Well apparently I'm not coming off as intended. I don't necessarily care that you think I'm a douche. I must say though that I have no idea how any of this comes off as me being offensive to the poster. I'm just stating my viewpoint, not knocking his. I said I can't feel sorry for the guy, I never said the poster was wrong for feeling bad for him. He can feel however he wants, I just wondered why because I don't, so I was sincerely wondering.
Edit: If you're talking about my response to the poster who told me to F OFF because of my viewpoint, then I understand a little better. I didn't mean it in a bad way. Just as a matter of fact. And I also don't necessarily appreciate people taking me to F OFF, and I think I responded in a much better way than I could have. I don't go telling people to F OFF just because they have a certain opinion.