything you cared about twenty-three years ago? How about ten? How about five? Name me a single thing that you cared about for twenty-three years.

Mr. Elbel

November 27th, 2016 at 6:10 AM ^

same day for me. just got home in VA from the parents' house in flint about an hour ago. Having trouble falling asleep with all of the caffeine I took to get home. I keep replaying the game in my head with regret. so sad how we went from the darboh TD in OT to this. I want that feeling back again.

LickReach

November 27th, 2016 at 6:15 AM ^

My body went into shock when Curtis Samuel went into the end zone.  I slept 9 hours and missed an important DJ gig.  Everyone "understood" why I wasn't there and my friends got me but it was embarassing.  I am still awake and had a good talk with one of my great friends (a WV mountaineer) about how "everyone hates OSU" and the spot was BS.  If we had any other coach I would worry.  Harbaugh and Brown will get this done and I pity any future Michigan opponent seriously.  Bless our seniors.  They did so well this year and I hope they can hold their heads high as tough as it might be right now.  

JOHNNAVARREISMYHERO

November 27th, 2016 at 6:34 AM ^

Its just hard man.  He was stopped short.  It was over.  

What should I do now?  I really don't know what I should do? 

I need to see some high level recruits commit to make me happy and calm.

Please happen soon.  

AmayzNblue

November 27th, 2016 at 6:35 AM ^

Thanks for the post, Buddha frog. This feels so much worse than any other loss, including 2006...because I can not get over the fact that we truly won the game, but it was stolen from us not by the buckeyes, or coaching adjustments, or anything legitimate...just stolen by corrupt or inept referees. Nothing can change the outcome of the game now, but I feel like I witnessed one of the great sporting injustices in history yesterday. Unfortunately, the victim of that injustice was the team that I have been a fan of for over 30 years.

All I can hope for is that the CFP committee members actually watched the game and feel the same way. We dominated the buckeyes, but could not beat the bad officiating.



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Bo4President

November 27th, 2016 at 6:51 AM ^

Well said and I couldn't agree more with you.
The committee uses the eye test as a component. If they watched that game they seen OSU dominated on their home turf.

In addition two teams we beat in the Big Ten title game.

All of this shit came down to a ref and a horrible game deciding call.



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macdaddy

November 27th, 2016 at 6:46 AM ^

My kids, ages 22 (a Michigan grad) and 17 don't understand that this used to be an actual rivalry, that there were years, plenty of them, when we would be happy after this game and that it was the Buckeyes who suffered in exquisite misery for 365 days until their next shot. As much as this hurts me personally (and make no mistake, the pain is real and severe) I ache for my boys who pretty much only know the agony of defeat in this fucking game. We have become OSU's Little Brother. We are their bitch and it's unclear when or if we can right this particular ship. 

The only way I can adeqautely sum up how I feel right now is to quote a comedian whose name I've long since forgotten: "Life is a swirling, sucking eddy of despair filled with brief moments of false hope in an ever-blackening universe." Losing hurts so much worse than winning feels good.

#fuckme

Heisman212

November 27th, 2016 at 7:32 AM ^

My wife thinks I'm crazy. She's seen us win twice since we've been together. Unfortunately she didn't follow football until we meet. It's to the point now where if the games not at home I watch by myself. Not with her, friends or even the dog. I really didn't watch yesterday. I had it on but nerves get to me. It's easier to the radio stream. At least it's Michigan friendly. It doesn't even hurt anymore. I'm just angry, really angry.

Bo4President

November 27th, 2016 at 6:46 AM ^

I don't normally like to complain about refs. But in this case he was short. Game over and a credit to our awesome defense. Instead, they dealt us a full scoop of bull shit in return.

We are 100% the best team in the Big Ten but wont be playing for that title. Still can't wrap my head around it.



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Pierre Despereaux

November 27th, 2016 at 7:14 AM ^

The worst part is Penn State gets to go to the title game. It makes me sick that school is even allowed to have a football team and they get to go play for a shot at glory, and that's ignoring the fact they're the 3rd best team in the DIVISION!

Michigan is by far the best team in the Big Ten and we're the ones who should be in Indy next week.

M Squared

November 27th, 2016 at 1:00 PM ^

I'm with you - I hate complaining about refs but that line got crossed in an egregious manner in this game.  I am in the minority, however, that the spot itself was unconscionable.  I thought it was unfavorable to us but within reason. The holding committed by the OSU o-line and secondary, none of which were ever called (reminder: 6 yards total were called on OSU) are the ones that get to me.  And, even though it did not impact the game, the unsportsmanlike that was called on Harbaugh was shocking.  You never ever see that for a thrown play sheet.  Not even a warning?  Just gutless by the refs.

Pierre Despereaux

November 27th, 2016 at 7:12 AM ^

Like others have said, I hate complaining about the refs but at some point something needs to be done. If OSU didn't have a super obvious false start, which would raise some serious questions if not called, those refs would have called 1 penalty. For 1 yard. Sure.

I keep thinking of all the missed calls to end our drives or extend OSU's just far enough. Darboh was literally tackled by the corner before the ball got to him and nothing. 

Michigan played one hell of a game and deserved to win. Yeah there were a few missed plays, bad play calls, and other mental mistakes, but when has a team ever played a perfect game? 

I thought this was our year, I really did. The fact that we had the Big Ten title game and a shot at the CFP ripped from us is just absolutely crushing.

YakAttack

November 27th, 2016 at 7:15 AM ^

I sat there stunned for a good 3 minutes when they scored. Mrs. Attack finally asked if I was ok.... I realized my emotional investment was higher than I intended to let it get.

MichiganMan_24_

November 27th, 2016 at 7:27 AM ^

It was a devastating loss that should have never ended as it did..I still would not choose to be a fan of any school but Michigan..It doesn't matter what others think, this is the best program and fanbase for reasons bigger than wins and losses..the universe is a balanced place and the balance is coming back around, we just have to be patient..Go Blue

The Baughz

November 27th, 2016 at 8:51 AM ^

I'm sick. I still can't believe what happened. I love this place. It's a great place to vent and let out frustrations. I don't drink so this is basically my therapy. I just don't think it's meant to be for Michigan football right now. I don't know why but it just seems like they can't catch a break. But on the bright side, I'm glad I root for a team who is disappointed with a 10-2 regular season record. I just wonder what then committing would have done with an 11-1 Michigan team. Fucking Iowa.



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KC Wolve

November 27th, 2016 at 9:08 AM ^

Agree, also if you can send Brian a few bucks via the PayPal link on the front page. I come here on game days to celebrate or bitch and I was barely able to do either yesterday. We need some upgrades.



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Coldwater

November 27th, 2016 at 9:11 AM ^

So gut wrenching, so winnable....I'm not ready be be reflective and happy. OSU was not the better team. 2 horrible picks by Speight absolutely were devastating in the game.

Our downfall again was the lack of running game when the other team knows we're going to run. The Oline just isn't dominant enough to man handle guys and Smith isn't good enough to make guys miss.

LSAClassOf2000

November 27th, 2016 at 9:16 AM ^

I was banging my fist on the floor for a minute or so after yesterday's game, up until the point where my son asked my wife "What's wrong with dad?" -  my kids have seen us win this game exactly once (2011) in their lifetime and don't really have memories of me (or anyone else in the house) being happy after that game. Maybe someday, eh?

That being said, this blog definitely helps to vent and commiserate and, ultimately, learn and grow from the experience. 

KC Wolve

November 27th, 2016 at 9:38 AM ^

Yeah, I sent my buddy a text basically saying I am too old for this shit. I'm 37. When I was a kid and in high school, I never even thought of this game as a rivalry. I grew up in KC so it was basically just another game to me and Michigan usually won. Then the cosmos shifted and once again it's, maybe next year.



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Cranky Dave

November 27th, 2016 at 9:18 AM ^

Most of last night reading and posting on here. My wife understands how emotionally invested I was in the game and MGoBlog. Some of my posts were of the fuck Speight variety and I hate directlimg that level of vitriol at our players...but FUCK THE REFS. I love this community and am a much better fan because of this place.

ABOUBENADHEM

November 27th, 2016 at 9:18 AM ^

that is giving me some peace is that our guys left it all on the field. They played with Bo-like heart and passion. This group of seniors will be sorely missed. Onward.

Sopwith

November 27th, 2016 at 9:25 AM ^

42-13 was infinitely easier to take than what happened yesterday. Refs. Bad luck. Shooting selves in the foot. If anything goes the other way, the game is ours.

I love this team. They weren't perfect, but they played with magnificent effort, particularly the defense. 8 sacks. 13 tackles for loss vs. a team that never gives up any. Amazing. 

UMForLife

November 27th, 2016 at 9:41 AM ^

I got on some video game and went all out blasting everything I saw. Played for hours. I am relatively calm now. I just love this team. Want to quit watching football but I cannot. This blog is the only solace. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

spider-sal

November 27th, 2016 at 9:46 AM ^

I keep replaying the 3rd down play in my head. We had that bastard for a huge loss and somehow he got out. It SHOULD have benn 4th and very long. And then on 4th down I was jumping for joy because it sure looked like he was short in real time. And sure a fucking nuff the spineless official comes jogging over on the 15 yard line, WHAT?

It still hurts. That was supposed to be our game, we all know it. Those seniors deserved it. That defense earned it. It's just bullshit..

Wendyk5

November 27th, 2016 at 10:09 AM ^

What's making it infinitely easier for me today is that none of my Buckeye Facebook friends have posted anything about the game. Not a word. Which is very unusual. 

ThePonyConquerer

November 27th, 2016 at 1:47 PM ^

After yesterday, I now feel alright. We should've had this game and every Michigan fan/player knows its. But we all just have to move on, and look towards the future. I know Harbaugh's gonna have us do good for many years to come. Also, I believe the downfall of OSU is gonna be coming soon.