May you remember him fondly, and may the sorrow of his passing ease. Great post.

I lost my father when i was a Soph. in high school. He's half the reason why I'm a Michigan fan. He made me come in the livingroom once to watch a basketball game and thats when I fell in love with Webber and Michigan. At times I feel like my the biggest Michigan fan in the world and I owe it to my father. Sorry to hear about your loss and GO BLUE!!

Thanks for sharing.

My condolences to you and your family, and thanks for sharing.

As time goes by, the details of those last painful days will be edged out by better, happier memories. These are the ones that will have staying power.  

Last weekend, I was helping lead a men's retreat for our church. An unofficial part of that weekend was gathering around a TV and watching the second half of the Notre Dame game. It was special to say the least. 

The next morning at breakfast, the talk turned to great Michigan moments of the past. As one of the "older guys," I was asked where I was for the Wangler-to-Carter miracle. My dad and I were glued to the Bob Ufer broadcast coming from one of those big stereo console units. When the great play occurred me and my normally stoic father were jumping up and down in the living room shouting with joy. We knocked everything off the knickknack shelf. We thought Mom was going to kill us both. Murder did indeed cross her mind, but she saw how happy we were, quietly picked everything up on the floor, and left the room, shaking her head back and forth and grinning. 

So treasure every moment and trust that these are the things that will endure. 

Well said, my friend. Well said.

Thank you for sharing such a moving post on family, sports and the bond that is formed because of that.

thanks for the post.

certainly the loss of a parent is a strange and surreal experience (unfortunately speaking from experience here). 

my best to you all -

and I lost my dad last year, next month is the 1 year anniversary. The only reason my dad like football and watched games with me was because he saw how much I loved it. I like to think of him laughing when I go crazy watching the games and I know he was laughing his ass off watching me have a heart attack on saturday.

Really sorry to hear about the loss of your dad.   

Last weekend, my son, a recent graduate of Michigan and now in med school, and I met in Ann Arbor for the game weekend.  We did lots of things together and he did his late night stuff with his Michigan buds, but we went to the game together.  When the clock was finally at 0:00 and the place was going nuts, he looked at me and said how happy he was to have shared the game with me, and we hugged.  It made a special night that much more special. 

I have gone to many Michigan games with both my sons, both Michigan alums, and It never grows old.  While your dad may be gone, the memories will be with you for a lifetime.

My 10 year old fifth grader is playing football, starting on the DL. Saturday morning, I got to watch his game, Saturday night we watched UM beat ND together, and Sunday after church, we caught part of the Bears game. I cherish the time I have with him, because the days are flying by, and he won't be a boy for long. We're looking forward to UM - Northwestern, another night game. While it won't be the same as UM - ND, it looks like they are already sold out, and we'll be creating yet more memories. I'm so glad you and your father were able to share your love of sports together.

I lost my dad this past February, almost exactly an hour after the Super Bowl ended.  He had endured an almost 15 year battle with a brain tumor which finally started to get the best of him in late 2010.  I tired to stay stoic too, but when I saw him for the first time in the coffin, I couldn't stop the tears, especially since I hadn't seen him 3 months (living far away never helps either).  I somehow pulled together for the wakes and the funeral, but I still think about him all the time.

Sports can help the grieving process a lot, especially when it brings up those memories you cherished with a loved one.  I remember one year in high school, my dad surprised me Subway Series tickets.  They were 7th row on the 3rd base line.  I got to meet Derek Jeter, Jorge Posada, and Ruben Sierra.  Later that night, we shared a great steak dinner and got to meet Jim Kaat.  I will never forget it.

I am sorry for your loss.  My prayers go out to you and your family.  

It was so sad and yet uplifting in many ways.  Sports create a wonderful bond between friends and family and the death of a loved one brings back so many thoughts of the good times.

One of my good friends from UM Law School used to phone every year upon the first Wolverine touchdown.  He lived in Park City while I ilved in SoCal.  He passed away a couple of years ago at the age of about 63.  I think of the guy every fall upon our first score.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.  Your father was such a young man.

Great story -- thanks for sharing.  A little off topic but my dad and I are going up to where he grew up for Germanfest -- just him and I along with our friends, aunts, uncles and cousins.  It's going to be a great time to share some beers with him and be surrounded by family.  I'm definitely going to take it all in.

Very sorry for your loss, 61 is too young.  But the day ended on a nice positive note.

I lost my father two years ago..When I was 10 I BEGGED him to take me to a Michigan Fooball game. We live 6 hours away and to be frank my Dad didnt have the money at that time but SOMEHOW he managed to get 4 tickets to the 1973 Michigan-Ohio St game that ended in a 10-10 tie. I got to take two of buddies..Needless to say I was a popular Kid that week as I decided which two lucky friends would join us..we drove 6 Hours in driving rain on a COLD Nov sat..When we arrived the rain stopped the game was played and I was Hooked on Michigan..My dad  cheered for both M and MSU and up to that point I think he leaned MSU..From that point forward he and I bonded as father and son and he was all Michigan after that.

We spent many a Saturday watching Michigan Football growing up..When I grew up and Moved away we talked every saturday after every Michigan game on the Phone and kept up with each others lives. My Dad taught me many valuable lessons including working hard, being on time, famil,y faith, friends and Country.

I loved my Dad, Miss him terribly..I miss watching football with Him and my three sons.

After Satufdays game my Eldest..10 said Dad I bet Grandpa is celebrating Tonight!!

I replied..Are you a MICHIGAN Man? He said GO BLUE!!!! Mission accomplished!

Ill keep teaching  him and the 2 younger ones as they get older what that Means

I am back in A2 this week for my father's upcoming memorial this Saturday. I feel you. I came in to spend a week ahead of that with the family - and also to attend the game, the first one that I had attended since the Phil Brabbs last second win over Washington in 2002. That was the first time I had made it to the stadium since I graduated in 1981. I guess I pick them well.

My father died of old age at 90, and I am fortunate, as is all of the family, that we have not had such an illness strike us over the years.

I appreciate your words and your sense of grace in dealing with the whole situation.

Thank you for sharing this, my parents went through some difficult times a couple years back that caused a pretty big strain on my dad and I's relationship.  To make a long story short our love of Michigan has helped to mend that relationship from sharing our 1st ever set of season tickets last year, to taking in the ND game last weekend.  As you said we always just "turn the game on"..