OT: stepdad in need of help navigating through stepkids' fandom

OT: stepdad in need of help navigating through stepkids' fandom

Submitted by Mr. Elbel on September 25th, 2016 at 7:26 PM
Apologize ahead of time if formatting is crap. Posting on chrome app so I've found its usually a wall of text. Bear with me though. So, this is beyond random, but that's ok. I'm feeling down tonight because my future step-daughter just pulled out the "I think I like Ohio better than Michigan" stance on me. She along with their entire family are actually UVA fans. I tried to tell her that I really like how she likes UVA since that's where she's from. So. How do I navigate those waters? She's 9 years old and very bright. Her brother is 5 and likes UVA too. Dad hasn't been around for years now but I don't think he's an influence either way. I'm afraid to push UM at all for fear that it'll push her away. She likes me sometimes but is definitely still warming up to me. So what do I do? My fiancé could not care less about football but will watch and try to learn for my sake. I've only been with her for 2 years so I haven't had the opportunity to brainwash from the beginning. I feel like I've tried to not push it but this damn Ohio thing came out of nowhere. What do I do?

OT - Official MGoBaby Thread (you got 'em, we want to see 'em)

OT - Official MGoBaby Thread (you got 'em, we want to see 'em)

Submitted by CooperLily21 on May 22nd, 2013 at 10:28 AM

 Since MGoUsers weasel3216 inspired it and Feat of Clay asked for it, here is your official MGoBaby thread.  Post your favorite pictures of your little ones - recent or old - if you feel so inclined.  In other words, post 'em if you got 'em!

(For all you I Hate OT Threaders:  Beware!  If you neg posts with pictures of babies you are not human and will be doomed to having cute little babies of your own that wake 10 times in the night for 2 years and learn to say your spouse's name first.  I mean, who doesn't like pictures of cute babies that are going to grow up Michigan fans??  Also, its the off-season and of the 15 most recent posts on the Board, only 3 of them directly pertain to Michigan sports.  So consider this note a preemptive "get over it.") 

What sort of home did you grow up in?

What sort of home did you grow up in?

Submitted by Blazefire on April 14th, 2011 at 12:40 PM

As we approach the spring game, I've been put in mind of the fact that until I was about 16, I didn't even know there was a spring game. My parents andthe rest of my family were and are Michigan fans, but of a certain variety.

Dad is a "state of Michigan" fan, and will cheer for Sparty in all cases where they are not playing U of M. Michigan is his #1, but anything of the state is his number two. His Michigan fandom is most evident in his intense distaste for ND and OSU. Mom is a Michigan fan because dad is, and my granparents and her siblings were and are, but really, if Dad rooted for OSU, that'd be her team. My sister couldn't give a rat's rear end.

Growing up, I never knew the player's names, because my family didn't go in for big time fandom. I knew Timmy B, because Mom thought his name was hilarious. I didn't really become aware of players till round about Henne's freshman season. Oddly enough, I can now talk about players from earlier eras with my dad, and he knows all who I'm talking about. I guess he was a pretty big fan, but it never occured to him to discuss it.

It's weird that, coming from these rather topical fan origins, I should become such a diehard. I mean, my Dad doesn't even know a guy exists until his third game starting. Meanwhile, I pore over recruitng and watch spring games and hang on every word of practice reports. I study UFR's and game evaluations with rapt attention. I follow our players into their NFL careers should they have them. I'm just trying to figure out how from those origins, I got so craze for the Maize and Blue.

What was your M upbringing like?

Lifelong Hangover-In My Heart

Lifelong Hangover-In My Heart

Submitted by EZMIKEP on November 30th, 2010 at 3:59 AM

(Sorry if this is to long for the board-I don't post often and I felt like I am not a good enough writer to post in a diary compared to whats on the board these days)

 

 Yesterday one of my best friends called me to talk a bit about Michigan football as we always do every other week or so. During the conversation you could hear the frustration and disappointment in both our voices. It was just total disgust from the entire ordeal. Even after everything thats happened since OSU 2006 & App State I have never heard that "I am damn tired and almost beat" voice from either one of us. But it was there today. 

 

If there is one thing that I am sure of if they fire Rich, its that the feeling of sadness will never ever leave me. I fucking love this guy. I'll be a lifelong fan and whatever school he goes to is going to become my 2nd favorite team and I don't have a 2nd favorite team. Its Michigan. And I am not grandstanding but damn if Rich isn't the gold standard of what we consider a Michigan man to be.  It shows in the kids and anyone who can't see that is a blind fool. Has he made some mistakes since he got here? Yes and who hasn't? But none of them would have ever been blown so far out of proportion if it wasn't for the bad luck, more bad luck, timing and microscopic eye he has been under. 

 

This has been beat like a dead horse but the simple fact is its true-Rodriguez has never had anything but grief since he walked in the door. Yet he just keeps on smiling, trying to be polite and doing what is best for the program. I'd say that is pretty commendable considering I have never in my life seen a person take as much intentional sabotaging as this coach has. Sure there have been some actual shitty coaches get publicly dogged here and there but its just kisses of sunshine compared to this.

 

Violations? We all know he didn't commit any goddamn violations. He was picked apart by some classless and completely worthless so called journalists in one of the biggest hatchet jobs in college sports history. I wish we lived in a simpler world where Dave Brandon says we want a flat out apology or anyone on your payroll is never allowed near the program again. IMO their smear job alone may have cost this team and Rich a couple of wins progress just due to it affect on recruiting. And ultimately that is just one more missile in my arsenal of reasoning for keeping this man one more year. 

 

Nobody on here or anywhere can truly give good reasoning for his firing without leaving out even more reasoning for keeping him. But the Jim Harbaugh thing has made so many people lose sight, even more so than the losses. And they don't even know if the guy really wants the job or if Michigan even wants him. Everybody is in a rush as if this is it, we need to seize the day and get this guy now before he bolts etc., that the true reasoning as to why we need to wait has left out the door for even some of the biggest Rich Rodriguez supporters. 

 

Is this the only coach out there? Maybe. Maybe not. But if we are trying to make a change immediately he might be the only correct choice if a change has to happen right now. But if Rich is shown the door and Harbaugh is the guy to replace him, what happens if he fails? That is when looking at the very long term future right now becomes essential. Because if anyone here thinks we are going to be able to hand select a great coach after they see what just happened with Rich, let alone followed by an exit by one of Michigans own its a wrap and we really could tailspin for a long time just like so many fans are paranoid about. IMO Nobody worth their weight is going to want to touch the job. Why would they? With the local media slander job and the hateful part of the fanbase looming in background, if you aren't showing the college football world that you will give someone time to succeed under these conditions the lineup won't be long. Hell it wasn't in 2007 either. 

 

On the flip side, if we fire Rich Rodriguez and replace him with Jim Harbaugh and he becomes successful I will be happy to have a good coach and see Michigan win. But deep down in my heart I will also be hurt and broken hearted for what could have been as well as a bit ashamed. I'll always think "What if?" for years. What if he had one more damn year. One more year without all the bad luck, less speculation drama(because it will be what it will be-a make or brake year-no extra questions asked because they have all been asked and answered except one) and with a team that actually wasn't a bunch of babies compared to the rest of the Big 10. And if that never comes, and in the coming weeks I end up seeing Rich get shown the door I will shed more than a few tears and thats no bullshit. Because this story would truly have a sad ending. In epic media fashion to boot. 

Im sure Harbaugh if hired would give the fans a lot of hype fuel with words about wipping our rivals asses, and I have heard a lot of people saying they want that because they feel Rich doesn't show any fire or seem to care about our rivals. But I say hogwash, nobody wants those wins more than he does. But I don't see rich as the guy to go out spewing Dantonio like moronic comments with or without the product to back it up. But I think when we are ready to roll these teams and he knows it, there will definitely be some jabs, yet professional because thats who he is.  

 

People say hiring Harbaugh will unite the fanbase. Maybe in a way, but the damn fans should have already been there. 

Greeting your fellow Blue

Greeting your fellow Blue

Submitted by Tully Mars on November 23rd, 2010 at 9:19 AM

So as we are in the midst of M-OSU week, folks tend to break out their gear in support at work and around town.  It's been nice for me living in OH (Cincinnati, so it's not too bad as there is a fairly decent support for M here and a good minority of disgust for OSU since it dominates Univ. of Cincinnati) and seeing the Maize and Blue around town.

Whenever I see it, I normally throw out a "Go Blue!".  That got me thinking though if this is what others use as a standard greeting to their fellow Wolverines that they don't know or if folks have other salutations or gestures (such as 'Hail' fist pump).

OT -- Terriers on FX

OT -- Terriers on FX

Submitted by Dave on October 21st, 2010 at 1:11 PM

Stumbled across this:

http://www.tvsquad.com/2010/10/20/talking-terriers-with-donal-logue-and-michael-raymond-james/

Did anyone see these guys at the Michigan / Iowa game?  Nice to see that Michael Raymond-James is a huge Michigan fan, as well.

Also, here's an obligatory "you're missing a great show" to all those people -- i.e., everyone -- who's not watching "Terriers". 

Michigan Fans in High Places

Michigan Fans in High Places

Submitted by Blazefire on May 13th, 2010 at 10:02 PM

The things you learn sometimes, I tell ya... I always knew my dad's cousin, Tom Howard, was something of a name in the Navy. I never see the man, but I know of him. I probably saw him and last talked to him 10 years ago, when I was in my young teens. I know he's a big Michigan fan like the rest of the family, but not much else.

However, there recently was an article on him in the Toledo Blade, as he has been promoted once more before retirement. Promoted to what, you say? Master Chief of the Atlantic Navy. Second higest non-com in the U.S. Navy. That, my friends, is some Maize and Blue power.

What other Michigan fans in powerful places are you aware of?

Fans in general

Fans in general

Submitted by Wendyk5 on October 25th, 2009 at 9:25 AM

I get to the Big House once a year if I'm lucky, and I was there yesterday. We had three tickets in section 24, up under the rafters of the press box, and one ticket in section 23, 20 rows up from the field. The difference in fan behavior was amazing. Down in section 23, we stood for every play, screamed, yelled, acted like real fans. But when my husband and I switched places (we both wanted the section 23 ticket) and I had to go to the other seat, it was like a morgue. Polite clapping. No standing except for the national anthem.

What the hell? No wonder this stadium is so quiet. I thought the small Penn State section was louder than the rest of us put together. I think the stadium is too big, and how many fans willing to stand and yell the whole game are there? Maybe 70,000? The rest (the people in section 24 were older) just sit there and get pissed if you make some noise.

I expect a raucus day at the Big House. I expect to lose my voice. I now know where to sit, and where not to sit.