Thoughts from a non-student Fan

Submitted by GWUWolverineFan on
Well, I hate to say it but as of late I have been questioning my exclusive fanship to The University of Michigan Wolverines. I grew up in Ann Arbor, the son of two season ticketholders. From Age 7 to 18 I missed 5 home games, all due to high school sports scheduling conflicts. My father routinely hired the late 90's players to work in his office, Charles Woodson worked for approximately 2 weeks before he no-showed to work. I grew up around Michigan football as a part of my life and more importantly representation of my home. I was granted a athletic scholarship out of state in Washington D.C., as unfortunately Title 9 prevents UM from having my primary sport on the mens side. Ever since that move, I without fail, every year run into some UM fan who is of the opinion that I cannot be a fan if I didn't attend the University. I've always ignored it, but the more I read these "STAND UP JERKS!!!!!111112213", I realize that this moronic attitude is spreading. (Issues like standing up, I do support, just with a little more tact.) Can one be a true Michigan fan without having attended The University of Michigan? Or is this now a exclusive fanbase for the roughly 400,000 living alumni/current students?

Viper

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:43 AM ^

I'm actually a Purdue University alum, but I've been a Michigan fan since I was a kid. I live in Indiana so Purdue was much closer to home. So if you're not a "true Michigan fan," I guess I'm not, either. Although if you cut me open, I'd bleed Maize and Blue.

willywill9

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:45 AM ^

The answer is yes, you can be a true Michigan fan without having attended the University of Michigan. In fact, one could argue you're a bigger fan than I am, for example, because you've been a fan longer and you are from Ann Arbor. I became a true Michigan fan once I enrolled in '02. There were a few threads about this very topic. Not to speak on behalf of the mgoblog community, but I think the general tone of those posts were in accordance: you don't have to be an alumnus to be a true fan.

formerlyanonymous

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:46 AM ^

Obviously it's fine to be a non-Michigan alum. Also, which sport are you doing at GW? I would assume water polo or rowing as those are the few sports Michigan doesn't offer in men's but does in women's. I don't recall GW having volleyball.

Polisci

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:48 AM ^

I've known a lot people who never attended UM who are much better fans than people who did attend. So the answer, in my mind, is absolutely you can.

MichIOE01

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:54 AM ^

As an alum, this is another thing I can attest to. Some M students don't care about football at all. Even some of the ones who had season tickets. They would get the tickets, go to some games, arrive late, leave early, skip others. Where you go to school has little to do with how good of a fan you are. Unless you're forced to go to some rival school. There are a few UM fans going to OSU. That takes balls.

MichIOE01

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:48 AM ^

I'm an alum, though I obviously don't speak for everyone. I don't think you have to be an alum to be a fan. Most fans weren't alums. I'll never talk down to a fan who didn't attend Michigan for not being a "true fan" because they didn't go there. However, those of us that did go there do have a different experience than those that didn't. We got season tickets in the student section (I still miss that). We got to interact with some of the players around campus and during class. We were constantly surrounded by M fans and lived in the heart of M football. That being said, when I talk to another fan I don't care where he went to school. I care how good of a fan he is. The only time I have a problem with a fan is if he's a knee-jerk "we went 3-9, the sky is falling, fire Dick Rod!" kind of person.

Brodie

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:55 AM ^

While I agree it's an entirely different experience sitting in the student section and interacting with players, one could have similar experiences just living in Ann Arbor. Certainly the OP had personal experiences with players and went to every game.

tmiller

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:51 AM ^

I would have loved to go to UM, but being from KS the tuition was $30,000 a year. Not an option. I became a fan when I was 11 and my brother signed his LOI to play there. Been bleedin' since!

MWW6T7

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:55 AM ^

I live in Louisville KY and have been a Michigan fan since I can remember watching football. My father was a fan and now I am raising my 16 month old daughter to be a fan. I have absolutely no ties to the state of Michigan other than the fact that I whole heartedly LOVE the Michigan Wolverines. I love the tradition and the history of the program. I would hope that any Michigan fan would except those of us who are not an alumn or attended the university. As long as I have Maize and Blue on and and cheer like you could you pick me out of a crowd?

AngelusBlue

September 24th, 2009 at 12:14 PM ^

I wish I'd have known there was another Michigan fan around when I lived in the Highlands for 6 years. I signed up for the Alumni Association when I first moved down so that I could meet people to watch the games, and at the time, I was the only member in the Louisville chapter that they listed. Epic fail! Anyway, Go Blue!

jg2112

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:54 AM ^

and a Michigan fan. I have been since I was 4. The idea that you need to attend a school to support the teams you like to watch, and have supported your whole life, is just silly.

befuggled

September 23rd, 2009 at 8:55 AM ^

All fan bases have their share of idiots. Some of those idiots would like the cub to be exclusive because they feel it gives them more status. It's best to ignore them, or mock them on those occasions when you can't ignore them. By the way, I'm the older, less athletic version of you. I grew up an hour away from Ann Arbor (and lived there for a year after my parents divorced) and went to upwards of 2 games a year for most of my childhood. However, for a variety of reasons I went to school out of state. For me, that was a good decision, but I don't see any reason to change my allegiance.

maracle

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:08 AM ^

Of course you can be a fan without going to UM. I know a number of people who are nearly deranged in their UM fandom who didn't go there. But I do have to ask...why are you against standing?

The King of Belch

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:09 AM ^

It's the intranets; believe very little of what you read. You ADMIT you aren't a UM grad--how many people bullshit about being a UM grad or student? SOoooo, coming to the intranets for this type of advice/thoughts gathering is a little like going around a church on Sunday and axing the folks there what they do during the week. Ahem. It has nothing to do with going to the school you root for. Expecially Michigan--they are selective, it costs a ton of money, you get preferential treatment if you have family that attended, and yeah, in your case, sometimes it comes down to if you can get a scholarship to go somewhere else and eschew the $100,000 price tag that your sheepskin will cost. Party on, root on, and don't be like the Sparties, who think you aren't a bonafide fan of a school unless you went there. Besides, when all else fails,you can always be an intranets grad of UM. I think there's a lot of that going around.

tdeshetler

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:26 AM ^

My story is not unlike many avid fans who share a love for the university (namely football) who decided it was better to attend a different school. My parents proposed that it I were able to excel through one year at the local university (Toledo), they would pay for me to transfer to Michigan. I was young, dumb and focused on everything but the classroom. Truth is, I flunked out and embarrassed myself by my conduct. Through that experience, I knew I needed a smaller institution where professors were better prepared to hold students accountable for attendance and participation. Do I regret not going to Michigan now that I am much older? A little. There’s a bond and pride I see with many alumni I interact with. But the small school was a turning point in my life that helped to guide me through the stupidity I call my early 20's. That process doesn’t diminish the love that I had previously or in the future for the university and it’s athletic program. I donate to the university, purchase season tickets and wear my t-shirts and hats with as much pride as any alumni. I wonder how many times you’d have 100k+ in the stadium if the only ones that could attend were alumni?

Wolverine Gator

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:31 AM ^

I sure hope you can be a fan and not be an alum. I got moved to Florida my junior year of high school so out of state at Michigan was far too rich for my blood. (I worked two jobs as it was to pay for college!) I still bleed maize and blue, but after two years of abuse from my friends at Florida, two basketball championships and the first football championship of the decade, a little bit of orange found its way into my veins. I did root for Michigan in the Citrus Bowl against the Gators two years ago.

Aequitas

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:37 AM ^

who determines whether you're a fan or not. It sounds like you're a 100x more of a fan than alums that wanted Rodriguez fired after last season. I went there but it doesn't make me any more of a fan than my brother who didn't...or for that matter, me, prior to attending. Attendance has nothing to do with someone's fanhood. Nothing.

jblaze

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 AM ^

who was really not a fan of Michigan before attending undergrad, I have the opposite issue. In HS, I didn't pay attention to college sports at all. I have noticed 2 types of fans and this is not at all based on whether someone has attended Michigan or not. The 1st is the casual fan that watches ~5-6 games a year, usually at the bar with friends and knows the names of ~4-6 players, give or take a few. Most times these guys are alumni that have watch with college friends. A lot of times, but not always this group consists of grad school students, who feel more "loyal" to their undergrad or just don't get much into football. The 2nd type is the more intense fan that reads MGoBlog, knows all of the players, coaches, recruits... These guys that I have met are sometimes almni, and sometimes not alumni. In fact, most of the non-alumni Michigan fans fall into this group. At the end of the day, it just matters that you are a fan, cheer for the Maize & Blue and show support, whenever you can. If an alumnus questions your fandom, they are a douche and do not speak for all alumni.

GWUWolverineFan

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:52 AM ^

Hah, I knew the standing comment would get a response. I am not opposed to standing, but at the same time I would never berate someone for not standing. The "Down in Fronts" are in my opinion a little less assholish than the drunk prick during the timeout screaming at the 70 year old couple to "STAND UP AND CHEER GAWD!"

Don

September 23rd, 2009 at 9:58 AM ^

Wait a minute... I'm appalled that Gary Moeller and Lloyd Carr would have recruited this type of player. This demands an immediate in-depth investigation by Rosenberg and Snyder, backed by the full resources of the Detroit Free Press, and backed with subpeona power if necessary. Carr's tolerance of this behavior is an insult to true Michigan men like Rosenberg and Snyder.

GWUWolverineFan

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:03 AM ^

heh.. Woodsons job was to make photocopies, and when it was inquired as to why he no-showed quote- "It was too hard." Glenn Steele on the other hand worked for my parents company for all his time at U of M, and even got my dad a football signed by the '97 NCAA Champ football team.

thee1jersey

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:07 AM ^

I am not an alum. And only been to the state of Michigan 5 times. 2 being actual games and 1 being the spring game in 07. I've been a fan since i was in Jr. High school, and haven't looked back. Living in ohio, i get this a lot, "You live in ohio, why are you a Michigan fan?", or " It's hard to like Michigan when they were 3-9 last season," and my favorite from my boss, "You only like Michigan for the attention." Last season made me a bigger fan and supporter of The University of MIchigan. My answer is Yes, you can be a fan without attending Michigan.

MaizeAndBlueWahoo

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:10 AM ^

I've been trying to chime in without writing a frickin' graduate thesis and it's hard. Suffice it to say, I live on both sides of the coin: I'm a born-and-raised Michigan fan who didn't go to Michigan, and I'm a Virginia alum who knew nothing of UVA and had zero emotional attachment until I actually went there. I can't imagine holding my diploma over someone's head and using it as an official certificate of fanhood against some old-timer (or even not-at-all-old-timer) who didn't go to UVA. Especially one who lived and breathed the part of UVA history before 2000, which to me, is not much different than, say, the Korean War: I wasn't there. However, comma, I've never run into a Michigan fan who questioned my fanhood based on my non-alum status. I have even sat in the student section at the Big House using someone else's ID, admitted such to those surrounding me, and never had even the tiniest shred of complaint. I have run into some Michigan State fans who have, which is why that is one of the loserest fanbases in the entire country.

xuwolverine

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:18 AM ^

I have never had my fanhood questioned as well. As a Xavier graduate who also was a scholarship athlete I maintained my deep love for the Maize and Blue throughout my 4 years at XU and still to this day. In fact, I lucked out. Xavier has not had a football team since 1973 so there was never a risk of conflict of interest. If they had a team I am confident that it would have never hindered my allegiance to the Wolverines. I believe that to be the case after witnessing a friend of mine maintain his love for Marquette basketball despite witnessing 4 of the best years in Xavier Basketball history. I also believe that my passion has increased for Michigan from the defense mechanisms I have acquired over the years living in the Cleveland area. It has been unbelievably miserable here dealing with these morons. I have alwasy loved Michigan will every bone in my body and always will. Go Blue.

MichiganExile

September 23rd, 2009 at 11:31 AM ^

I'm in the exact same situation as you. I will also add that I had a buddy in undergrad who was a gigantic UM fan (not our undergrad school) who also grew up in South Carolina and had no family or noticeable ties to UM. He just said he started rooting for them when he was about 7 or 8 and never looked back. I have no problem with non-alum fans.

MWW6T7

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:20 AM ^

I get that a lot too. Where I live , basketball is the king of sports and everybody looks at me funny when I wear my jersey on gameday but I wear it every saturday with pride even more so now after going through last season. There are so many fair weathered fans for the local teams here it is not funny and any fan can jump ship when things go wrong but I proudly and humbly keep my head up high, the block M on my chest stuck out, and feel the sense of pride it is to be a supporter of Michigan atletics.

Fresh Meat

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:21 AM ^

I was born in Ann Arbor, my parents were born and raised in Plymouth and my grandparents on my mom's side were born and raised in Flint. We moved out of state when I was younger and I could not afford out of state tuition. When I chose law schools, I applied to Michigan and ND, and was accepted to both, but was offered literally 10 times as much money to go to ND and went there. What I have HATED though, is how many people say I am not a fan because I didn't go to school there. I'm sorry that my parents moved out of state before college, and that my parents had no money and I had to pay my own way through undergrad and law school and couldn't afford Michigan. It's not my fault I moved nor is it my fault my parents are poor. I don't think my ND fan friends are bigger fans than me because mommy and daddy could afford to cut them a check to go their favorite football teams school, while also paying their room and board and sending them spending money casually. I especially think their argument is dumb in light of the fact that ND undergrad is about 8,000 people, so if only true fans are the ones who attended the school, ND would lose about 3/4's of their fan base because of how small their student population is. I follow Michigan sports as close or closer than anyone, and reject the idea that economic fortune or parents choosing to live in the home state make someone a better fan than me.

Wolverine318

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:38 AM ^

I am also a Purdue alum. I grew up a Michigan fan living in western Michigan. I went to Purdue because I was being waitlisted for Michigan engineering and Purdue was offering me a scholarship for engineering. The deadline was coming up, so I had to make a decision or I would have lost the scholarship. However, I still ended up at Michigan for graduate school. I could care less if you attended Michigan or not. As long as you represent this university well, who cares.

evenyoubrutus

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:40 AM ^

half my family went to UofM. I still live in Ann Arbor. I live and die with Michigan Football. Here's my feeling on fandom; nobody chooses to be a fan of any team. I did not wake up one day and say "I think I will be a Michigan fan." I have no memory of not being a Michigan fan, because I have always been one. I have watched Michigan games with my dad (who also went to EMU) since I was old enough to understand what a TV was. If Michigan loses and you say "oh well, there's always (insert other team)" you're not really a fan. They are MY TEAM. I get a different feeling when I see those helmets and uniforms and those colors than what I get from seeing any other sports team. It's not something I can help. If someone wants to shoot me because I didn't go to UofM, then I will die a martyr for my team, and I'll be sure to turn as I fall so they can kiss my ass afterwards. So my answer is yes, you can be a fan without attending UofM.

Brodie

September 23rd, 2009 at 10:40 AM ^

I wore Maize and Blue diapers. My first memories are of my brother attending a baseball camp on campus and being mesmerized with how pretty I thought it was, even empty in the summer. My wardrobe from ages 7-13 consisted almost entirely of Michigan clothing... the day my niece was born, I wore a Chris Perry jersey to the hospital. I lived and breathed Michigan... not just football, either. The whole school was my obsession. Unfortunately, I have little tolerance for homework and suffered through severe depression in high school... I also finished short of my hopes on the ACT, I already suck at math, giving me a time limit won't help. Having a 3.3 GPA and a 26 on the ACT isn't even in the same universe as what it takes to get into Ann Arbor. I had good SAT scores, good enough to supersede my bad GPA for some schools on the coasts... so I set my sites on small, private schools out west. Being naive, I assumed my parents would help me pay the $40,000 a year it took to go to Gonzaga. What I got was "lol wut". I picked UM-Dearborn as a safety. It seemed logical, it was kind of Michigan, close enough to drive to and cheap enough that I could could pay for it myself after scholarships. Hey, I even got to go to Michigan games and sit in the student section. Awesomeness. I had an MCard, a uniqname, the ability to check out books on the campus in AA. What more could I have asked for? I was at Michigan... or so I thought. This is what I encountered half the time I tried to hang out in Ann Arbor. Not everyone was like that, but enough people were to bring that depression back real quick. I went from thinking I was finally in to feeling like more of a "Walmart Wolverine" than ever before. So I studied my ass. 3.7 GPA, multiple clubs (some of which only had two other members), volunteer work at the ASPCA, a rec from my congressman, a 29 on my retaken ACT's... and I finally got in as a rising junior. What I learned from this adventure is that college football is not about college. It's about a connection to a team, to a place, to a helmet, whatever. It's personal. Going to school in Ann Arbor for two years did nothing to make me more of a fan than I was when I wanted to go to school in effing Spokane. The people who hide behind the Walmart tags, etc are insecure. They're insecure because their LSA degree can only get them so far and they're stuck in a dead end job (like mine!), they're insecure because you're a better fan than they are and it eats them up. Next time you encounter one of these fans, tell him to get fucked. There would be no football program if not for the tens of thousands non alums packing that stadium each week. They should be grateful.

Anonymosity

September 23rd, 2009 at 12:57 PM ^

Jesus, those people in the michiganagainsttheworld comments sure hate UM-Dearborn and everything associated with it. I consider myself as much of a Michigan fan as anyone else, even though I only went to Dearborn*, which I generally refer to as Fake Michigan when explaining to New Englanders where I went for undergrad. I've been a fan of Michigan sports my whole life, though. *I, for one, landed a pretty sweet job with my UMD diploma. I'm in charge of the deep frier, so I can sneak a few fries or onion rings when the assistant manager isn't looking. Free food, baby!

Anonymosity

September 24th, 2009 at 1:33 PM ^

Not only do people out here not know the difference between UM-AA and UM-Dearborn, they also often don't know the difference between either of those and Michigan State. For UM-AA people- don't sweat it; the dead weight that really brings down UMD doesn't typically venture outside Metro Detroit. I find that the UMD grads who escaped southeast Michigan generally represent the University of Michigan name well. Just sayin'

Brodie

September 25th, 2009 at 1:02 AM ^

UMD is actually quite a good school... engineering and computer science are top 10 in the country, the business program is so well connected that a lot of graduates are already making $40-50k by the time they graduate. CASL isn't anything special, but if you have the grades it will still get you into your grad school of choice. In a lot of ways, it is like a smaller version of Ann Arbor. Most of it depends on the student, and unfortunately a lot of the student body at Dearborn would be a better fit next door at HFCC. Now, I wouldn't read the Journal if my life depended on it... but I still have some UMD pride.