Honest Question: So what, now?

Submitted by Mr. Yost on

As you all may hear me say quite often, "honest question." So what do we do now? Not the team...us, the MGoBloggers who eat/breath/sleep Michigan Football.

*Note I'm not suggesting in ANY way that any of us will stop watching, rooting or cheering for Michigan...*

I suppose, like myself, for many of you Michigan football ranks near the top of your list of "Things Most Important To Me." Obviously family, religion, and a few other things outrank Michigan athletics for many of us, but the fact is...it's still priority and probably our #1 or #2 favorite outlet from life.

So what are you all planning to do to cope with the rest of the season? I'm not suggesting you won't watch another game, or won't visit MGoBlog...but I'm sure like me, you're just a touch less interested and a hell of a lot less optimistic.

I suppose this is the "ideas thread." What are you plans for the rest of the season to fill that void of Michigan football? You can't speculate about the next coach for 10 weeks, or can you?

Now secretly, us suckers know that all is not lost and we're going to say we're to going to give it less attention - but we know we can still win this awful conference, so we're going to be watching and peeking through our hands currently covering our faces. Just hoping for a game, a half, a series...hell, a play that gives us hope for the next game/half/series/play.

We're going to be trying to make sense of things by saying "maybe this is the end of this curse...we started it with a horrible non-conference season in '07...and that season finished pretty good. Maybe we're finishing it now...and this season will turn out okay too!" We're going to do anything to make ourselves believe.

But in the end, it's very likely that it just is what it is...a 6-6 team that makes us all sick because we love this program so damn much.

So if it's that, what it certainly looks like, what are you all going to do to bridge you to basketball/hockey season? Again, honest question. I'll make a list and maybe we can save an MGoLife from weeks of boredom by giving him/her an MGoHobby.

His Dudeness

September 21st, 2014 at 10:35 AM ^

The alarming thing was the student section was never more than 1/3 full. That's a serious problem. I've never seen that. They're usually the definition of die hard. That will have ramifications for years. Thanks, Dave.

MWolverine7

September 21st, 2014 at 10:35 AM ^

Listening to Jamie Morris on WTKA this morning, someone called in asking about the coaching search that was conducted when Hoke was hired.  Morris said that he heard that Harbaugh was never offered and that Brandon disrespected Miles. 

MGoStrength

September 21st, 2014 at 10:39 AM ^

This is why at the beginning of the year, when lots of people are saying we'll win 10 games that I said 8-4 sounded more realistic.  I got flack, I got downvoted, but at least I am not disapointed.  I didn't expect a great result or a great season, so things are just what they are.  Too many people let the hype get to them and get their expectations waaay too high before ever seeing any evidence.  You accept things as they are instead of what you wish they were.  You accept that all games will be close, there will be no easy wins, and dominant performances are just not there right now.  You accept that you still enjoy the team, the traditions, the players, etc.  And, you watch to enjoy versus watching only to see success.  Accept it for what it is, lower your expectations, and just let it play out and enjoy watching football.

ilah17

September 21st, 2014 at 10:41 AM ^

We still plan on going to all of the home games, plus MSU and OSU. I don't consider myself a martyr or a glutton for punishment. I just like Michigan football, win or lose, and it breaks my heart to think about what those players think when they look up and see empty stands.

UMgradMSUdad

September 21st, 2014 at 10:44 AM ^

It's the fair weather fans that have been holding this team back.  Another game or two like this, and they'll all be gone.  Then, and only then, will the team have success.

 

 

uminks

September 21st, 2014 at 10:51 AM ^

how well Indiana played to defeat Mizzou! I definitely think IU can come in and defeat Michigan. Hopefully a new coaching search is well underway. I see this as being a sub .500 season. Hoke better not be back next season!

Seth

September 21st, 2014 at 11:08 AM ^

I've had most of my world turned upside down in a matter of months. My dad died. Then his life insurance company proved to be the kind that makes life hell on widows to save a handful of months' in interest. Then my mom had a major injury this week that could finish off any optimism in life she had left. In the interim I got taken for $30,000 by a kickstarter scammer who convinced me to print thousands more copies of HTTV and the Penn State book that he'd sell in stores (he sold less than 150--all he wanted was the print job).

My MGoBlog work isn't half of a career, so since those books were turned from the majority of what I planned to make this year into a net loss, I'm cleaned out, at the same moment my entire support structure came down, and at a time when I was badly needed as someone else's support structure. This has made home life stressful as we've had to give up on doing anything that costs money while fearing the next thing that goes wrong could destroy us.

So what's a couple of 50/50 games that became blowouts in part because Michigan was unlucky and in part because Michigan puts itself at a disadvantage by not doing the things teams on their level do to gain an edge?

I'll watch football on Saturdays, and the rest of the week I'll slowly be putting the shattered pieces of my life back together. Life is brutal, and no matter how much you appreciated the things that are good in it, they can be taken away from you in a heartbeat. Bad things happen, and bad years happen, and bad people will continue to profit from not being burdened with how their actions will affect others. You can't prevent all the bad shit; you can try, and you can decide to move on despite it, and appreciate that which is still good.

Today it's sunny out, and my 6 1/2 month old daughter is learning to sit up and had her first solid meal, and she smiles at me. I start the day with that, and then I go back to work.

markusr2007

September 21st, 2014 at 11:18 AM ^

With your attitude Seth. I'm sorry about the loss of your father. I do hope things move forward and get better for you and your family. I've been in similar circumstances. It is very hard for a while. Conversely much good can come to you on a dime as well. All we can do is be ready.

ilah17

September 21st, 2014 at 11:32 AM ^

Perspective. Thanks for sharing, and I hope things start looking up for you soon. I know my smiling 6 month old son helped get me through the hard days when my mom died. Now he's five years old and currently playing Michigan Marching Band. His blind optimism and love for all things UM will help me through this season.

You Only Live Twice

September 21st, 2014 at 12:17 PM ^

You're a courageous guy, Seth, for what you're shouldering and also for even talking about it.  You are definitely not going to be destroyed.  Your family loves you and so does your MGo Blog community.

ryanlove12

September 21st, 2014 at 11:16 AM ^

I cannot contain my anger. I have zero expectations. I still will watch the score, and get pissed when we lose, but I'm not putting myself through this. I'll have 3 extra hunting hours on Saturdays I guess. I haven't missed a game since my high school playoff games made me miss them. I will miss at least the next two. Maybe more. It is unbelievable that it has come to this, but sitting in the stadium (down two scores to Utah) and hearing an enthusiastic announcer say the day's attendance was the last straw. This university does not care about football. The only thing that might change that is empty seats and lack of merchandise.

BlueGoM

September 21st, 2014 at 11:42 AM ^

OK.

So.

Well, I was thinking maybe ND was really good and that game was an outlier.  Welp. Nope.

Despite what some may say the defense is doing fine.   Neither ND or Utah ran the ball on us.  The defense is only allowing 80.3 yards / game.  We've only allowed 2 rushing TDs this year.  Keep watching Wille Henry.  He's going to be an absolute terror next season.

http://www.ncaa.com/stats/football/fbs/current/team/24

So the offense is the problem.  What do?

Mattison came in and did this:

total defense:

                                   2010: 110th  Rodriguez/Robinson
                                   2011:  17th  Hoke/Mattison

I dont know if we can find someone to do the same for the offense.  It doesn't look like Nuss is going to be able to fix it in one season.

So ... I don't know, man.   Let Hoke go, you'll probably lose Mattison, and I'd hate to see that.

OK.  Time to go.  I have other things to do.  Reality sets in, and I'm just spending time talking about college kids chasing a ball.  Gotta go.

DealerCamel

September 21st, 2014 at 11:45 AM ^

Each Saturday, I'm gonna go to McGreevy's as I did this past Saturday and cheer on the team, and I'm gonna watch every second.

I went to the MSU game last year.  It was high-30s and raining the whole game, and I could barely move after the game was over, but when "Shout" came on in the fourth quarter, I said, "Dammit, I'm going to enjoy myself," and danced with the rest of the student section, cracking jokes with all the Spartans around me and generally trying to have a good time. 

And that's how the rest of the year is gonna go for me.  The team will be what it will be, and I'll stick with them, and if I ever meet any of them in person I'll shake their hand and buy them a drink.

erald01

September 21st, 2014 at 12:06 PM ^

Ok sports is not REAL, so lets not loose our lives over it..there are plenty of things to do, and once in awhile we need to do a reality check..more important things in life. Yes we the crazy fans do take it to another level especially when posting on forums. I will still watch the team and if i notice they suck I will go and pursue my other hobbies, go take the kids out, hit the gym or work on my vette. I love football and as an alumni love Michigan football even more, BUT i have come to realize that we are not good anymore and I am not going to put all my energy in it or get upset over it. Its another thing loosing close games and its another thing being a circus out there. Michigan has one of the biggest fan base/alumni in the country and the athletic department should be ashame of themsleves for puting out garbage out there.

BornInA2

September 21st, 2014 at 12:09 PM ^

Today is a beautiful, uncharacteristically warm first day of Fall. I'm going to work on the yard and garage and smile.

For me, the one positive of the RR years is that I detached my happiness from the results of Michigan football games. Oh, I still want them to win, win big, and play well, but when they don't I just move along to the next thing.

I'm also clear that I don't want a coach in charge of 100+ kids who screams at them, spits in their faces, berates and belittles them, breaks rules to win, and teaches them that those things are okay to do if they generate the desired result. i just don't believe that, and I wouldn't want my kid being taught by someone like that.

Our D is solid this year. The offense just seems so close...like all the puzzle pieces are there, laid out in the correct order, but someone just needs to quickly and simply connect/assemble them. It is, to me, truly puzzling.

I don't think firing an OC who's been with us for four games is the solution, either short or long term.

I sat through the weather delay yesterday because I wanted to watch more Michigan football. For the reason above I remained optimistic. I was, in the end, disappointed, but still, I tuned in on my computer to ESPN3 and watched the final minutes play out for a mostly empty stadium. So I'll keep watching. And hell, I already have tickets, airline and game, to take my 17 year old daughter to the Maryland game. She's never been in The Big House, and I've not been for over 20 years, and we're both excited to share that experience.

Go Blue!

OD

September 21st, 2014 at 12:45 PM ^

I registered here awhile ago. I started checking out the various opinions at my brothers insistence as to the quality of posts. I find myself entering into unfamiliar territory here now, not as a bystander but as a contributor.  I prefer the quite reserve of the bystander enjoying my Saturdays this time of year with my family, friends, and favorite team.  Spending my Sunday’s reading as much of the news on the Victors as possible with Roary and the Leo's on the TV in the background.

I too plan my Saturday's around the boys in Maize & Blue.  And yes, I will continue to plan my Saturday's and support the Team I love because that’s what my family does and has always done.....well always as far back as my 45 years can recall.  

But, I can’t stop feeling like the Carr lost GPS reception since the last decent pilot (Lloyd) left the helm in 2007 and double R stepped in.  Has there been so much damage done to the "The Program" over the last 6 years that it has become just another game in the slew of games on Saturday?  Is the stigma of the Big House wearing thin?

The pilotless Carr, the ridiculous schedule, the mounting losses, the Monday mornings in the office facing the slappies in green that dont know how to handle the little success they have achieved!

Love this game, love this team....but am Maized & Confused as to what the future holds.

SFBlue

September 21st, 2014 at 3:42 PM ^

The truth of the matter is that watching Michigan is an unhealthy outlet right now, at my historical level of committment, and it's been that way for at least the last two falls.  Here's what I have been doing to mitigate the present reality:

1.  Staying sober during games.  This is critical, because remaining sober modulates my reactions, emotions, & etc., and then after the game I am in shape to do any healthy activity (yoga, basketball, math) that my mind and body need.

2.  Watching the games with the sound off, and a record on.  Listening to the likes of Spielman gets under my skin, even though his critcisms are generally correct and fair.  I usually play metal when Michigan is winning, and some kind of moody music when they are losing.  I find it allows for detachment. 

3.  Watching the game at home, and not a bar.  Obviously related to (1), but separately important because I can mix productive activities (doing the dishes, situps, work) into watching the game.  Fifteen minutes of productivity here and there makes for a different feeling after a loss.  I am sure that this is something functioning (and married) adults have known for some time, but I am just now discovering it. I generally watched even the most dreadful moments of 2008, 2009, 2010, 2013 at sports bars (Purdue 2008, 2011 Gator Bowl being the dregs), and I am not sure it helped at all. 

 

MotleyBlue

September 21st, 2014 at 6:11 PM ^

This is what I'm going to do. I'm going to try to think about M football only on an as needed basis during the week. I will frequent Mgoblog to make sure I'm not alone in my misery. Because we all know misery loves company.

Every saturday, I will don my M gear and watch my beloved Wolverines. As I am a glutton for punishment.

I will watch, knowing that the Mighty Michigan from my childhood/college years is dormant for now. I will refrain from swearing, drinking excessively, domestic violence. It will be long. It will be painful. And it will seem like this pain is NEVER going to end.

But one day it will end. We will be back on top someday. I'm only 32, I may/will live to see it. The rest of you? I'm sorry....... At least you had the 90s.