Sad news: Chad Carr entering hospice

Submitted by Quail2theVict0r on

http://www.mlive.com/news/ann-arbor/index.ssf/2015/11/5-year-old_chad_c…

Five-year-old Chad Carr, who has been battling with a rare, inoperable form of pediatric brain cancer for the last 13 months, has started hospice care after several aggressive treatments and no substantial progress has been made in his recovery in the past few months.

In a Facebook post Wednesday morning, Tammi Carr, Chad's mother, said it was a tough decision she and her husband Jason Carr made, but after watching their son's health continue to fail, they wanted to allow him to rest more peacefully than he had been during the last year since the non-stop medical treatments began.

gremlin3

November 11th, 2015 at 12:01 PM ^

Watch Cancer: The Emperor of All Maladies. It's a 3-part, 6-ish hour Ken Burns produced documentary. Streaming on Netflix and you can find some on YouTube.

Gained some fascinating insights on the disease(s).

EDIT: YouTube embeds below for those w/o Netflix. Netflix vid quality is better, and these may be pulled from YouTube, so I apologize in advance if that occurs.

MGoStretch

November 11th, 2015 at 2:31 PM ^

Several of my current colleagues are in the pediatic oriented episode there, they filmed a TON of footage but MGoStretch got left on the cutting room floor.

That being said, the real point is that cancer sucks and despite literally seeing kids with cancer every day, reading about the inevitability of some of the most terrible of terrible diagnosis still makes me choke up.  Prayers for Chad and his family (especially his parents and brothers, I can't for a single moment imagine how difficult that is).

BlueCube

November 11th, 2015 at 11:57 AM ^

I saw this and was so sad. No child should have to go threw this and no mother and father should have to go through this. We can only hope the cure for this terrible disease is found soon. Wishing the whole family the best through these trying times.

atticusb

November 11th, 2015 at 12:00 PM ^

Sometimes you encounter people who question the meaning or value of tradition and history--things Michigan is rich in.  It may seem a strange connection, but the tragedy the Carr family is experiencing now is a poignant demonstration of how and why these things are so powerful and important.  As part of the Michigan family, Chad and his story will live on, inspiring and empowering countless others for years and generations beyond his young life.  We all face difficulty, and some of us face true tragedy, but as part of the Michigan family, we all are connected, we all care, and we all remember, even in just small ways.  Each individual contribution may seem small, but woven into the rich fabric of tradition, those individual contributions build enduring and durable outcomes.  Chad is, and always will be a part of that.  Go Blue!, and all comfort, joy and peace to Chad and his family.

Ryno2317

November 11th, 2015 at 12:26 PM ^

This is terrible.  I follow her on facebook and her posts just tear my heart out.  I can't imagine having to deal with that.  Thought and prayers to all of them. 

gustave ferbert

November 11th, 2015 at 12:29 PM ^

but I can't help but be inspired by the outpouring on this thread and Tammi's facebook page.  You almost get the feeling that all of wolverine nation is pulling/praying/hoping for this kid and his family.  

there is at least that. 

ilah17

November 11th, 2015 at 12:32 PM ^

So sad. My heart breaks for his mom and his whole family. My son is 6 and I can't imagine how hard this is for Tami Carr. I'll be thinking about them and hoping for peace for everyone involved.



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FanNamedOzzy

November 11th, 2015 at 12:41 PM ^

Thoughts going out to the Carr family. I just hope Chad knows how many people are in his corner and wishing him the best. Never like to see anyone go through this...especially a kid. Puts things into perspective for sure.

Danwillhor

November 11th, 2015 at 12:47 PM ^

than a child having to go through this and the parents/family having to watch. It's so wrong, terrible and unfair. I'm not blowing smoke or speaking in exaggerated hyperbole when I say that he's stronger than I'll ever be. I can't imagine either side but a child I'd certified stronger than I'll ever be and I'm in my 30s. This like this truly make me feel like I don't deserve life. They ruin me, all children having to deal with this. I don't believe in miracles but I'm hoping for one wrt cancer every single day.

ElBictors

November 11th, 2015 at 2:18 PM ^

I've worn my #ChadTough bracelet for at least a year now and partly in support for my niece who is (again) battling brain cancer as well, in Dallas.

The news this morning of little man Chad entering hospice made my cry.  I couldn't help myself and know it's primarily because I see my dear, wonderful son in his place and have so much personally involved in our niece's battle.

It's just so unfair for kids to have to face these things.  It's not fair at all and I hope the Carr family is strong and that each and every moment left for Chad is spent in love and happiness and with no discomfort or pain.

(fuck, I'm crying again)

goblue16

November 11th, 2015 at 2:31 PM ^

Cancer is a terrible thing to go through and the chemo can take a horrible toll on a persons body. My grandma went through 2 years of chemo and it wasn't pleasant to say the least. Kid doesn't deserve this. Prayers to chad and his family.

holt1974

November 11th, 2015 at 3:49 PM ^

Awful news! I can't describe how sad I feel for someone I've never met. My son and Chad look a lot alike so is hitting home even more. Prayers to his family and all other families dealing with cancer in one form or another. My bracelet means even more today. #ChadTough



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markusr2007

November 11th, 2015 at 4:04 PM ^

I'm so sorry for the parents and Chad's entire family. This will be a very painful time for them. Hopefully Chad continues to receive good care and plenty of rest going forward.  Prayers of strength to them all and to Chad. He is one brave little boy.

MGoblu8

November 11th, 2015 at 4:33 PM ^

This is terrible. When I was younger, I worked as a pediatric nurse, but I don't know if I could now. I have two small children (5 & 2), and I just can't imagine. God bless him and his family.

Sam1863

November 11th, 2015 at 5:54 PM ^

I worked at Wayne State's College of Nursing several years ago, and remember talking to a couple of the professors about the different fields. Both of them had been nurses for 20+ years before they went into teaching, and both had been in the ER, Oncology, and other areas. And they both said the same thing: the one place they couldn't handle was Pediatric ICU. They said handling those kids who are so very sick took a special kind of tough.

MGoblu8

November 11th, 2015 at 6:25 PM ^

Don't get me wrong, it was my favorite nursing job. I was actually discouraged by many co-workers from going to peds, because of the parents. Honestly, I never experienced that. I found the parents to be appreciative, as most of them just wanted their kids to get better. And the kids were awesome. I still remember some of them vividly, and I've carried the memories with me throughout my career, even now that I've transitioned away from the bedside. But, yes, it takes a special breed. It tries your emotions, especially when you've built strong relationships. A lot of people will go through this with him and his family, but I can't imagine what they're going through.

JoeFink

November 11th, 2015 at 4:45 PM ^

Chad, in his 5 years, has touched more lives than most of us ever will, I have no doubt.  All of us will appreciate our own loved ones a little bit more, especially our children, because of Chad.  His courage is an inspiration, and makes me realize how lucky I am to have good health.  I hope his family finds comfort in knowing how many people have been postively impacted by Chad's life.

Jeff4179

November 11th, 2015 at 5:31 PM ^

Just reading this ruined my night.  Can't even imagine what it would feel like to go through it.  I sometimes try and empathize and think of how I would feel if this happened to my kid....and I can't even go there.