META: Airing of Grievances - Bye Week Edition

Submitted by MGoClimb on

Just as our beloved Wolverines need to sort some things out over the bye week, so too do we on MGoBoard.  Whether it’s the narrow wins against Akron and UConn or the discussion of recruits, I think we can all admit that things have been more than a little tense around here.  In that light, I am creating an Airing of Grievances: Bye Week Edition thread.

Mods, if you feel this isn’t the right time, or if it spirals out of control, feel free to take this down.  However, I believe this is necessary.

TheGhostofChappuis and BlueDragon – I’ve been thinking about making this for a few days.  Thanks for finally convincing me to do it.

Blah blah blah self-moderating blah blah blah.  I wasn’t around back then.

Time to let it all out, folks.  Go.

Jacoby

September 25th, 2013 at 5:57 PM ^

GRIEVANCES:

1. The board's posting mechanism sucks for attaching pictures, video, and links. For some reason, it always gets screwed up when I try to do it, and you younger kids who built this thing ought to make it user friendly enough that us neanderthals can post without screwing it up.

2. The general level of discourse on this site has been slipping recently, and not just because of the tough Akron and UConn games making everyone whiney. Everyone is getting personal in their attacks on each other, and there is less and less substantive commentary. People are launching stupid personal attacks instead of talking about football.

3. People are over-posting. Unless you have something interesting to add, just STFU. I've read this Board for a few years now, but I barely ever jump in to say something. People should show more restraint.

In conclusion, GOML.

buddhafrog

September 25th, 2013 at 6:13 PM ^

In appreciation of this site, I think Brian and Crew have erred by not implementing the +1/-1 forum system.  Football season or not, they should have put other info aside to finish this aspect of the site.  It sets a ton for what happens here, how people respond, and the sense of ownership we all have over the site. 

beevo

September 25th, 2013 at 8:02 PM ^

I'll give it a shot. My current grievances: 1) Inability to bitch slap whiny unappreciative users on this blog. 2) Ass-hats who insist on cutting me off during my 35 mile morning commute. 3) "Don't tread on me" bumper stickers on the back of aToyota Tundra. Economic patriotism, look it up. 4) Dudes who wax their eyebrows (Whiskey Tango Foxtrot). Freaks me out a bit. 5) WOD apparel. Get over yourself, you didn't invent fitness. 6) The fucker at work who insists on nuking fish in the microwave. 7) Living in SEC country. 8) Toll roads. Can I deduct tolls from the state and federal taxes I pay to support all the other roads? 9) Ohio.

beevo

September 26th, 2013 at 8:11 AM ^

Well you must have missed the irony of plastering the back of a Tundra with patriotic propaganda.  Those hell of a lotta Americans didn't spring forth perfectly formed from Toyota's forehead.  How many displaced GM, Chrysler and/or Ford workers are there?  Having lived in several countries where there is a priority placed upon purchasing domestic products, I would say that your idea of Economic Patriotism being stupid is, in fact, stupid.  For a population that laments the loss of manufacturing jobs to so willingly seek out non-domestic products is "stupid".  Oh, and so are grown men who use snarky 90's era cartoon avatars.  /counter grievance aired.

Louie C

September 26th, 2013 at 4:19 AM ^

My life has gone to complete shit, and seriously doubt it will get better. It is a struggle for me to get out of bed in the morning, and if it wasn't for my kids, I would have checked out a while ago. It has been really hard to enjoy this season; and not because of the past two weeks, but because of the despair. I feel like such a chicken shit by reaching out anonymously on a sports blog, but I am way too embarrassed to confide in someone in my immediate circle. I feel nobody would take me seriously because I have been the pillar of strength in the family, and I am quick to laugh and smile, but the smiles and laughter are now a mask for pain. It may sound corny, but this blo g and many its mmbers n a constant slice of goodness for me, and it sucks to see it in the state that it has been in lately, wich leads me to say: relax, shit isn't that deep. Thank you Brian for your hard work and wonderful site, and thank you to the numerous Mgomembers (too many to name) for the funny and insightful posts. Go Blue forever and always.

hart20

September 26th, 2013 at 5:22 AM ^

Even though life seems bad now, it always gets better. That comes from personal experience. 

Admitting that you need help and then seeking that help is more courageous than fighting whatever you're dealing with by yourself. It's a lot tougher to take care of others, when you can't take care of yourself.

If you ever need anything, we're here for you. There are some decent enough posters on here, yet.

 

Mabel Pines

September 26th, 2013 at 7:59 AM ^

It is definitely hard to be the one who is the pillar of strength and admit you are going through rough times.  Everyone will be very super supportive, more than you know.   I have been the "pillar of strength" for my mom ever since my Dad died and let me tell you, it is a hard job.    Here's the deal:  you have kids who love you more than you know and (speaking from experience) they can't lose their Dad.  Trust me.  So here's what you need to do- make an appointment with your family doc.  (Because I know you men don't go in for your annual check ups...)  Tell him/her what is going on.  It may be as simple as an anti-depressant.  Either way, call someone.  You can't be up every night at 4:19 a.m.!  I hope you read this.  Take care.

M-Dog

September 26th, 2013 at 4:55 PM ^

The older I get, the more I realize that grievances just follow some people around no matter where they are or what they are doing.

The people with the constant grievances on this board are the same people that would have grievances at a Cub Scout bake sale.

I disagree with some of things said on this site from Brian Cook to The Knowledge, but grievances?  On a college football site?  Seriously?

This is supposed to be fun.