Garrick Roemer (mens track) commits suicide

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I am uncertain about posting reddit as a source but a fellow track team member on their is reporting Garrick passed away yesterday and asks for everyone's thoughts an prayers. Horrible, horrible circumstance.

A search for his name on twitter leads to multiple UM students accounts (including Mitch McGary) expressing their condolences throughout the day, as far as confirmation goes sadly. (Nothing on mgoblue as of yet.)

MilkSteak

May 5th, 2014 at 11:24 PM ^

Terrible. Keep this kid's family and friends in your thoughts. Mental health is important people, if anyone is having trouble go talk to someone - a little can go a long way. 

JHendo

May 5th, 2014 at 11:58 PM ^

Besides the stress of dealing with finding a balance between their sport, their school and their social life, these kids still have to deal with familial, personal and emotional issues. It can't be easy for them, although it's quite easy for fans like me to forget all that. RIP, Garrick. If your passing was indeed by your own hand, I'm sorry you felt there was not anything more left for you here. To anyone else out there who may be struggling with depression and/or suicidal thoughts, just know there is always someone somewhere who you can talk to.

Ty Butterfield

May 6th, 2014 at 12:19 AM ^

Very sad. Thoughts and prayers to his family, friends, and fellow track team members.

maizeonblueaction

May 6th, 2014 at 12:50 AM ^

for graduate school actually had a recent rash of suicides over the Fall semester, and many people were obviously very upset. In the aftermath, they encouraged anyone who felt like they were in a similar situation to go to CAPS, etc., but one of the best pieces I read about the situation said that basically, CAPS is a valuable resource for people who need it, but honestly, the best thing we can do is be there for our fellow human beings.

Many people kill themselves because they feel utterly alone, like they have no one to turn to when they're upset, or even when something annoying or stupid happens and they just want to talk about it. So many people just get caught up in their own lives, and can't imagine that other people have problems, or can feel upset or alone. Sometimes all people need is a friend to talk to, and it can make all the difference.

LordGrantham

May 6th, 2014 at 1:23 AM ^

Reminds me of that Penn track student who committed suicide a few months ago.  That's just way too young to take such a drastic action.  How sad.

victorsvaliant01

May 6th, 2014 at 1:30 AM ^

Reading this really took the wind out of my sails--it makes all the trivialities of a busy and stressful Monday seem so silly. And while I'll never condone or understand suicide, I hope he can find peace now from whatever demons were tormenting him.

Rudy

May 6th, 2014 at 2:03 AM ^

Obviously my thoughts are with his family. I'm pretty sure a lot of you were making jokes about the guy who was killed by a toilet. Both are tragic yet this is the only one you give compassion to. Makes me fuckin sick. It makes me upset to share the same love for something you all do. Most of you should be ashamed.

Danwillhor

May 6th, 2014 at 7:42 AM ^

both are dead people. Period. People that for all we know were good people. I was so disgusted by the jokes of the man in South America I just refused to post due to how angry I knew I'd became over the comments. This kid ending his life is terrible, beyond terrible. I'd be lying if I said I haven't struggled with the thought to the point of being help I've never sought. However, him being a UM student athlete gives this thread a different tone than "toilet man" and that is sickening, IMO. RIP to both.

LordGrantham

May 6th, 2014 at 1:38 PM ^

Obviously it's a different tone.  One death is a young student in a community that most of us are intimately familiar with who took his own life, and the other is an anonymous guy thousands of miles away who was killed by a toilet.  You can pretend like the reactions to those things should be the same, but they never will be.  The sooner you accept that and stop hijacking threads to assert your righteousness, the better.

BiSB

May 6th, 2014 at 9:46 AM ^

But I'd encourage folks to keep in mind the issue at hand, and to keep this thread civil for the sake of the people with heavy hearts who may read it.

LordGrantham

May 6th, 2014 at 1:20 PM ^

Wait, you mean to tell me that people don't have the same level of caring for every death around the world?  That is repulsive!  Like me, you must be in constant mourning given the 150,000 people who die every day.

BlueCube

May 6th, 2014 at 6:21 AM ^

My sympathies to the family and friends.

Someone posted exactly what happens to you over time when you OD. I wish there was a way to get that in front of everyone considering trying to do this. There is no good way to go about it but what you experience this way is terrible.

Tthere is no good way to do this. Get help for yourself. No matter how bad things get you are loved and there are people who care tremendously about you. Suicide is not the answer.

chomz14

May 6th, 2014 at 6:49 AM ^

Wow a guy I work with told me about this yesterday. His Neice was friends with him. And was said to be a very nice kid... So sad.

Wolverine Devotee

May 6th, 2014 at 7:30 AM ^

As someone who was on the brink of this years ago, this hits close to home every time. Incredibly sad. God rest his soul and bless his family and friends to heal as well as his team.

JHendo

May 6th, 2014 at 9:42 AM ^

We are not just nameless, faceless Michigan sports fanatics on the internet.  We are all people too, and in one way or another, this story has hit close to home for many of us.  Whether it does because of how much we love this university and all its student athletes, because you are college aged, because you are or know someone who is or was struggling with depression, because you have a (near) college aged kid, or because you simply value human life, this is a relevant topic.  

As long as people respond appropiately and use this thread to pay their respects and bring attention to depression and suicide awareness, I see no reason why it should not be here.

michchi85

May 6th, 2014 at 10:52 AM ^

You never know who could be reading this and thinking terrible thoughts about ending their life.  A thread about how tragic and unnecessary this is could be helpful to even one person, and that's all worth it.

Zoltanrules

May 6th, 2014 at 9:19 AM ^

thoughts. The reddit string was informative to read as a parent. It's easy to get caught up in this world we live in that is ultra-competitive and everything seems to be out in the open via the social network. I hope those of us who parent, coach, teach,etc. let these terrific young kids know they are special and loved no matter what they achieve or what mistakes they may make in life. Just very sad right now.