OT: What do you do for a living? What do you drive? Social pressure?

Submitted by dupont circle on
Although my dad was in management for the Big 3, and we always had new nice cars, I've never been a car guy. Having lived in two major cities thus far after college, it seems like even my peers who said they'd never buy a car, period, let alone anything flashy, are caving. (Where did all these Audis and Land Rovers come from?) Mid to late 20s the el and Metro have officially stopped being acceptable, I guess. Amongst friends and especially at work there is this weird undercurrent to fit in or fit out, with regard to buying a luxury car or SUV. Also projecting a certain image.

1blockradius

March 10th, 2015 at 9:52 PM ^

Had a grand prix in college and one day after bartending (home for the summer) it overheated ~300ft from my parents house. I saw the engine heat light go on and thought I could coast home, but it didnt make it. Popped the hood and a couple of the belts were off. Something was in the engine compartment but I couldnt see what it was.... Some friends were already at my place waiting for me to go out so I was in a hurry.

Paid my little brother $5 to get whatever it was out - twas a cat... Now dead. Must have crawled in there when I was parked outside the bar working. I actually assumed it was a rat or squirrel. Anyway, my bro held it up for everyone to see and freaked all of us out as we watched. Still the best $5 I've ever spent.

Wonder if its a grand prix thing

LostOnNorth

March 10th, 2015 at 8:35 PM ^

1: Engineer, 2: Mustang, 3: yeah, all my friends have project cars and its hard for me not to fall into that money pit 

I feel like people from the coasts care more about having a "luxury" brand for whatver reason.

MGoBender

March 10th, 2015 at 8:37 PM ^

This is fun.

A. Teacher

B. 12 year old sedan

C. See "A"

I actually just made the first big-time "Adult move" of my life in buyng a condo.  I paid about 30k more than similar to slightly less desirable condos for one reason: location.  I will live 1.5 miles from work (opposed to 9ish).  I plan on biking any day that's not snowing or raining.  I'll save $50 a month in gas, save up to 30 minutes in travel time per day, and I'll be able to forego car payments for a long, long time.  I am of the opinion that most people overvalue home size and undervalue location/commute.  I can't believe some of my friends willingly deciding to live 40 minute drives from their place of work.

Wolverine Devotee

March 10th, 2015 at 8:42 PM ^

Going for an associate's in computer programming at my current school and then will transfer somewhere else to get my bachelor's. I just began computer programming after changing my major in January. I'm having a great time learning Linux. 

My car is a 2002 Chevy Prizm...........hey, it works, I'm happy. 

If I win the lottery, I'd get a custom Maize and Blue Mustang with Block M spinners. 

Felix.M.Blue

March 10th, 2015 at 10:11 PM ^

I've worked with Linux for a few years. Unix before that. I drove a Corrolla into the ground (275K miles). After it died I bought a 08 Camry 4 years with 30K miles already on it. Hoping to get same result with it. I have no peer pressure but I see the younger guys foolishly get sucked in all the time. Houses they can't afford, bikes, boats, you name it. It's funny and sad.

Blue Durham

March 10th, 2015 at 8:37 PM ^

Amongst friends and especially at work there is this weird undercurrent to fit in or fit out, with regard to buying a luxury car or SUV.

Don't give a shit what other people do or drive. Their choices are their choices, and are particular to their perspectives and history.

Be a man, make the decisions that are best for you and your situation. If you don't, you will always be a slave to your fears of what other people think of you. Those fears will never be satiated and be endless.

In time you will learn not only not to give a fuck, but realize that most people that drive the prestige cars you mention are living month-to-month and what they project is all image.

Suggest you read The Millionaire Next Door.  The most common car they drive is a pickup truck, they buy their suits off the rack, and they drink, not Dom Perignon, but plain beer like Budweiser.  And they live in a plain house and not a McMansion.

Most of the people that are driven to own the Audis and the BMW's, that live in the McMansions, they're the ones that eventually file for bankrupcy.  Not the guys that live well, very well within their means.

All Aboard

March 10th, 2015 at 8:39 PM ^

recent grad working in IT, happily driving the shitbox my parents were gracious enough to bestow upon me. Will cry the day that thing takes its final drive. Societal pressures are bullshit. I've got enough to worry about

DFW_Michigan_Man

March 10th, 2015 at 8:39 PM ^


1. VP of Sales for Tier 1 account
2. 2015 GMC Yukon XL / 2013 Cadillac CTS
3. The new Yukon is due to our 4th child being on the way and my reluctance to purchase a van. The Cadillac is a company car.

1blockradius

March 11th, 2015 at 3:52 AM ^

Tier1 means he doesn't work for an OEM (Original equipment manufacturer). OEMs are Ford, Chrysler, GM, etc. A Tier 1 is a supplier that sends parts directly to the OEM. A tier 2 supplier would send parts to the tier 1, but have no interaction with the OEM.

drtpushr

March 10th, 2015 at 8:41 PM ^

I own an excavating company and drive a Silverado. I am out meeting customers quite frequently and have always been myself. I not only have been successsful at getting the work, I have also made many friends through the years, just by being real.

taistreetsmyhero

March 10th, 2015 at 8:41 PM ^

1. med school

2. black and silver two-toned PT cruiser with a red racing stripe

3. the opposite of peer pressure, but beggers can't be choosers and i'll take a free car from my parents if that means avoiding more debt

Blue Balls Afire

March 10th, 2015 at 8:42 PM ^

1. Kick ass
2. A hard bargain
3. Don't care.

Actually, I'm a lawyer and I drive an Acura. I do feel social pressure with regard to the car I drive, but not in the usual sense. No one in my firm drives fancy cars! If I were to get a Mercedes or BMW, I would stand out for being ostentatious. The peer pressure is to be more low key.



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Blue Balls Afire

March 10th, 2015 at 9:05 PM ^

I think it is in a lot of firms.  I'm fortunate in that my firm bucks the trend.  I couldn't be happier that no one really cares about driving a fancy car.  A new associate a couple years ago got a new Mercedes, and it was a big deal.  He stood out for all the wrong reasons.  Ours is a different firm culture than most.

dupont circle

March 11th, 2015 at 2:26 AM ^

Ha! A super modest girl I was dating moved here with me and raved about how convenient the Metro was to take to work in the burbs, "I'll never need a car again!" By like month two she was disgusted with the Metro and begged to take my car, which generally stayed parked M-Th.

96goblue00

March 11th, 2015 at 12:35 PM ^

Having lived and worked in DC, I concur with your assessment. You can find modest/down to earth peeps in DC but, especially in the legal and lobbying industry, there is a plethora of a-holes. After Germany and Los Angeles, I think DC must have the largest concentration of German automobiles, mainly BMW and Mercedes, in the world.

Shop Smart Sho…

March 10th, 2015 at 11:09 PM ^

Great friend of mine has lived in Chicago for nearly 8 years. Bought a 30 year old Wrangler a year ago to be hist first car in 6 years.  Since he moved to Chicago he started his own business that requires travel around the city and suburbs, hauling audio/visual equipment.

Hourly car rentals and the train got him every where he needed to be.  

Only time I needed a car when I lived there was to go back to Indiana to visit family.

96goblue00

March 11th, 2015 at 1:40 PM ^

For 7 years and never owned a car. There is so much to do in and around DC (festivals, concerts, museums, etc) that you really don't need a car. Whenever I wanted to get in a hike in Shenandoah, I would rent a car for $30 for the day. I lived in Adams Morgan so having/maintaining a car would have actually been more of an inconvenience rather than a convenience.

swalburn

March 10th, 2015 at 8:43 PM ^

Prosecutor - Subaru Crosstrek

My wife is a Senior Partner at a law firm and she drives a Subaru Outback.  We just aren't car people.  The only thing I care about is having something reliable and something that can haul my bikes around all year.