An "Ohio" thing?
I prefer separate checks, but usually my desire to not be a dick to the wait staff overcomes that preference. But I wouldn't make too much of it.
Not be a dick to the waitstaff? It's a lot more courteous to tell the waiter/waitress at the beginning that the whole party won't be paying with one tender. Otherwise, they have to try to rememeber what everyone had at the end to split it up.
No
The intent is that if everyone has basically the same value of food, then you just tell the waiter to split the check evenly amongst the entire group. There is a button on the order management machine that does this very easily. This is much easier for the waitstaff.
Disclaimer: I was a waiter at arbor brewing company and gratzi's for several years.
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I have never once ordered with a group larger than teo and had the orders come out anywhere CLOSE to equal in value. As someone who usually orders a sandwich, even at a high-end restaurant, I'll be damned if I am going to be paying an extra 10-15 bucks just because they ordered a freaking steak.
Cool man. Enjoy your $10 with all your friends...
I live in Ohio and I can say for the most part there aren't many people here in the state who I would buy dinner for.
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Seconded
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Thirdededed. Most accurate take on this.
I'm not an expert, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express recently, and I don't think this should be a thread
This thread is much more important than the Nico Collins thread right below. Only a couple of more weeks until OT and more important, football season.
Edit: I guess i should have put the /s after the comment regarding Nico Collins and I mistyped the second. Missing point was that a couple more weeks and OT is going to be limited.
That makes sense. Thought you were joking until the second sentence.
I can't stand cheap people. It makes me real mad when someone says something like "hey, when are you going to pay me that hundred dollars you owe me?" or "do you have that $50 you borrowed?". Man, quit being so cheap.
I don't know anyone that asks for separate checks. And I know some people from Ohio. Sometimes I nest a portion of my remaining food and get a free meal. It all depends on my mood. Some days I feel squirrely.
Hey, if there's still plenty of meat on that bone, you take it home, throw it in a pot
Baby, you got yourself a stew going
Here in the east, it's customary to pick up the tab for everyone in the restaurant. You're saying this doesn't happen everywhere?
I live in Manhattan and do not believe that is customary.
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It's a Jersey thing. You wouldn't understand.
Live in toledo and don't really see that often
but shared coolers.
When I first read this post, I read it as, "Separate cheeks, butt shared coolers" and thought, "welp, sounds about right for Ohio".
I thought in Ohio it's "separate checks, share your sister."
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I suppose it depends on what you mean by upscale ohio restaurant.
Waffle House upscale enough?
Frickers...lol
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I was fully expecting this to be about pooping in coolers.
Impossible. There's a question mark at the end of the thread title.
Sadly, the Pushover Plunger has put an end to that practice. Now, one can poop anywhere,
Lived my whole life in Ohio. I am so used to it that it catches me off guard when a waiter/waitress glances oddly when we point out who's paying for whom.
Given modern billing systems I don't see why this isn't standard. There exists simply too many chances for inequality. Between people having kids, numerous beers, or salad only eating wives, our bills would rarely be even splits. Too often this has turned into a free rider situation where someone orders 5 appetizers knowing they aren't paying full price.
What is the real opposition to separate checks? I've never understood why it isn't standard practice everywhere?
Agree with this. I don't see the big deal with separate checks.
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It defines someone as not classy. A couple of basic rules: if you are with your friends pick up the check from time to time and let them do it as well. It should even out over time. If it doesn't the guy who is short all the time is a douche and should not be your friend. (Some say when you are young and poor it's okay to split evenly. I can live with that until the group is employed). Rule 2: if you invite someone out for dinner you pay.
Whatever! I pay for mine you pay for yours. As long as the waiter/waitress gets tipped fairly I see no issue
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Well said.
(BTW favorite bumper sticker?
"Say yah to da UP, eh?"
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Shut up, Yooper.
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If I am in a restaurant with anyone that isn't my family, it's because I am there against my will. I rarely drink and, as I said above, I usually just eat a sandwich. Now, having said that: I will pick up the check on Birthdays, my inlaws (because they used to take me and my wife out to eat once or twice a week when we were in college), and anyone under 18. Anyone else can suck it..
I don't know if that's an Ohio thing, but I know two things that are; pooping in coolers and doing the five finger shuffle to pictures of their sisters.
Some of us have to use both hands...just saying.
I'm sorry you have Donald trump Ken doll hands.
Would having Hillary Clinton Barbie doll hands be more or less insulting?
It's 2016. Restaurants should be fully capable of splitting checks and it ticks me off when they won't do it.
say mine for this example, comes to 55 and the other 65. I'll just toss 65 down to cover food and tip and he can have the choice to pay with card or cash and tip what he wants. I don't think it a "thing" anywhere in the states,but if you're dining with Canadians or just having drinks, don't even try to buy them a drink. It'll screw up their entire night.
Remember the first time I sat down with a Canadian couple that would later become close friends. This was in Mexico, but you will take your habits with you. We were having drinks and I just ordered a round, like I would any place in N. America, Canada, right on down to Ecuador. The Canadian man asked, not really upset but, "Jim what are you doing?" I really didn't think it needed an explanation but I told him, "I'm buying a round." He seemed really put off. I fugured if he wanted to buy a round he could, if not, no big deal. I wasn't keeping score.
Later I asked another Canadian what the deal was and he gave me some b.s. about gratuities being part of the bill in Canada and that's why they didn't tip. I reminded him that he was not in Canada and the foiod was so damn cheap anyway. Later, a Canadian girl that served both in Canada and while she was down there for the winter said it was bullshit and it was definitely a Canadian thing.
I know I tend to be a little generous but I had two sisters do the waitressing thing while going to school and I saw how hard they worked, but the good ones are, like OP said, not going to make you wait for a refill. I try to tip accordingly, but I don't really punish them if they're a little slow. I've always felt you should pay what you feel comfortable with but like in all things where tips are involved, imagine its you doing the serving.
I would say a vast majority of places I go out to eat or grab a drink will ask if it's all together or separate here in Michigan when out with friends, if it's me and the fiancé they half heartedly ask knowing its on one.
I always expect to have a separate check when dining with friends. However, if someone decides to pick up the entire tab I'll make a mental note and make sure to get the next meal for the guy that paid.
If it's close friends, we typically have a system. One guy has cash, the other charges it to make it easier on the staff. Even if the cash isn't exact, it usually works out
Yep, it always works out with friends.
Gets Five Fakes out of Five.
First, it's bullshit, a credibility grab, something just to start a snark roll.
Secondly, separate checks for couples? What's the big deal. If I'm dining out with another couple, I ain't paying for some dude's fat ass hog to scarf down half the menu.
Third--why the FUCK are you calling them "friends" and then running to a message board with this shit? You sound like a real dick head.
rough day?
You mad bro?
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Agree
I had a snark roll for dinner at a place around here. So good but super expensive--that place was packed!