Frank Clark: "The woman took it to another level"

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When asked about the November domestic violence incident, Frank Clark appeared to blame the woman: 

Clark: "The woman involved took it to another level. It all could have been avoided." He said it was a "shock" when he invited to Combine

— Dane Brugler (@dpbrugler) February 20, 2015

That just sounds horrible. 

Mod edit: This is the full quote from this MLive story. There are more words from Clark in the story and I'd encourage everyone to take a look before forming a strong opinion on what he said today. JGB.

I'm just saying it was a conversation between me and one my friends, and the woman involved, she took it to another level that it shouldn't have been taken to. "That's fine. I'm not throwing her under the bus. I'm not saying she did anything wrong. I'm just saying a lot of things that happened in that room that night could have been avoided."

Monkey House

February 20th, 2015 at 1:55 PM ^

I don't know the whole story of what went down so I done have much opinion on these specific case. DV cases can very tricky and the guy involved is not always in the wrong, even if charges are pressed. I am by no means saying he is innocent, I just hope he and this woman are ok and have happy lives from here on out.

late night BTB

February 20th, 2015 at 2:11 PM ^

let's actually have this thing go to trial with a conviction before bashing him.  I mean, in light of the UVA rape and the mattress girl from Columbia, females have not been very trustworthy lately of accurately reporting things like rape and domestic violence while the male accused gets creamed in the press.

yea yea you shouldn't hit women, but women also shouldn't do things that get them hit or initiate physical confrontation with men.  I think the details will come out that this women wasn't just sitting around and then got beat up.  She probably behaved more along the Tila Tequila/Chuck Finley wife type stuff.  But yea, because shit is so PC now, even when a man is getting assaulted he should never hit a women.  GTFO.

4EverBlueGirl

February 20th, 2015 at 4:01 PM ^

She claims to have thrown both a remote and an alarm clock.  Did either or both hit him?  Who knows -- yet.   She also bit him while being restrained. (Marks show she landed the bite)  Did he restrain her because he was pissed she threw a remote his way?  How much of a factor did alcohol have to do with this situation?  He admitted to drinking.  And was she pregnant as Frank suggested in the police report?   How about she NOT throw anything in the first place and how about a 277 pound man walk away once things spin out of control? 

I am all for letting this play out in court. I hope they both get counseling and make much better choices.

CoachBP6

February 20th, 2015 at 3:48 PM ^

You know the old saying, "it takes two to tango". Neither of these two are innocent, but it always falls on the man to restrain himself. Frank did not restrain himself and the end result erased several years of hard work. Frank is a great athlete and I'm sure he will do well at the combine. With the NFL magnifying domestic violence more than ever idk if Frank will be picked up or not. I hope Frank lands with steam bc I am scared for him if he returns to his roots.

freejs

February 20th, 2015 at 10:36 PM ^

it's distressing that some people seem not to understand his responsibility to restrain himself. 

I would stake a lot that she had plenty to do with this, but that doesn't excuse the response. Clark is strong enough to kill someone by accident - he can defend himself, but he's got to do that and get the hell away from there.

jsquigg

February 20th, 2015 at 3:53 PM ^

With all due respect, while violence against women is never right, too often violence by women against men gets overlooked.  No one knows what exactly happened or how things got escalated other than the parties involved.  As usual, the group think complex dictates that everyone should demonize Clark.  I prefer Brian's approach, which is to wish Frank nothing but the best in life from here on out.  We all make terrible mistakes but these kids have theirs made public.

tolmichfan

February 20th, 2015 at 5:03 PM ^

Well I agree that people who commit abuse deserve everything that comes their way in prison. This is not a case of abuse. This is one incident, and while he could go down the road of abuseing women, he also could learn from this and not go down that road. I feel bad for Frank, I also feel bad for the girl (for obvious reasons). If this was a situation between two guys in which a verbal argument was escalated to violence by throwing objects, then frank would be considered the victim. But the reality of the situation is it was between a man and women, and he didn't need to continue the escalation, and he should be punished. She also should get charged.

Jimmyisgod

February 20th, 2015 at 5:40 PM ^

He drank over a fifth of cognac and bet his girlfriend who may have been pregnant so severely he was found unconscious in the floor of the hotel room. Stop defending him people!!!

UMChick77

February 21st, 2015 at 12:37 PM ^

As a woman, I feel the need to comment on this based on some of the responses.

Most men are a hell of a lot stronger than most women and can easily contain a physical situation. There is no need with getting out of control with a woman on this level since 9 out of 10 times you can easily overpower her, unless you are 5'0" skinny Rob Lowe and she's a 6'5" MMA fighter.... or Hope Solo, then you have different issues. 

 

Unless there is immediate danger to getting harmed (not hit, slapped, punched, bitten, etc) with serious injury or death impending, then yes...you are within your rights to protect yourself. If that means hitting a woman to save your life.... I wouldn't have an issue with that. 

Most times it's never about that. It's just a coward and a bully with no self esteem or control who feels better about himself hurting someone else. 

That being said, a guy who I was dating had a crazy ex girlfriend. He was raised never to hit girls and even when she attacked him, he just took it and begged her to stop. He tried to get his phone and she broke it, jumped on his back and bit him so bad, (saw the bite wound---it looked like an animal got him) and out of self defense, swung his elbow around and caught her in the nose and she started bleeding. Long story short, she called the cops and it ended up looking like he was the aggressor because she had more obvious damage to her than him. He went to jail but the crinimal charges were dropped because it was quite obvious what had happened. He was 6'2" and she was 5'0" nothing. Sometimes guys get caught up into situations like this too, and it can favor the women over the men.  That chick was just lucky I wasn't around that night. I'd probably would have gone to jail too.