Question regarding early enrollees

Submitted by Gucci Mane on

Does an early enrollee for football have to be enrolled for Winter semester ? Or can they start class in Spring semester ? The main reason I ask is regarding Najee Harris. School starts on the 4th. So if he is not enrolled in Michigan by then are we out of it ? 

Some of the early enrollees (CMH, Black) are already in the directory. 

Alabama does not start till the 11th, so the more time he is not in either directory (he is not in theirs or ours yet) does that make them more likely ? 

Hopefully someone can answer the EE question. Either way, another thread on the top recruit can't hurt ! 

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Greyhound 96

January 1st, 2017 at 3:57 AM ^

My ex girlfriend of 7 days kissed a man to tonight at midnight. We dated for three years and we just broke up. what do I do? she tells me she loves me, but she did this? I don't know what to do. she says it's nothing but I am pretty upset

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pmark1210

January 1st, 2017 at 8:46 AM ^

Don't lie to yourself, she banged this dude. If not last night, then before. If not before, then she is going to bang this dude. If not this dude, then some other dude. Somehow, she's banging someone other than you. That's why she broke up with you.

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HateSparty

January 1st, 2017 at 10:55 AM ^

She broke up at Christmas this is not the top of the iceberg, I am afraid. Take some time and do not follow social media. Don't be a hermit. Do all the things you couldn't do since you were together. Some you will enjoy and some you will not. Enjoy the journey. Three years isn't a significant portion of your entire life, maybe now but not overall.



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maizeonblueaction

January 1st, 2017 at 1:23 PM ^

But I would say it depends who dumped whom. If you dumped her, of course she's gonna want to go out and have a good time, and maybe make you jealous. If she dumped you, it feels a bit heartless to dump you and tell you about any later exploits, but maybe she's testing you somehow. If that's the case, that doesn't seem like great behavior either, and might be a red flag. If she dumped you, lay low with her for a while, and go out and do stuff you enjoy, with people who care about you. Don't try and force a reconciliation, because that borders on begging, which is always unattractive. At any rate, I'd strongly disagree with the below people about not showing any emotion at all. By all means keep the heavier stuff within your inner circle, and don't post on social media about it, and definitely don't confront her with the heavier stuff. But once you feel ready and can have a reasonable discussion, approach her and be honest, and most importantly LISTEN. Men often complain that women want us to be mind readers, but in my experience women have the same complaint about men, so ask the questions you want answered.

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Gucci Mane

January 1st, 2017 at 4:07 AM ^

The other night a girl randomly kissed me. Imagine if the way I finally get herpes is some random kiss that I did not even solicit. If I were you I would get back with your ex but play it cool for about 6 months, don't take her too seriously. If after that time she proves herself, then re-commit to her !

Now.......about the OP LOL

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pmark1210

January 1st, 2017 at 9:00 AM ^

Gucci, if you're worried about the herps (really not ALL that bad, a few pimples essentially every now and then), I would NOT get back with his ex, she probably got herpes and definitely HPV.

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Kmaize

January 1st, 2017 at 8:55 AM ^

I agree. Keep with your inner circle but also do what you feel is best for yourself. Did you break up with her for kissing someone on NYE? Did she come home feeling bad and tell you about it? Did she brag about it and break up with you? There are plenty of ways this could have gone down, you weren't there. Not excusing her behavior at all. Just stay strong and think about the situation, what it means... and how you're going to react as a couple and individual from here on to that situation. 

 

Keep your head up.

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pmark1210

January 1st, 2017 at 9:04 AM ^

Stop being rational. Kick her to the curb and move on. Send a group text to all her family members explaining how big a wh**e she is. Whatever compromising photos of her you have, be sure to include those. It's a money text if you have a video!

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victors2000

January 1st, 2017 at 10:17 AM ^

If it is give it a few days and make up. If that's the worst that's come between the two of you, that's not too bad. If she's a girl you really like and would like to spend the rest of your life with, don't throw it all away on just a kiss. I wouldn't even count that as cheating. I remember when I was in the Navy in the midst of a cruise and a guy got a video from his girlfriend that she was breaking up with him. Then proceeded to have sex with her new boyfriend, holy cow! You can imagine how busted up he was about THAT. The rest of us enjoyed it, though.

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Blue in Paradise

January 1st, 2017 at 10:59 AM ^

It is really hard for someone here to help because we don't know the personalities or the circumstances. But generally speaking: If you broke up with her but still want to get back together, I wouldn't worry about it too much. If she broke up with you and then kissed a guy, take the pain now and move on. I hope that is helpful.

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MichiganMAN47

January 1st, 2017 at 11:03 AM ^

She's testing you to see how you will react. It's called a shit test. Girls do this because they want to figure out if you are an alpha or beta male. The more you act like a beta, weak male the more she will test you. If you have been having a rough patch it's probably because you are acting weak. A lot of times girls won't even realize that they are doing this, but it serves their best biological interests so they subconsciously do this. Girls need a strong guy who will provide resources. I would recommend not overreacting to this incident. If you make a big deal of it, you will appear weak. Think about it. The guys who are strong aren't rattled by petty things like this. Let her come to you.

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Blue in Paradise

January 1st, 2017 at 11:28 AM ^

The best way to be strong is to stay friends with the ex and start dating other women. It will drive her crazy and she will fight to get you back. I had a similar situation back in my single days after a longtime girlfriend broke up with me. First few days, I was upset which is what she wanted. By that Friday, I got over it and started dating other women. When word eventually got back to her, she went nuts and put in 110% effort to get me back. Don't be weak! Don't let her know that you feel hurt! She will never respect you after that. You need to act chill and be strong.

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ijohnb

January 1st, 2017 at 12:31 PM ^

This isn't The Real World - Vegas. Not every relationship is the equivalent of a biological pissing match. There are women that shallow but not the good ones. "Strength" is not "ah well, now check out how I can push your buttons." If it is I would get the hell out of it, quickly.

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Blue in Paradise

January 1st, 2017 at 12:53 PM ^

The ex is already moving on and playing it off as no big deal - and it driving this guy nuts. So you tell me if it's an effective strategy. I am just trying to help the guy find out whether his ex is still in to him or not. If she doesn't care that you are dating again - then it is over and move on. Or he can try begging her to take him back, I am sure that will be a good long term strategy.

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